
MoggerGaston
Nobody mogs like Gaston
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This is why you need to mind-max. I am dealing with this too.I was thinking about this earlier today:
Even if I somehow attained gigastatus by 30 and was able to slay girls from it with ease, I would still be jaded from the years of girls treating me like shit
I think the ideal time to make it through your own statusmaxxing efforts is around 21 because you got to experience being at your lowest adult SMV at 18 (and possibly pulled some foids due to circumstances and optimism)
But you also got to see how low value you are in the grand scheme of things
Then you can gymcel to ascend into your looks prime by 21 (peak collagen) then you just attain giga status over the space of a few months through social media and suddenly can slay without being too jaded.
Obviously being a sports player who was the shit all the way through school and made it pro in late teens is the ideal life but if you compare the life I mapped out above v a life where you attain giga e-status at 16 and get everything you want then fall off at 20 and it all disappears, that would be a brutal existence
As long as you keep thinking about the past, the way people treated you, the things you didn't experience. You will NEVER be able to really experience the present.
It takes a conscious effort, daily, to make yourself get over that. Forgive yourself for anything you did in the past and allow yourself to experience the present without the pain of the past overshadowing it.
The past doesn't exist, only the present does. Allow yourself to enjoy it. You are not the person you were a year ago, you don't have to be.
You could be someone entirely different today.
You don't have to be the person that people expect you to be, or you think that people expect you to be. Let it go.
Your mind is your most important muscle, you have to train it. Every day you are telling yourself a lot of shit that is negative and unhealthy. Every day you are avoiding certain things/situations. Every day you have certain assumptions, about women, about socializing, that might no longer be relevant in your present. It takes hard work to deal with that and overcome those.