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Hey everyone I just wanted to share this as my first post. My father is coping because he doesn't get interactions from his wife as of lately and apparently he is always alone in their so called "love room". Now it could be due to many factors to be honest but my father is now in his 50s past his prime and is a workaholic and didn't care much about his hair and looks so now he's bald and he gained weight. He also has 3 children on his side with my step mother so the stress definitely got to him. My father is considered HTN in my country because he has east asian blood and features and that adds a halo effect in this monkey ass country BUT hes short(and so am I) He is 5'3-5'4 and I'm around the same height which is considered average here. He has good harmony and overall was pretty good looking in his younger days. Now onto my point, from what I see his wife most likely doesn't want to make love because either 1, she is stressed and is unhappy with him because he does not look good anymore and is bald, or 2, his wife doesn't like the relationship anymore because he isn't attractive anymore(literally the same shit but different wording). I mean like, I genuinely don't know any other reason, he makes good money as an optometrist in my country(millionaire), has a millionaire wife but his experiences with women after past his prime was that they all left him(not for some other dude but most likely yeah). It's just so sad how he can't see it the way I do. If I told him this as my perspective and analyzation as to why his wife doesn't want or is unhappy with the relationship they have, he wouldn't get it because he is mostly red pilled to the point he grinded to become an optometrist and believed that money will change something and yes money is important so it kinda did(status). He knows looks matter but not to the point of being black pilled, instead of realizing that it was over since the beginning(well at least he was not genuinely ugly). There are some other factors as to why he is that red pilled and I can't blame him his upbringing was quite abusive despite his parents being millionaires. Imagine if he was some short bald man somewhere but he isn't status maxxed it would be a 1000x more over for him but at least he grinded his way for status which sometimes is enough. What do you guys think? am I being delusional? or not? because I genuinely can't see any other way as to why this is happening to my father. Genuinely so sad.
