Blackpill is a LIE: Seriously, Looksmaxxing Won't Be Enough To Save Most Of You

[MakinItHappen]

Nigga sees someone that obviously has a filter on

Absolutely right, I'm not disregarding looks at all it plays a huge role but they make looksmaxxing their whole personality and still can't get women? Instead of blaming it on the fact that they are insecure they blame it on shit like genetics

Shit genetics and even mid genetics can be a hindrance however.

Especially for Gen Z'ers where girls have an array of options and have far higher standards than girls of my generation, the Millennials.

Genetic determinism is a huge player in the journey of life for anyone. Not just your looks, your intelligence, your personality etc. Yes you need the right environment for those genes to be expressed in a positive way, but without the genes there in the first place, good gene expression cannot happen.

Environment is also luck. Your parents and your environment is also luck.

LooksMaxxing is escapism. A form.

How you appear in your exterior, looks, height, race, clothes, car, mannerisms, voice etc is what fundamentally carries your 'persona' and your persona is what expresses parts of your 'inner self'. So 'LOOKS' as in 'looking the part' matters.

But so does your behaviourism. The problem many have on here is that they know and understand the more average looking you are, the more neurotypical you need to be. You need to be on that wavelength of a normie.

That is unless of course you are willing to run the risk of being eccentric. Now I will say this in defence of Gen Z. What I have noticed is Gen Z as a whole shuns eccentrics. My theory on this is because they grew up with smartphones and social media and so they are programmed to understand that in order to be noticed on social media you need to be in fashion with what's trending. Appearing weird or eccentric etc on social media, is not going to get you popularity. It might get you clout, but it won't get you popularity. You won't be liked. And I think Gen Z have taken this mindset into the real world and this is how they now operate. This is why it's vital to be neurotypical for a Gen Z'er unless he is good looking.

In short I think Gen Z as a whole put on a bigger mask and there's less authenticity.

That's my theory. And most people on here are not neurotypical. They might not be autistic, but they aren't willing to play that SUPER neurotypical game, for whatever reason. Whether they are higher in awareness or just more authentic, who knows.

 

[AustrianMogger]

Oh my fucking god. The state of .org There's no way this nigga is saying better looks make dating harder. You have to be rage baiting or you're genuinely delusional.

Your work on "socializing" has made no difference in your life, no matter how much you wanna tell yourself boyo. You're carried by your genetics.

He is 16. Life hasnt hit him yet. Once your out of highschool you will know.

 

[AustrianMogger]

I could almost guarantee the reason why your single is because you haven’t asked any girls out, the entire belief of blackpill sounds like cope theory

I literally wrote about it before retard. I did ask out many even tried snap and insta and only got friendzoned

 

[theonewhorisesabove]

I literally wrote about it before retard. I did ask out many even tried snap and insta and only got friendzoned

You knew them irl?

 

[MakinItHappen]

If OP is actually HTN it makes what he's saying even more comical. Literally the epitome of what the blackpill talks about, he proves the blackpill although he's trying to disprove it JFL

It's not personality (which is also influenced by how people treat you anyways). It's the act of being socially functional and respected (NT) past MTN+ SMV. I don't think the sentiment this forum comes to when they go "Chad or over" is realistic whatsoever.

I think within the last week I've witnessed this from some of my friends who are white HTNs: One told a woman that he was going to rape her, kept on saying outrageous things that you think would get him blocked, but it didn't do anything. He fucked her the same night. Another one took turns with his other MTN+ friends fucking his best friend's girl. Do these people have good personalities? Or are they just high SMV and socially functional?

But if you think this is going to save a LTN or below, you're too privileged and it's made you delusional. There's a reason why these communities are so big yet "femcel" communities are so small and laughed at.

The fact that I'm even trying to defend the blackpill shows how bad Looksmax.org has gotten. Tiktokcels fishing for constant validation are invading the forum more than ever.

I covered all the points you made in my most recent post, just now.

Go give it a read.

The feedback loop absolutely matters and most of our personality is based on how others perceive us. We have minimal control over that.

Our personality is also how we integrate our inner world into our outter world, but that's only a part of it. The worse looking you are the, or the shorter you are, the harder integrating parts of ones inner world into the outter world becomes.

 

[zemult]

I literally wrote about it before retard. I did ask out many even tried snap and insta and only got friendzoned

Boyo send me your face in DM. I'll tell you the actual problem. I really hope you're not some MTN in disguise with under developed social because I'd hate for you to give up.

 

[AustrianMogger]

You knew them irl?

Yes

 

[theonewhorisesabove]

If you ask out a girl that you have no dynamic with your going to rejected every time it doesn’t matter if ur good looking or ugly I mean it’s just logic

 

[AustrianMogger]

Boyo send me your face in DM. I'll tell you the actual problem. I really hope you're not some MTN in disguise with under developed social because I'd hate for you to give up

I said before i am mtn

 

[AustrianMogger]

If you ask out a girl that you have no dynamic with your going to rejected every time it doesn’t matter if ur good looking or ugly I mean it’s just logic

Dude i was going out every weekend with one girl for 3 months. And nothing

 

[zemult]

Shit genetics and even mid genetics can be a hindrance however.

Especially for Gen Z'ers where girls have an array of options and have far higher standards than girls of my generation, the Millennials.

Genetic determinism is a huge player in the journey of life for anyone. Not just your looks, your intelligence, your personality etc. Yes you need the right environment for those genes to be expressed in a positive way, but without the genes there in the first place, good gene expression cannot happen.

Environment is also luck. Your parents and your environment is also luck.

LooksMaxxing is escapism. A form.

How you appear in your exterior, looks, height, race, clothes, car, mannerisms, voice etc is what fundamentally carries your 'persona' and your persona is what expresses parts of your 'inner self'. So 'LOOKS' as in 'looking the part' matters.

But so does your behaviourism. The problem many have on here is that they know and understand the more average looking you are, the more neurotypical you need to be. You need to be on that wavelength of a normie.

That is unless of course you are willing to run the risk of being eccentric. Now I will say this in defence of Gen Z. What I have noticed is Gen Z as a whole shuns eccentrics. My theory on this is because they grew up with smartphones and social media and so they are programmed to understand that in order to be noticed on social media you need to be in fashion with what's trending. Appearing weird or eccentric etc on social media, is not going to get you popularity. It might get you clout, but it won't get you popularity. You won't be liked. And I think Gen Z have taken this mindset into the real world and this is how they now operate. This is why it's vital to be neurotypical for a Gen Z'er unless he is good looking.

In short I think Gen Z as a whole put on a bigger mask and there's less authenticity.

That's my theory. And most people on here are not neurotypical. They might not be autistic, but they aren't willing to play that SUPER neurotypical game, for whatever reason. Whether they are higher in awareness or just more authentic, who knows.

I agree with this, neurotypicality is very underrated on this forum.

However I do think if your face or height is below average it will severely hinder your success in the dating market, no matter how neurotypical you are. I don't think they will be 'incels' forever, but the girls that you would ever attract aren't going to be genuine.

 

[theonewhorisesabove]

Dude i was going out every weekend with one girl for 3 months. And nothing

The fact that you was even going out with her proves that there was some interest chances are it was lost because of something you did/said or maybe you was just to needy

 

[AustrianMogger]

The fact that you was even going out with her proves that there was some interest chances are it was lost because of something you did/said or maybe you was just to needy

Nah i still do stuff with her lmao but just cause i want more people with me while going out
But not as much as before.

 

[zemult]

I said before i am mtn

Then you do not apply to anything that I'm saying, unless you have a bad phenotype or manlet height. This guy's advice is probably best for you.

 

[AustrianMogger]

The fact that you was even going out with her proves that there was some interest chances are it was lost because of something you did/said or maybe you was just to needy

I was always in the friendzone with her

 

[AustrianMogger]

Then you do not apply to anything that I'm saying, unless you have a bad phenotype or manlet height. This guy's advice is probably best for you.

I have manlet height

 

[AustrianMogger]

Reason i wear Lifts and will do ll in the future

 

[theonewhorisesabove]

Nah i still do stuff with her lmao but just cause i want more people with me while going out
But not as much as before.

You got friendzoned and still hang out with her? Do you not think other girls see this no wonder why your single you have no self worth

 

[AustrianMogger]

You got friendzoned and still hang out with her? Do you not think other girls see this no wonder why your single you have no self worth

I dont care anymore about girls since like june. As i said i am currently only focusing on money and looksmaxxing.

 

[AustrianMogger]

You got friendzoned and still hang out with her? Do you not think other girls see this no wonder why your single you have no self worth

You see i never asked her out directly cause i am not some 16 year old retard like you and understand my place.

 

[zemult]

I have manlet height

How tall? Because you could very well be falling into the height inflation meme.

 

[AustrianMogger]

Like if you go out and she fucks of with her friends for 2 hours (to probably simp for some htns) and you were only there to buy her alchol you know you wont get anything. So i dont buy shit for her anymore.

 

[theonewhorisesabove]

You see i never asked her out directly cause i am not some 16 year old retard like you and understand my place.

Your right, instead your a 20 year old retard. So now your telling me your playing child games with an older lady by leading her on?? She got bored of your ass how are you going to like someone and not ask them out

 

[AustrianMogger]

How tall? Because you could very well be falling into the height inflation meme.

No i am really short.

 

[AustrianMogger]

Your right, instead your a 20 year old retard. So now your telling me your playing child games with an older lady by leading her on?? She got bored of your ass how are you going to like someone and not ask them out

She was 16

 

[theonewhorisesabove]

She was 16

???

 

[AustrianMogger]

How tall? Because you could very well be falling into the height inflation meme.

168.

 

[theonewhorisesabove]

She was 16

How older were you at the time

 

[zemult]

168.

Brutal. What country?

 

[AustrianMogger]

With ll + Lifts will be normal

 

[AustrianMogger]

How older were you at the time

20 it was in june. I am from Austria

 

[AustrianMogger]

Brutal. What country?

Avg height here is 178

 

[swt]

no

 

[theonewhorisesabove]

20 it was in june. I am from Austria

Your 20 dating a 16 year old maybe the age of consent is different there but that still does not make it weird there’s a pretty clear reason why she friend-zoned you

 

[AustrianMogger]

Your 20 dating a 16 year old maybe the age of consent is different there but that still does not make it weird there’s a pretty clear reason why she friend-zoned you

Its normal here. Age of consent is 14 bhai. Everyone has age gap of 3-5years but she was like htb and i am short mtn.

 

[ryanlovestolooksmax]

Like if you go out and she fucks of with her friends for 2 hours (to probably simp for some htns) and you were only there to buy her alchol you know you wont get anything. So i dont buy shit for her anymore.

You are one sad individual

 

[AustrianMogger]

How so ?

 

[ryanlovestolooksmax]

So basically you was afraid to ask a 16 year old girl out

 

[ryanlovestolooksmax]

Most confident blackpill believer

 

[AustrianMogger]

What

 

[ryanlovestolooksmax]

What

Your the most confident blackpill believer

 

[AustrianMogger]

She was already looking for tall htns, she wasnt even thinking of me as bf Material i relaized.

 

[ryanlovestolooksmax]

She was already looking for tall htns, she wasnt even thinking of me as bf Material i relaized.

You’d never know that since you never asked her out

 

[AustrianMogger]

I knew. She talked with one of her friends who was at the Bar about it. @ ryan

 

[ryanlovestolooksmax]

I knew. She talked with one of her friends who was at the Bar about it.

Just know ur wasting ur 20s on this site

 

[nuisance]

Absolute retard

your life is the proof

 

[ryanlovestolooksmax]

You think blackpill is giving you this new profound way of thinking but instead it’s just you justifying your insecurities

 

[AustrianMogger]

Just know ur wasting ur 20s on this site

Dude i know i am coping. My life was decided before my birth that it would be over. I am just taking my chances here. Id rather have a 1 in 100 Chance then no chance

 

[AustrianMogger]

If i succeed in becoming 176 and cl i will have good live. If not i wasted 100k

 

[AustrianMogger]

You think blackpill is giving you this new profound way of thinking but instead it’s just you justifying your insecurities

How old are you even ?