Gengar’s Ghost
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So I get on extremely well with a female in-law of mine. And I mean really well. The way I was greeted by this woman since coming to Pakistan was in such a loving fashion, way more than any other actual blood relative of mine.
We were talking today and the topic of marriage came up. I said my mother wants me to marry my cousin and the in-law immediately says “no, son, she is way too young, girls shouldn’t marry young, it’s not right.”
And then she says “you have to look for someone who’s in your age range, someone between 22 and 25”.
Keep in mind my cousin is 18 and the other is 20.



This is the mindset of a traditional women in Pakistan.
Gone are the days where you could marry an 18 year old at 30.
Now you must settle for someone who’s older and most likely sexually experienced from her college days but LARPing as a traditional God-fearing woman.
This woman is really nice to me and I don’t want to disappoint her so I will listen to what she says.
Brutal.
We were talking today and the topic of marriage came up. I said my mother wants me to marry my cousin and the in-law immediately says “no, son, she is way too young, girls shouldn’t marry young, it’s not right.”
And then she says “you have to look for someone who’s in your age range, someone between 22 and 25”.
Keep in mind my cousin is 18 and the other is 20.
This is the mindset of a traditional women in Pakistan.
Gone are the days where you could marry an 18 year old at 30.
Now you must settle for someone who’s older and most likely sexually experienced from her college days but LARPing as a traditional God-fearing woman.
This woman is really nice to me and I don’t want to disappoint her so I will listen to what she says.
Brutal.