Anyanglover
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I tried the bar thing. Turns out, women get hit on all the time, non-stop, wherever they are, and they are really sick and tired of it. They want to just go to a bar with friends, have a drink, and not fend off 400 men gunning to get in their pants. Yes, of course; there are those that are genuinely interested in them. Too bad; majority want in their pants and you're going to get shut down along with them....unless you're an incredibly attractive man. In which case, you will be fine.
I tried activities. Surprisingly, other men have tried this too and, yet again; women are sick and tired of men hitting on them when they're just there to rock climb/jog/do the sport. Who would have guessed it?
Tinder? Oh you mean that Ego Boost app where nobody ever replies to anyone, ever; and its just a waste of time? Maybe you'll be lucky. 48 matches in, and about 4 have actually messaged back, and 0 have continued past a few days.
Dating websites? Take the shotgun approach: Message 600,000,000 women and if you're lucky maybe 1 or 2 will actually find your message buried in the thousands they get every day. The hope is minimal but better than most places. Bare in mind if your pictures are not absolutely pitch perfect, you're probably screwed. The decision to even bother with you is made strictly off your picture. The amount of women I've messaged who didn't even look at my profile before ignoring/blocking me is resounding. No, I am not a lunkhead; my messages are not "ay gurl, u want sum fuk?" I read their profile and send them genuine messages.
Social Meetups? Yeah parties and gatherings are a cool way to meet people, depending on your age group and how often these happen. In my late 20s....not so much. Work meet ups are filled with 40-60 year olds and I'm not too interested in dating someone who has kids my age, and i'm past the whole "college party" era where theres a drunken fest every weekend to attend.
Social networking: "Hey I got this friend who you might be interested in...." never pass these up. Yes they'll almost ALWAYS fail but....again, shoot in the dark. Meeting new people of the opposite gender in any way shape and form is the way to succeed regardless.
TL;DR You're fucked either way, but dating websites have a slightly higher chance so....knock yourself out.
I tried activities. Surprisingly, other men have tried this too and, yet again; women are sick and tired of men hitting on them when they're just there to rock climb/jog/do the sport. Who would have guessed it?
Tinder? Oh you mean that Ego Boost app where nobody ever replies to anyone, ever; and its just a waste of time? Maybe you'll be lucky. 48 matches in, and about 4 have actually messaged back, and 0 have continued past a few days.
Dating websites? Take the shotgun approach: Message 600,000,000 women and if you're lucky maybe 1 or 2 will actually find your message buried in the thousands they get every day. The hope is minimal but better than most places. Bare in mind if your pictures are not absolutely pitch perfect, you're probably screwed. The decision to even bother with you is made strictly off your picture. The amount of women I've messaged who didn't even look at my profile before ignoring/blocking me is resounding. No, I am not a lunkhead; my messages are not "ay gurl, u want sum fuk?" I read their profile and send them genuine messages.
Social Meetups? Yeah parties and gatherings are a cool way to meet people, depending on your age group and how often these happen. In my late 20s....not so much. Work meet ups are filled with 40-60 year olds and I'm not too interested in dating someone who has kids my age, and i'm past the whole "college party" era where theres a drunken fest every weekend to attend.
Social networking: "Hey I got this friend who you might be interested in...." never pass these up. Yes they'll almost ALWAYS fail but....again, shoot in the dark. Meeting new people of the opposite gender in any way shape and form is the way to succeed regardless.
TL;DR You're fucked either way, but dating websites have a slightly higher chance so....knock yourself out.