Being treated like a kid by BJJ team-mates

[FailedNormieManlet]

After every lesson guys in my class legit tell me "you did good buddy, I get it's tough for a small guy, but good for you on sticking through with it" and other child-like comments, often get told by the older dudes "well done buddy!".

Today one dude asked how old I was, when I said 21 he was so surprised. Dude fr thought I was 18/19 ffs. It's so over, I'm like the baby in that class, everyone is nice to me and shit but it's probably the biggest blackpill for me tbh. I'm literally a kid.

 

[Deleted member 14905]

After every lesson guys in my class legit tell me "you did good buddy, I get it's tough for a small guy, but good for you on sticking through with it" and other child-like comments, often get told by the older dudes "well done buddy!".

Today one dude asked how old I was, when I said 21 he was so surprised. Dude fr thought I was 18/19 ffs. It's so over, I'm like the baby in that class, everyone is nice to me and shit but it's probably the biggest blackpill for me tbh. I'm literally a kid.

"keep your head up short king" i think that's what normies say to manlets bro Fuck normies i hope they all die from the vaccine

 

[SadLivwr]

After every lesson guys in my class legit tell me "you did good buddy, I get it's tough for a small guy, but good for you on sticking through with it" and other child-like comments, often get told by the older dudes "well done buddy!".

Today one dude asked how old I was, when I said 21 he was so surprised. Dude fr thought I was 18/19 ffs. It's so over, I'm like the baby in that class, everyone is nice to me and shit but it's probably the biggest blackpill for me tbh. I'm literally a kid.

I mean theyre being nice and courteous to you dude, a lot of other people wouldnt be like that

 

[FailedNormieManlet]

I mean theyre being nice and courteous to you dude, a lot of other people wouldnt be like that

I like them, they are good people who try to help me out and look out for me - a new guy who outweighed me by 30kg was being really rough on me, and one of the bigger guys in the gym choked the shit out of the guy because he was being rough and trying to just steam roll through rather than do shit with technique

 

[Prettyboy]

 

[Lev Peshkov]

That’s the superiority they feel over you due to mogging them. Mog them, you will get respect if you have power and something they respect. It’s how natural hierarchy’s work: notice how people in power are usually rich influential chads

 

[galego123]

hang in there kid.

 

[galego123]

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just have a gigachad face and gigachad status and money theory

 

[nastynas]

BJJ is pointless if you are not planning to compete

 

[maxxedfalloutdweller]

BJJ is pointless if you are not planning to compete

Should i compete

 

[nastynas]

Should i compete

idk, up to you

 

[hebbewem]

He probaly though you were 12

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

This is brutal nigga, you need to train harder than they do so next time you spar with these guys you put them in their place

 

[Max Frauder]

You're 21 but incredulous someone thought you were 18/19? One day you'll realize how ridiculous your reaction to that is.

Be happy you're learning and they're treating you well instead of bullying your negative ass and risking injuring you.

 

[Acee]

You're 21 but incredulous someone thought you were 18/19? One day you'll realize how ridiculous your reaction to that is.

Be happy you're learning and they're treating you well instead of bullying your negative ass and risking injuring you.

 

[House Lannister]

Nigga thinks he’s baby faced cause someone thought he was 2 years younger than he is

 

[Gonthar]

After every lesson guys in my class legit tell me "you did good buddy, I get it's tough for a small guy, but good for you on sticking through with it" and other child-like comments, often get told by the older dudes "well done buddy!".

Maybe you should try other sports more suited for smaller guys: ping-pong, figure skating, surfing, horse racing, Formula One, etc...

 

[Clark69]

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[Deleted member 17829]

After every lesson guys in my class legit tell me "you did good buddy, I get it's tough for a small guy, but good for you on sticking through with it" and other child-like comments, often get told by the older dudes "well done buddy!".

Today one dude asked how old I was, when I said 21 he was so surprised. Dude fr thought I was 18/19 ffs. It's so over, I'm like the baby in that class, everyone is nice to me and shit but it's probably the biggest blackpill for me tbh. I'm literally a kid.

wtf man no one was nice to me at the gym i went to

im telling u man, ethnics just fit in better somehow

 

[BearBoy]

meanwhile niggas thought i was 18 - 21 at age 15 and sometimes even got mistaken as a teacher.

 

[Mouthbreath]

wtf man no one was nice to me at the gym i went to

im telling u man, ethnics just fit in better somehow

there is an automatic connection if you're a minority

 

[prettyboislime]

After every lesson guys in my class legit tell me "you did good buddy, I get it's tough for a small guy, but good for you on sticking through with it" and other child-like comments, often get told by the older dudes "well done buddy!".

Today one dude asked how old I was, when I said 21 he was so surprised. Dude fr thought I was 18/19 ffs. It's so over, I'm like the baby in that class, everyone is nice to me and shit but it's probably the biggest blackpill for me tbh. I'm literally a kid.

This is lifefuel. As a 6’3 mulatto you never get treated like this anymore. Getting these types of comments would make me feel warm and happy like if i was a kid again.

 

[hebbewem]

People assume i am older then i actually is

 

[FailedNormieManlet]

wtf man no one was nice to me at the gym i went to

im telling u man, ethnics just fit in better somehow

They’re all white guys who tell me this. Eastern Europeans, they even offer me lifts back home

 

[Marco Polo]

What kind of treatment did you expect?

 

[FailedNormieManlet]

What kind of treatment did you expect?

To be treated like an adult

 

[Marco Polo]

To be treated like an adult

BJJ is basically trying to mog each other on the ground, plus you're 5'5 and probably have a high trust face, so if you ask me this is to be expected, but they'll respect you more and more if you'll get better

 

[FailedNormieManlet]

BJJ is basically trying to mog each other on the ground, plus you're 5'5 and probably have a high trust face, so if you ask me this is to be expected, but they'll respect you more and more if you'll get better

Yeah my face is giga high trust lol