blue valentin is the most realistic love movie

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starting as a romance




the guy loses his hair and she breaks up with him. brutal




blackpill comment

Dude, there is no such thing as unconditional love. That’s Disney conditioning. Unconditional comes from your mother. A woman is never going to love you that way. She does have unconditional love, but it is reserved for her children. She can love you also, but you better perform and be of use to her. Women love men differently, pragmatically and opportunistically. It is men who are the true romantics because we love women differently, sacrificially. Women just masquerade as romantics. They hate it when you dare say this, but deep they know it’s true. Women do not “fall in love” The opportunistically filter first, then allow themselves to “jump into love” with a man she perceived as suitable. But women often have a notoriously poor sense of judgement. Men do too. We are both compromised, albeit differently, by the human urges to reproduce. Women filter for quality. Men go for quantity, variety. A comedy of error from both approach is the rule, not the exception. Men and women are different. But we do complement one another very well for survival. That’s what it’s all about. What’s love got to do with it?