BP has ruined the idea of love to me

[Dip3shx]

what the title says but to explain further…. I now think of all relationships and bonds that are romantic with women to be considered temporary or a result of an external factor rather than just me as a person… it’s hard to believe in love when you know she’s with you due to certain traits you have and if it wasn’t for that, she wouldn’t even be paying attention to you… everything seems transactional now and it’s made me jaded and not as trusting as I use to be idk

 

[BigBallsLarry]

it’s hard to believe in love when you know she’s with you due to certain traits you have and if it wasn’t for that, she wouldn’t even be paying attention to you

Isn't that how it always was? You shouldn't care about this, it literally doesn't matter if you don't pay attention to it.

It's just how the world operates - you pick out groceries based off of which looks tastier, you pick fruits based off of which looks better and healthier. Romantic intrests work in the same way.

You only really know how something tastes once you bite into it. That's where your personality and who you are come into play, it's the most important part of LTRs

 

[Dip3shx]

Isn't that how it always was? You shouldn't care about this, it literally doesn't matter if you don't pay attention to it.

It's just how the world operates - you pick out groceries based off of which looks tastier, you pick fruits based off of which looks better and healthier. Romantic intrests work in the same way.

You only really know how something tastes once you bite into it. That's where your personality and who you are come into play, it's the most important part of LTRs

Holy shit you’re right, thank you for your perspective

 

[Drippin']

Love doesn't exist, simple

 

[StellaFanboy]

Love doesn't exist, simple

Cope, love exists and its a chemical hormonal reaction based on looks/development, youth and health

 

[Dip3shx]

Cope, love exists and its a chemical hormonal reaction based on looks/development, youth and health

I meant love in the metaphysical sense of a girl wanting to be with you due to you as a person intrinsically not because of outside factors which could be seen as “shallow”

 

[Deleted member 249063]

Cope, love exists and its a chemical hormonal reaction based on looks/development, youth and health

you forgot most important part, we date/marry attractive healthy people to pass strong healthy genes to our offspring.

 

[StellaFanboy]

I meant love in the metaphysical sense of a girl wanting to be with you due to you as a person intrinsically not because of outside factors which could be seen as “shallow”

In that sense i agree,

but i already laugh at normies thinking looks are shallow, looks/genetics are the most important, deep thing there is

Look at Hallmark Christmas movies, women like the idea of this romantic bullcrap while always, ALWAYS choosing chad, but due to their ego/image, they need to convince and gaslight themselves and everyone else that its some deep magical mystical love

 

[Dip3shx]

In that sense i agree,

but i already laugh at normies thinking looks are shallow, looks/genetics are the most important, deep thing there is

Look at Hallmark Christmas movies, women like the idea of this romantic bullcrap while always, ALWAYS choosing chad, but due to their ego/image, they need to convince and gaslight themselves and everyone else that its some deep magical mystical love

Yep, women live in this delusional where they treat some LTN like trash and ignore his existence then go and treat Chad like he’s some god and feel no sense of remorse or guilt at all lmfao.

 

[jeff22]

All these corny ass 2025cels bruh, nigga shut that shit uppppp

 

[Dip3shx]

All these corny ass 2025cels bruh, nigga shut that shit uppppp

Nigga this is a platform where I can share my thoughts and have people share their opinion on my thoughts, idgaf nigga

 

[StellaFanboy]

All these corny ass 2025cels bruh, nigga shut that shit uppppp

"All these corny ass 2025cels bruh" - late 2023cel

 

[Divineincel]

what the title says but to explain further…. I now think of all relationships and bonds that are romantic with women to be considered temporary or a result of an external factor rather than just me as a person… it’s hard to believe in love when you know she’s with you due to certain traits you have and if it wasn’t for that, she wouldn’t even be paying attention to you… everything seems transactional now and it’s made me jaded and not as trusting as I use to be idk

Romantic love never existed in the first place

 

[MangoLover]

what the title says but to explain further…. I now think of all relationships and bonds that are romantic with women to be considered temporary or a result of an external factor rather than just me as a person… it’s hard to believe in love when you know she’s with you due to certain traits you have and if it wasn’t for that, she wouldn’t even be paying attention to you… everything seems transactional now and it’s made me jaded and not as trusting as I use to be idk

that's why you give up been saying this its real love or nothing