Best jobs to socialize and make friends?

TerminatorGenisys9

TerminatorGenisys9

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I have difficulty going up to groups and talking to people or even after I make friends I often don’t know how to ask to hang out with these new friends or go out with them. Any advice?

I feel like a job could help me find at least a new close friend or something which I really want just to be able to get close to someone new. Also possibility to meet girls via job.
 
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You're over contemplating it. Just talk to people, they are likely just as lonely as you.
 
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boba tea shop
 
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You're over contemplating it. Just talk to people, they are likely just as lonely as you.
Where do I find people bro? I go to class my room and partying with the same friends. My main reason for wanting to rush a frat next semester is to just have a group of close friends who I can do something with every day.

I used to be fine with being alone since I could make a lot of money and still do but now I don’t have my pc so I’m not gaming and I just wanna be out doing stuff
 
I have difficulty going up to groups and talking to people or even after I make friends I often don’t know how to ask to hang out with these new friends or go out with them. Any advice?

I feel like a job could help me find at least a new close friend or something which I really want just to be able to get close to someone new. Also possibility to meet girls via job.
Easiest is from corporate job, imo, but you will have to work corporate. You can try group sports activities, like running club and stuff like that if u like it too.
 
Easiest is from corporate job, imo, but you will have to work corporate. You can try group sports activities, like running club and stuff like that if u like it too.

I have difficulty going up to groups and talking to people or even after I make friends I often don’t know how to ask to hang out with these new friends or go out with them. Any advice?

I feel like a job could help me find at least a new close friend or something which I really want just to be able to get close to someone new. Also possibility to meet girls via job.
Coffee shops are great somewhere where alot of ppl ur age go im guessing ur still young
 
Where do I find people bro? I go to class my room and partying with the same friends. My main reason for wanting to rush a frat next semester is to just have a group of close friends who I can do something with every day.

I used to be fine with being alone since I could make a lot of money and still do but now I don’t have my pc so I’m not gaming and I just wanna be out doing stuff
It might sound copeish but just walk up to people and talk. People have a lot more in common than you might think. Youre old enough that socializing should come easy
 
Easiest is from corporate job, imo, but you will have to work corporate. You can try group sports activities, like running club and stuff like that if u like it too.
I might try some sport clubs but even when im grown up at a corporate job i feel like it would be so weird to make friends within that job. I think all this comes from no experience
 
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Coffee shops are great somewhere where alot of ppl ur age go im guessing ur still young
Wouldn’t it be weird going into a coffee shop just to socialize when people are trying to do work?
 
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It might sound copeish but just walk up to people and talk. People have a lot more in common than you might think. Youre old enough that socializing should come easy
Once I start talking to people it does come easy it’s just finding them and then advancing plans with them
 
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Wouldn’t it be weird going into a coffee shop just to socialize when people are trying to do work?
Nono working there and seeing ppl ur age somtimes mlst ppl go there to do non imp stuff and by js serving them or wtv can improve u
 
Once I start talking to people it does come easy it’s just finding them and then advancing plans with them
Theres a lot of people so losing one's attention isn't an issue. Just try your luck and see who you like
 
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Nono i man working there
Oh my bad I was tripping sorry. Yeah that could be cool. I’ve been trying to get on campus university jobs since the pay starts at like $15 and I’d be with other students but I haven’t heard back from any jobs. A coffee shop near by the school might be good for socializing.

I’ll be trying to get the least amount of hours possible as I’m only doing this to become more nt and not for the money.
 
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I might try some sport clubs but even when im grown up at a corporate job i feel like it would be so weird to make friends within that job. I think all this comes from no experience
Ye I was very shy and you eventually get the hang of it, don't overthink it the sooner you start trying the better because it's all about that
 
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I have difficulty going up to groups and talking to people or even after I make friends I often don’t know how to ask to hang out with these new friends or go out with them. Any advice?

I feel like a job could help me find at least a new close friend or something which I really want just to be able to get close to someone new. Also possibility to meet girls via job.
u gotta approach ngl. it takes js ONE 1 friend bro. and hes gonna introduce u to his social circle and it snowballs like that

i have a decent social circle now thanks to that it was only 1 person.
 
Anything in front of house service: bartending, waiter, etc. Forces you to interact with people all the time.
 
Waiter , retail store , bartender somewhere you are face to face with people and you are forced to talk with them no matter if you like them or not . And your co workers are usually young .
 
A job where you meet the same people regulary and if you like similar thingd even better
 
I have difficulty going up to groups and talking to people or even after I make friends I often don’t know how to ask to hang out with these new friends or go out with them. Any advice?

I feel like a job could help me find at least a new close friend or something which I really want just to be able to get close to someone new. Also possibility to meet girls via job.
Gay club bouncer
 
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