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It’s never just the number.
It’s what each one took.
The 1st leaves innocence.
The 2nd leaves comparison.
The 5th leaves the ability to be fully present because her nervous system learns that bodies are temporary and trust is expensive
Every casual encounter carves another scar of “what if he leaves too?” Every “failed relationship” adds invisible baggage she’ll unpack in your bed
You’re not dating a woman. You’re dating the ghosts of everyone who came before, and most of them taught her that love is fleeting.
That’s why the body count ruins her for you. The meaning behind each one matters.