Bro's with strong non-romantic relationships GTFIH (18+)

[wojak]

Has anyone got any friends IRL despite having below average looks? How are your relationships with family members?

(Personal anecdotes are appreciated)​

My family look down on me and due to moving around a lot I haven't been able to make any long lasting friendships. I'll be moving out alone to go to college in a big city and I'm just hoping that I'll find people who I can be friends with, even if it's just one. I'm extremely closed off and mundane and I'm struggling to outwardly project my character. I just walk around staring at the floor n shi.

Essentially I'm just asking whether or not your looks not only effect romantic relationships, but does that also transcend into platonic friendships + how your family treat(ed) you? Any tips for making friends if you've come from a shitty childhood would be appreciated to.

 

[crazyguy]

(Personal anecdotes are appreciated)​

My family look down on me and due to moving around a lot I haven't been able to make any long lasting friendships. I'll be moving out alone to go to college in a big city and I'm just hoping that I'll find people who I can be friends with, even if it's just one. I'm extremely closed off and mundane and I'm struggling to outwardly project my character. I just walk around staring at the floor n shi.

Essentially I'm just asking whether or not your looks not only effect romantic relationships, but does that also transcend into platonic friendships + how your family treat(ed) you? Any tips for making friends if you've come from a shitty childhood would be appreciated to.

i dont care about friendships anymore

 

[wojak]

i dont care about friendships anymore

How do you feel happy? How long have you been alone, truly? I've been alone for around 5 years i'd say and i'm at breaking point.

 

[crazyguy]

How do you feel happy? How long have you been alone, truly? I've been alone for around 5 years i'd say and i'm at breaking point.

im happy if i do what i find fun, im not really alone because ive got 1 friend who i hangout with sometimes, im at breaking point too, i need to find a girlfriend asap

 

[wojak]

im happy if i do what i find fun, im not really alone because ive got 1 friend who i hangout with sometimes, im at breaking point too, i need to find a girlfriend asap

you're probably a cool guy then. I've accepted that I will not get a girlfriend but I'm just not happy with who I am or what I bring in this world beyond looks so maybe I need to get a few hobbies and stuff. It's just hard man.

 

[crazyguy]

you're probably a cool guy then. I've accepted that I will not get a girlfriend but I'm just not happy with who I am or what I bring in this world beyond looks so maybe I need to get a few hobbies and stuff. It's just hard man.

im only nice to people who i relate to in terms of personality

you really need hobbies, whether its playing video games, drawing or walking in nature doesnt matter. find something that'll lift your mood

 

[isis_Bleach]

im ugly as fuck and used to have friends but i blocked them all cuz talking to men is gay. it was based on shared interest/similar humor and music taste

 

[wojak]

im only nice to people who i relate to in terms of personality

you really need hobbies, whether its playing video games, drawing or walking in nature doesnt matter. find something that'll lift your mood

thanks bro. time to hobbymax.

 

[Mitläufer]

(Personal anecdotes are appreciated)​

My family look down on me and due to moving around a lot I haven't been able to make any long lasting friendships. I'll be moving out alone to go to college in a big city and I'm just hoping that I'll find people who I can be friends with, even if it's just one. I'm extremely closed off and mundane and I'm struggling to outwardly project my character. I just walk around staring at the floor n shi.

Essentially I'm just asking whether or not your looks not only effect romantic relationships, but does that also transcend into platonic friendships + how your family treat(ed) you? Any tips for making friends if you've come from a shitty childhood would be appreciated to.

If you have one nd friend that has the same intrest in looksmaxing and other stuff you will be okay
I have one friend, i don't see him as friend but someone I talk to often ,
He has the same life as me very relatible and is also nd who is trying to ascend
If i didnt have him I would be very depressed since i dont have much friends to talk about my life

 

[wojak]

im ugly as fuck and used to have friends but i blocked them all cuz talking to men is gay. it was based on shared interest/similar humor and music taste

I think my problem might be mentally for the most part. I'm not deformed or anything but maybe i just think too much. I guess I just have to try and talk to people. I feel like it's impossible as an adult but with going to college I'd hope that it'll be easier.

 

[wojak]

If you have one nd friend that has the same intrest in looksmaxing and other stuff you will be okay
I have one friend, i don't see him as friend but someone I talk to often ,
He has the same life as me very relatible and is also nd who is trying to ascend
If i didnt have him I would be very depressed since i dont have much friends to talk about my life

Yeah I've thought about that, I feel like looksmaxxing is something I can't really tell other people bc they'll treat me differently or something, despite having the desire to look your best being a completely normal thing that everyone does. I just don't get why people ostracize those who are open about it.

 

[browncurrycel]

you're probably a cool guy then. I've accepted that I will not get a girlfriend but I'm just not happy with who I am or what I bring in this world beyond looks so maybe I need to get a few hobbies and stuff. It's just hard man.

Go do stuff by yourself man

That's what I've been doing for the last year

I have very few friends to hang out with and even when we do, it's like once every 6months because of what we study

If there's a new movie that I want to watch, I go watch it by myself.

I work out in the gym by myself and travel to places in my city by myself

Ik, Its suicidefuel to go alone, but accepting this is better in the long-term imo

 

[wojak]

Go do stuff by yourself man

That's what I've been doing for the last year

I have very few friends to hang out with and even when we do, it's like once every 6months because of what we study

If there's a new movie that I want to watch, I go watch it by myself.

I work out in the gym by myself and travel to places in my city by myself

Ik, Its suicidefuel to go alone, but accepting this is better in the long-term imo

Yeah true. I think if I'm able to enjoy my own company then there's a chance of people having cognitive bias and also liking me, maybe. I know for sure that rotting away just doesn't do anything, not only for others but for myself too. It's just difficult to pull myself out of this void.