Best time to ask out my crush?

[enriquecuador]

There’s actually a few times I can

This morning she was walking next to me pretty much, just like at the same pace, that would have been a good time but I was too scared

Now I could ask her out at school but like she’s probably with her friends and shit

After school at the station is when I was planning to do it

But should I do it while waiting for the train? when we get on the train? Or when I am about to get off?

 

[divinesub5]

There’s actually a few times I can

This morning she was walking next to me pretty much, just like at the same pace, that would have been a good time but I was too scared

Now I could ask her out at school but like she’s probably with her friends and shit

After school at the station is when I was planning to do it

But should I do it while waiting for the train? when we get on the train? Or when I am about to get off?

best way is via text
or if u dont want to do it while waiting for train

 

[enriquecuador]

best way is via text
or if u dont want to do it while waiting for train

I’m confused on what you mean by the last part?

 

[ajshabs]

just do it asap before it’s too late and u will regret not taking action

also is she just a rando or do you speak to her frequently

 

[IlI]

take action
talk face to face dont use social apps like a high inhib low social iq guy would do(better success rate i swear)
thats like ur tenth post about that one girl just dont be shy
being rejected hurts less than keeping it inside and killing all your chance

 

[enriquecuador]

just do it asap before it’s too late and u will regret not taking action

also is she just a rando or do you speak to her frequently

We don’t really know eachother that well. Probably not random though.

 

[enriquecuador]

take action
talk face to face dont use social apps like a high inhib low social iq guy would do(better success rate i swear)
thats like ur tenth post about that one girl just dont be shy
being rejected hurts less than keeping it inside and killing all your chance

Yes man I post a lot about her idk I guess I overthink . I am going to take action. Not today probably though because she may have taken the earlier train

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

yeah just ask her out throught text, like it's no big deal
don't "confess" tho just ask her to go to the movies or the date you have in mind
do it asap, before she thinks of you as just a friend

 

[IlI]

Yes man I post a lot about her idk I guess I overthink . I am going to take action. Not today probably though because she may have taken the earlier train

that thing happened to me like 6 times bro (19 y.o rn)
3 of them i didnt even talk and i regret so bad
1 of them rejected
2 of them (1 of them was like 1 week ago tho) accepted
reject or accept didnt really hurt but not asking hurts so bad like there is still question marks on my mind if i was brave enough what would happen

 

[IlI]

yeah just ask her out throught text, like it's no big deal
don't "confess" tho just ask her to go to the movies or the date you have in mind
do it asap, before she thinks of you as just a friend

never text
text doesnt works if she isnt already dying for you she will just think you are weird for not brave enough to talk face to face
be a man for once and talk to that bitch

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

never text
text doesnt works if she isnt already dying for you she will just think you are weird for not brave enough to talk face to face
be a man for once and talk to that bitch

if she's always with friends, its better through text
but yes if op can talk to her 1 on 1 irl that much better
but he shouldn't wait for the perfect occasion to be 1 on 1 with her to ask her out

 

[enriquecuador]

that thing happened to me like 6 times bro (19 y.o rn)
3 of them i didnt even talk and i regret so bad
1 of them rejected
2 of them (1 of them was like 1 week ago tho) accepted
reject or accept didnt really hurt but not asking hurts so bad like there is still question marks on my mind if i was brave enough what would happen

Yeah I’m just gonna do it next time I see her and she’s not with her twin brother/friends

 

[feb27oo]

When she is drunk

 

[ajshabs]

We don’t really know eachother that well. Probably not random though.

then don’t ask her out but just try to get to know her better

or if you are at a party and u see her there and u are both intoxicated then you can expose your feelings for her and if it backfires the next day when you are sober you can just tell her that you was drunk and didn’t mean anything

second option is ideal and usually works quite well as long as you are not LTN

 

[enriquecuador]

then don’t ask her out but just try to get to know her better

or if you are at a party and u see her there and u are both intoxicated then you can expose your feelings for her and if it backfires the next day when you are sober you can just tell her that you was drunk and didn’t mean anything

second option is ideal and usually works quite well as long as you are not LTN

I’m not the type to go to partys and she definitely isn’t sadly.

 

[autisticm]

There’s actually a few times I can

This morning she was walking next to me pretty much, just like at the same pace, that would have been a good time but I was too scared

Now I could ask her out at school but like she’s probably with her friends and shit

After school at the station is when I was planning to do it

But should I do it while waiting for the train? when we get on the train? Or when I am about to get off?

What is ur rating

 

[Deleted member 151017]

There’s actually a few times I can

This morning she was walking next to me pretty much, just like at the same pace, that would have been a good time but I was too scared

Now I could ask her out at school but like she’s probably with her friends and shit

After school at the station is when I was planning to do it

But should I do it while waiting for the train? when we get on the train? Or when I am about to get off?

Do it next time you see her

 

[hollowlight]

There’s actually a few times I can

This morning she was walking next to me pretty much, just like at the same pace, that would have been a good time but I was too scared

Now I could ask her out at school but like she’s probably with her friends and shit

After school at the station is when I was planning to do it

But should I do it while waiting for the train? when we get on the train? Or when I am about to get off?

tbh depends on how much you talk w her, if yall don't know each other much or talk here and other or frequently but either way u should ask her out no matter what, and do it face to face not behind the screen

 

[enriquecuador]

What is ur rating

Rating of what?

 

[enriquecuador]

Do it next time you see her

That’s the plan

 

[autisticm]

Rating of what?

Ur face

 

[Starvepilled]

There’s actually a few times I can

This morning she was walking next to me pretty much, just like at the same pace, that would have been a good time but I was too scared

Now I could ask her out at school but like she’s probably with her friends and shit

After school at the station is when I was planning to do it

But should I do it while waiting for the train? when we get on the train? Or when I am about to get off?

Casually do it before you get off the train, if it works you and her will both be excited on ur way home

and if it doesnt you wont have to be in an awkward situation

 

[enriquecuador]

Casually do it before you get off the train, if it works you and her will both be excited on ur way home

and if it doesnt you wont have to be in an awkward situation

Yes good idea

 

[Deleted member 153026]

There’s actually a few times I can

This morning she was walking next to me pretty much, just like at the same pace, that would have been a good time but I was too scared

Now I could ask her out at school but like she’s probably with her friends and shit

After school at the station is when I was planning to do it

But should I do it while waiting for the train? when we get on the train? Or when I am about to get off?

Take action, don’t be afraid of rejection, it will only inspire you to rot on forums like this even harder