Blackpill personal experience conflating with the outside world

[Deleted member 25667]

Does this happen to any of you guys? Going through the stages of my life and what's happened the blackpill seems legit, my personal experiences match up with it perfectly and not only that, it's backed up by hundreds if not thousands of peer reviewed studies on attractiveness, halo effect, online dating etc etc so it makes it even more feasible to believe and borderline common sense at the end of the day.

Yet no one I know is blackpilled or even deems looks as important. They look at me as I'm some crazy person when I try to explain the importance looks hold. So theyre either extremely good at hiding their true beliefs or are bluepilled. Furthermore I've asked plenty of my friends who slay or are in relationships about dating and for dating advice and they'll just give me the run of the mill platitudes "just be confident" "haircut" "fashion". Some of these dudes being literal ethnic manlets in relationships/manage to make out with girls when we're out clubbing btw. I also see mismatched couples everywhere outside, balding manlets with beckies, ethnics with white girls, recessed LTN's cuddling their gf on a bench and so on.

It's making me go insane tbhngl, like I'm the only blackpilled virgin alive and as far as im concerned I'm NT so it's like everyone has something that I don't but I don't even know what that is.

TLDR: Recessed, skinny fat, manlet LTN's slay but I don't, how is this possible?

 

[Deleted member 23558]

You’re butt ugly Manlet or both / have too high standards .

 

[Copeful]

as far as im concerned I'm NT

thats where your wrong bucko

 

[Deleted member 25667]

You’re butt ugly Manlet or both / have too high standards .

I'm a normie, looks and heightwise, with low standards

thats where your wrong bucko

Idk man, its possible but i've always had a decent social circle/found it easy to talk to people. Would be extremely ironic if the one thing stopping me from getting laid was my personality all along though

 

[Deleted member 4362]

I got asked what the sine coeffient of an even signal expressed as a trigonometric Fourier series is in a job interview over the phone last Friday.

& People in school told me I’ll never use maths irl, meanwhile I’m looking like a dumbass trying to apply for this job.

Life ain’t supposed to make sense bruv

 

[Copeful]

I'm a normie, looks and heightwise, with low standards

Idk man, its possible but i've always had a decent social circle/found it easy to talk to people. Would be extremely ironic if the one thing stopping me from getting laid was my personality all along though

idk then bro
you check all the boxes
how many women have you asked out

 

[Deleted member 26410]

Does this happen to any of you guys? Going through the stages of my life and what's happened the blackpill seems legit, my personal experiences match up with it perfectly and not only that, it's backed up by hundreds if not thousands of peer reviewed studies on attractiveness, halo effect, online dating etc etc so it makes it even more feasible to believe and borderline common sense at the end of the day.

Yet no one I know is blackpilled or even deems looks as important. They look at me as I'm some crazy person when I try to explain the importance looks hold. So theyre either extremely good at hiding their true beliefs or are bluepilled. Furthermore I've asked plenty of my friends who slay or are in relationships about dating and for dating advice and they'll just give me the run of the mill platitudes "just be confident" "haircut" "fashion". Some of these dudes being literal ethnic manlets in relationships/manage to make out with girls when we're out clubbing btw. I also see mismatched couples everywhere outside, balding manlets with beckies, ethnics with white girls, recessed LTN's cuddling their gf on a bench and so on.

It's making me go insane tbhngl, like I'm the only blackpilled virgin alive and as far as im concerned I'm NT so it's like everyone has something that I don't but I don't even know what that is.

TLDR: Recessed, skinny fat, manlet LTN's slay but I don't, how is this possible?

You don’t tell anyone in real life about the black pill. Also, it could be because you might be in high school. Some of your friends probably have had long-standing relationships with these girls (Be first theory) or are socially skilled (NTpill). I feel like looks will be more prevalent as you grow into adulthood.

 

[Deleted member 25667]

idk then bro
you check all the boxes
how many women have you asked out

I've asked out 3 girls, all warm approaches. All 3 friendzoned me.

Should I just become a PUA and start cold approaching?

 

[Copeful]

I've asked out 3 girls, all warm approaches. All 3 friendzoned me.

Should I just become a PUA and start cold approaching?

nah jfl
cold approaching is the best way to destroy your self esteem
keep warm approaching through your social circle, try going to events/parties etc
it'll happen soon bro since your nt and normie