Discussion Blackpill has ruined my life (but also saved it)

[Orettaisbetta]

I used to be a happy young sub 5 human who didn't care about looks than I found blackpill and Im literally analysing my face to oblivion to the point my mood depends on how good I think I look that day. It insanely brutal the facial dysmorphia is killing me wouldn't be having this if I was prime chico it's OVER

HOW DO U COPE

 

[Acne Victim]

Same for me but I already used to hate my looks before, I was too smart fo fall for the bluepill meme

 

[Jigen]

Same for me but I already used to hate my looks before, I was too smart fo fall for the bluepill meme

Being bluepilled is a good thing

 

[Luxury]

same but when i was sub5 i wanted to kill myself so its an improvement

 

[BananaBoy]

I mean it drains your hope but saves you from dead bedroom and divorce rape

 

[SubSigma]

Same but ur greycel so no care

 

[Deleted member 25705]

It's like setting your body on fire. At first it's agonizing, then you become numb. When I first realized how shitty my chin looked, it was fucking painful. Now I'm numb and don't feel nothing.

 

[Lucid]

I used to be a happy young sub 5 human who didn't care about looks than I found blackpill and Im literally analysing my face to oblivion to the point my mood depends on how good I think I look that day. It insanely brutal the facial dysmorphia is killing me wouldn't be having this if I was prime chico it's OVER

HOW DO U COPE

Just be born autistic and avert your autism to good things

 

[Deleted member 20631]

Fix your biggest flaws then move on. You don’t need to be a chad, improve as much as you can and be proud of how far you’ve come the only person worth mogging is your past self

 

[User49]

Fix your biggest flaws then move on. You don’t need to be a chad, improve as much as you can and be proud of how far you’ve come the only person worth mogging is your past self

Cope

Push for the absolute limit

 

[VenatorLuparius]

Fix your biggest flaws then move on. You don’t need to be a chad, improve as much as you can and be proud of how far you’ve come the only person worth mogging is your past self

You're a good poster. This is exactly the mindset that everyone here should have.

Don't try to become a "PSL God" or ascend like averagejoe, Amnesia or Blackgymmax.

Identify your structural failos, fix them with surgeries and do as much softmaxxing as possible : eyebrows, skincare, leanmaxxing, gymmaxxing, haircut,etc...

So many guys come in here talking about bimax, infra/supraorbital rims, malar implants and any other surgery under the sun thinking it will result in them being good looking.

The end results depend of your starting base and besides unless you're loaded you probably don't have the means to finance all those procedures. I'm not even talking about courage and low inhibition because some of you even question using tret or Latisse.

 

[Deleted member 20631]

Cope

Push for the absolute limit

I agree with this, but obviously within reason.

 

[Deleted member 25377]

Fix your biggest flaws then move on. You don’t need to be a chad, improve as much as you can and be proud of how far you’ve come the only person worth mogging is your past self

my self 4 months ago mogs me to suicide , i ate pussy and it broke me out

 

[User49]

I agree with this, but obviously within reason.

U don’t wanna end up like gaia or people who think they should be conservative when they have nothing to lose

 

[RopeMaxxed]

HOW DO U COPE

You don't, You CANnot.

 

[Deleted member 20631]

U don’t wanna end up like gaia or people who think they should be conservative when they have nothing to lose

Yeah obviously, I’m only able to afford one surgery so I’m getting the most out of it.

Being worried about getting over advanced only happens if you have a shit surgeon or you don’t plan the surgery out correctly. Choosing the right surgeon is also extremely important.

And niggas don’t understand that if your midface(not Lefort 3 tier recessed only god can save you then) and upper maxilla are also recessed, you’re going to need to get infraorbital implants to match the forward growth created by bimax + genio.
Not doing this will make your jaw seem over-projected relative to your other features which is what causes the dogmaxxed appearance

You have to autistically analyze your face, look at scans, create morphs and be very open to your surgeon about what you want. Ideally also getting a second opinion from people who are knowledgeable about facial aesthetics.

Gaias biggest flaws were bad infraorbital implant design(not enough projection, shape wasn’t ideal and no saddle) and mediocre jaw implant design. Also his inability to get a lean face brings down his results by a lot.

He improved massively from his starting point but pheno and height capped him hard, still his starting point was absolutely subhuman.

The biggest candidates for ascension are people with 1-2 Bone structure flaws that are easily fixable with surgery, since bone structure decides soft tissue position and orientation fixing bone structure is what usually leads to the best results because it improves your entire face as a whole.

 

[User49]

He improved massively from his starting point but pheno and height capped him hard, still his starting point was absolutely subhuman.

True but he’s still below average cuz of proportions

 

[Deleted member 8758]

Blackpill saved me hundreds of dollars and hundreds of hours wasted at the gym and invested the money into HT. Id be still trying to outlift my hairline JFL if I didnt learn how much face is the deciding factor in appearance. Gym is such a chore that was bottlenecked by face but I was in denial for so long.

Avoided needless sweat.

 

[NECK&VOICE]

HOW DO U COPE

Black tar heroin daily

 

[Deleted member 20631]

I was already “blackpilled” way before I found this site, this site has only been lifefuel for me. Before I didn’t even consider surgery as an option and thought it was just completely over.

Finding out my flaws that held me back the most were easily fixable has done wonders for my self esteem. Waiting for surgery was depressing and bad memories fucked with my mental health a lot, but knowing that I could with my own hands change the circumstances that were forced on me has only motivated me to try my hardest in life. I’ve been given a chance to redeem myself and give meaning to all those years I’ve suffered

 

[VenatorLuparius]

I was already “blackpilled” way before I found this site, this site has only been lifefuel for me. Before I didn’t even consider surgery as an option and thought it was just completely over.

Finding out my flaws that held me back the most were easily fixable has done wonders for my self esteem. Waiting for surgery was depressing and bad memories fucked with my mental health a lot, but knowing that I could with my own hands change the circumstances that were forced on me has only motivated me to try my hardest in life. I’ve been given a chance to redeem myself and give meaning to all those years I’ve suffered

Yeah the waiting time before surgery is killing me : Spending my days making forms, looking at pictures and before/after from the surgeon while obsessing over the future outcome. Mentally this shit is exhausting but it gives you hope.

I still have 2 months to wait before my next surgeries.

 

[Orettaisbetta]

Fix your biggest flaws then move on. You don’t need to be a chad, improve as much as you can and be proud of how far you’ve come the only person worth mogging is your past self

I think I could reach chadlite tbh once I have better mix of my features