Being so unmotivated that you're even too lazy to talk to your crush: is it a sign of a major mental health issue?

[thecel]

Today, I procrastinated on responding to my crush's text for 13 hours. I was just too lazy.

I'm also extremely lazy when it comes to schoolwork, personal projects, and even parts of my daily routine (e.g. some days I might just not feel like going outside to exercise, and sometimes I might skip washing my hair or flossing).

I'm not motivated to do the things I really want to do (or at least I think I want them). Getting females is the strongest desire of pretty much all men. If I'm too lazy to do the #1 thing every guy wants, then is there really anything I'm motivated to do?

Is this a symptom of a big problem, like mental illness?

 

[Adriana Lima]

Low sex drive prehaps

 

[FastBananaCEO]

Not really. Eventually after enough rejections you kinda know what the outcome is gonna be and you stop feeling motivated to try anymore. With my first crushes I obsessively tried my best to talk to them as much as I can. When it got to the fourth girl as soon as she didn’t show interest I just stopped trying. That was a long time ago though.

 

[thecel]

Low sex drive prehaps

I don't think so. I fap every day

 

[Deleted member 6475]

She is too ugly probably
If a hot girl wants to text with me i get heart racing ngl

 

[Deleted member 11370]

Today, I procrastinated on responding to my crush's text for 13 hours.

I'm not motivated to do the things I really want to do (or at least I think I want them). Is this a symptom of a big problem, like mental illness?

your crush is either 1 psl or you got 0 T or she has a personality of a sexdoll.

one of the three.

 

[Adriana Lima]

I don't think so. I fap every day

That's probably why then, you are substituting the pursuit of a women with cheap coomies

 

[WadlowMaxxing]

you're just autistic

 

[Deleted member 11406]

I'm seriously concerned you gonna become connor murphy mental health tier if your crush rejects you

 

[Deleted member 11406]

you're just autistic

And obsessed

 

[thecel]

She is too ugly probably
If a hot girl wants to text with me i get heart racing ngl

I literally said I have a crush on her

 

[Deleted member 6475]

I literally said I have a crush on her

Doesnt matter u still know her value is below most other girls

 

[Adriana Lima]

I literally said I have a crush on her

Your avi makes me sick when I look at it bro

 

[thecel]

your crush is either 1 psl or you got 0 T or she has a personality of a sexdoll.

one of the three.

How come no one has answered the question properly

The issue is a lack of motivation. I used talking to my crush as the prime example. Cuz if I'm not motivated to do the thing that motivates all males, then what am I motivated to do? Nothing. Cuz talking to my crush is the thing I want to do the most, and I'm even too lazy to do that.

 

[Deleted member 11370]

How come no one has answered the question properly

The issue is a lack of motivation. I used talking to my crush as the prime example. Cuz if I'm not motivated to do the thing that motivates all males, then what am I motivated to do? Nothing. Cuz talking to my crush is the thing I want to do the most, and I'm even too lazy to do that.

your low T, or is she's not a fun person to be around (other than looks).

 

[thecel]

Doesnt matter u still know her value is below most other girls

Actually it'd make me want to more cus I might have a real chance with ugly girls, whereas with hot girls there's no point in trying.

 

[thecel]

your low T, or is she's not a fun person to be around (other than looks).

She is a fun person to be around. But I've only texted and FaceTimed her. I haven't met up with her face-to-face yet.

 

[Deleted member 11370]

She is a fun person to be around

your depressed or very low T, fix yourself.

get a hobby or something that can cheer you up.

 

[thecel]

your depressed or very low T, fix yourself.

get a hobby or something that can cheer you up.

Sadly my hobbies are all on hiatus because I'm too lazy to do them.

 

[Adriana Lima]

Sadly my hobbies are all on hiatus because I'm too lazy to do them.

Since when did girls care about hobbies lmaooo

 

[thecel]

Since when did girls care about hobbies lmaooo

@Spiral was talking about depression and motivation

 

[Deleted member 9666]

Sounds like me a few years ago. I just grew out of it.

I would see a doctor and get some blood work done.

 

[Deleted member 12303]

its a sign you dont feel confident with your looks

 

[thecel]

its a sign you dont feel confident with your looks

Does confidence mean you have to think you're gl? Cus I consider myself confident in my ugliness. I'm 2.5/10, and I'm not ashamed of it

 

[Deleted member 12303]

Does confidence mean you have to think you're gl? Cus I consider myself confident in my ugliness. I'm 2.5/10, and I'm not ashamed of it

if your attractive you knows theres less risk for heartbreak going in and always the possiblity to just try with someone else