
5OuttaTen
Wake me up when the snacks are coming
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Yeah just sucks that I still love her. I know this is a good thing that’s happened but I just really wish me and her could be together. I’ll just use other girls to try pass the time but none of them compare in my eyes. Life is rough, this feeling hurts more than back when I was an ugly incel and aloneSorry bro I know this feeling all too well. The breaking up, getting back together cycle repetition. The more it happens, the shorter the cycle becomes: idealization -> devaluation -> discard.
BPD women are literally incapable of love and are unable to receive love. It’s a really sad disorder, and the hardest pill to swallow is that they CANNOT be fixed. They are a lost cause as far as relationships go. They jump from failed relationship to failed relationship, never learning anything.
Count yourself lucky though- she is no longer your problem to deal with. Losing a BPD partner is actually a blessing in disguise. You are no longer the host to the parasite.