BP/Looksmax Debate With My Friend

[Organ]

One of my friends is aware that I have gone down this rabbit hole.

I was hanging out with him last night until 3:30am and we were debating about this whole topic.

He first proceeded to say that I should consider therapy due to how this stems from past insecurity.

Not only is my mental 100% fine, but therapists are giga retarted imo.

He continued saying that I was going to end up getting hurt with all the shit I do.

Jfl if he doesn't understand that I do extensive research on anything I take/any DIY I do.

He also kept saying that looks don't really matter in life.

He tried disproving the halo effect.

He then started saying how I should start fashionmaxing.

I wear normal low effort clothing (shirts, sweaters, polos, shorts, sweatpants, jeans, cargos, etc...)

He on the other hand makes fashion his whole personality.

I wanted to tell him so bad how many people have said behind his back that the way he dresses is gay and over the top.

 

[𝐚𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐨𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐫]

"bp debate" with 121 posts

 

[BeanCelll]

I wanted to tell him so bad how many people have said behind his back that the way he dresses is gay and over the top.

do it

 

[Organ]

"bp debate" with 121 posts

You've been on this forum for a little over a month and have 5k+ posts.

Brutal ldar.

 

[BOX13]

One of my friends is aware that I have gone down this rabbit hole.

I was hanging out with him last night until 3:30am and we were debating about this whole topic.

He first proceeded to say that I should consider therapy due to how this stems from past insecurity.

Not only is my mental 100% fine, but therapists are giga retarted imo.

He continued saying that I was going to end up getting hurt with all the shit I do.

Jfl if he doesn't understand that I do extensive research on anything I take/any DIY I do.

He also kept saying that looks don't really matter in life.

He tried disproving the halo effect.

He then started saying how I should start fashionmaxing.

I wear normal low effort clothing (shirts, sweaters, polos, shorts, sweatpants, jeans, cargos, etc...)

He on the other hand makes fashion his whole personality.

I wanted to tell him so bad how many people have said behind his back that the way he dresses is gay and over the top.

“I have gone down the rabbit hole”

 

[Organ]

“I have gone down the rabbit hole”

No clue what's so funny abt that

 

[swerzfr]

Oh boi oh boi you’re too deep into the rabbit hole

 

[BOX13]

No clue what's so funny abt that

Corny no one talks like that nigga, you talk like this only if you think you’re tuff

 

[Organ]

Corny no one talks like that nigga, you talk like this only if you think you’re tuff

In what world is that phrase tuff

 

[Aox Ofwar]

One of my friends is aware that I have gone down this rabbit hole.

I was hanging out with him last night until 3:30am and we were debating about this whole topic.

He first proceeded to say that I should consider therapy due to how this stems from past insecurity.

Not only is my mental 100% fine, but therapists are giga retarted imo.

He continued saying that I was going to end up getting hurt with all the shit I do.

Jfl if he doesn't understand that I do extensive research on anything I take/any DIY I do.

He also kept saying that looks don't really matter in life.

He tried disproving the halo effect.

He then started saying how I should start fashionmaxing.

I wear normal low effort clothing (shirts, sweaters, polos, shorts, sweatpants, jeans, cargos, etc...)

He on the other hand makes fashion his whole personality.

I wanted to tell him so bad how many people have said behind his back that the way he dresses is gay and over the top.

The better you look the less ROI looksmaxxing had and he may be right depending on how you look because at a certain point the cons of stressing about your appearance outweigh the pros, being giga autismo about your appearance may be a looksmax but is a huge lifemin, either way eventually you accept who you are and move on to other things the sooner that happens the better

 

[theblueprints]

what a highly intellectual conversation this must be

 

[theblueprints]

 

[Organ]

The better you look the less ROI looksmaxxing had and he may be right depending on how you look because at a certain point the cons of stressing about your appearance outweigh the pros, being giga autismo about your appearance may be a looksmax but is a huge lifemin, either way eventually you accept who you are and move on to other things the sooner that happens the better

I agree 100%.

I just have a few more things I want to work on and then I feel as if I won't need to really focus on it anymore.