disillusioned
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I've concluded this watching both my parents, myself, and various other couples/friends etc that have mediocre or ugly looks. It's like the internal realization (even if they don't say it openly) that they aren't very good looking and/or are stuck with a mediocre or ugly looking mate has driven then insane over time so they are basically just constantly angry/annoyed/frusturated etc. I would be shocked if couples were both parties are sexually attractive are angry very often. They might sometimes argue sure, but they won't be constantly passive-aggressive. In my family 90% of interaction between my parents (or for that matter, my own interaction with them) is passive aggressive.