Brutal story

[Purecel]

i understand, shes really pretty and ur afeaid of losing her, completely understand, just so t beat urself up for that, dont be desperate, be real and straight forward, iyou deserve the tucking eorld bro. love you

I love you so much bro thank you and I wish you the absolute most pure and utopian glory in your life and I really hope you fulfill every single dream that you ever had, thanks again

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

I love you so much bro thank you and I wish you the absolute most pure and utopian glory in your life and I really hope you fulfill every single dream that you ever had, thanks again

love u nigger were all gonna make it bruh

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

I love you so much bro thank you and I wish you the absolute most pure and utopian glory in your life and I really hope you fulfill every single dream that you ever had, thanks again

my dream is just

I love you so much bro thank you and I wish you the absolute most pure and utopian glory in your life and I really hope you fulfill every single dream that you ever had, thanks again

that russian bitch from the school, thAts Lall shes so fucking hot omg id kill all my friends to date her

 

[ce10098]

DNRD because I'm too lazy to, here's a thumbs up though .

mirin pibble

 

[africel]

To start, i’m a factually a LHTN/MHTN also being 6 feet tall. I started talking to this girl back in mid June and have been going about 3 dates a month until around late August where I asked her to be my gf in which she said yes. She is factually a Stacylite, think of Gio Scottii without the coloring. Christmas Eve is tomorrow, and throughout all this time we haven’t even kissed. She’s a very value grounded/religious girl; she doesn’t drink, smoke, follow other guys on social media platforms, etc. I just finished hanging out with her for the last time since I’m going to be going on a trip on Christmas. I’ve talked to her about her not showing her emotions and being romantic two times now and they have both led to nothing. I’ve been objectively a very good boyfriend, I’ve held her in my hands during tough times, i’ve got her flowers numerous times, I’ve took her on expensive dates, yet I can’t even get a kiss? Realistically, this wouldn’t be happening if I was a Chad, she would be the one paying for dates, she would be the one getting me gifts, she would be the one wanting to kiss me. What I initially thought after thinking about my situation is that looks is a short term factor that helps you through first dates, meeting new people, etc, and that personality is the driving factor for the long-term, but I was wrong. Her personality would be totally different. If I was, Chad, she wouldn’t be as hesitant, as skeptical as leery as she is. She would be able to open up to me, be with me, and kiss me without thinking nor hesitating. It’s just so brutal because in these six months, I’ve done absolutely everything I could, yet to what avail? Don’t get me wrong, she’s a very caring person and being with a girl like her is rare, but it doesn’t even feel like an actual relationship, it feels like we’re close friends, which destroys me day by day. At this point, I feel like giving up on it because I don’t know how much more I can give without receiving anything, all of this because I am a HTN. I never thought having a gf would be so platonic, I just don’t know what else to do atp, I already talked to her about it multiple times as I said and nothing has changed, and now that’s I’m going on a trip for 10 days it’s going to be even more distant when I come back. I’ve already met her family and she just gave me my Christmas gift which was a silver chain and a card before I left. The card said something like, “I know I can’t express my emotions to you that well but I truly love you”. But does she really? It doesn’t feel like it

To start, i’m a factually a LHTN/MHTN also being 6 feet tall. I started talking to this girl back in mid June and have been going about 3 dates a month until around late August where I asked her to be my gf in which she said yes. She is factually a Stacylite, think of Gio Scottii without the coloring. Christmas Eve is tomorrow, and throughout all this time we haven’t even kissed. She’s a very value grounded/religious girl; she doesn’t drink, smoke, follow other guys on social media platforms, etc. I just finished hanging out with her for the last time since I’m going to be going on a trip on Christmas. I’ve talked to her about her not showing her emotions and being romantic two times now and they have both led to nothing. I’ve been objectively a very good boyfriend, I’ve held her in my hands during tough times, i’ve got her flowers numerous times, I’ve took her on expensive dates, yet I can’t even get a kiss? Realistically, this wouldn’t be happening if I was a Chad, she would be the one paying for dates, she would be the one getting me gifts, she would be the one wanting to kiss me. What I initially thought after thinking about my situation is that looks is a short term factor that helps you through first dates, meeting new people, etc, and that personality is the driving factor for the long-term, but I was wrong. Her personality would be totally different. If I was, Chad, she wouldn’t be as hesitant, as skeptical as leery as she is. She would be able to open up to me, be with me, and kiss me without thinking nor hesitating. It’s just so brutal because in these six months, I’ve done absolutely everything I could, yet to what avail? Don’t get me wrong, she’s a very caring person and being with a girl like her is rare, but it doesn’t even feel like an actual relationship, it feels like we’re close friends, which destroys me day by day. At this point, I feel like giving up on it because I don’t know how much more I can give without receiving anything, all of this because I am a HTN. I never thought having a gf would be so platonic, I just don’t know what else to do atp, I already talked to her about it multiple times as I said and nothing has changed, and now that’s I’m going on a trip for 10 days it’s going to be even more distant when I come back. I’ve already met her family and she just gave me my Christmas gift which was a silver chain and a card before I left. The card said something like, “I know I can’t express my emotions to you that well but I truly love you”. But does she really? It doesn’t feel like it.

“stacylite” “very value grounded religious girl”

 

[Purecel]

my dream is just

that russian bitch from the school, thAts Lall shes so fucking hot omg id kill all my friends to date her

Dude you better come back to this thread or DM me next month telling me you fucked the absolute shit out of that bitch and married her

 

[Purecel]

“stacylite” “very value grounded religious girl”

Ye

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

Dude you better come back to this thread or DM me next month telling me you fucked the absolute shit out of that bitch and married her

hahahahahahaahaa

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

Holy high IQ you really know what you’re talking about dude. Based on the experiences I’ve had around with her and what I do know about her, I would say that she does love me, or at least being with me, but I would say her religion, environment she grew up in, self image, and past personal “trauma” our reasons why she’s so closed up. I’ve talked to her about it before and she realizes how closed up she is and said that she will try her best to loosen up, but honestly, I don’t think that she has the courage to do so. Thanks for your advice, I do plan on staying longer to see where this can go, and I am sorry that you were in my position once upon a time. I will make an another post sometime soon probably around mid January to let you guys know what has happened and if it ended well and she finally opened up or if we eventually had to sadly part ways. You don’t understand how much I appreciate you writing me such a detailed and in-depth message, you’re a good person, and don’t let the evils into this world, corrupt to who you are, I’m rooting for you as well and I wish you the absolute best.

just kiss her bro i believe in you big homoe

 

[Purecel]

just kiss her bro i believe in you big homoe

Bet bro I’m going to suck the fucking soul out her mouth

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

Bet bro I’m going to suck the fucking soul out her mouth

do that broooooooooo

 

[lowknormalguy]

p

To start, i’m a factually a LHTN/MHTN also being 6 feet tall. I started talking to this girl back in mid June and have been going about 3 dates a month until around late August where I asked her to be my gf in which she said yes. She is factually a Stacylite, think of Gio Scottii without the coloring. Christmas Eve is tomorrow, and throughout all this time we haven’t even kissed. She’s a very value grounded/religious girl; she doesn’t drink, smoke, follow other guys on social media platforms, etc. I just finished hanging out with her for the last time since I’m going to be going on a trip on Christmas. I’ve talked to her about her not showing her emotions and being romantic two times now and they have both led to nothing. I’ve been objectively a very good boyfriend, I’ve held her in my hands during tough times, i’ve got her flowers numerous times, I’ve took her on expensive dates, yet I can’t even get a kiss? Realistically, this wouldn’t be happening if I was a Chad, she would be the one paying for dates, she would be the one getting me gifts, she would be the one wanting to kiss me. What I initially thought after thinking about my situation is that looks is a short term factor that helps you through first dates, meeting new people, etc, and that personality is the driving factor for the long-term, but I was wrong. Her personality would be totally different. If I was, Chad, she wouldn’t be as hesitant, as skeptical as leery as she is. She would be able to open up to me, be with me, and kiss me without thinking nor hesitating. It’s just so brutal because in these six months, I’ve done absolutely everything I could, yet to what avail? Don’t get me wrong, she’s a very caring person and being with a girl like her is rare, but it doesn’t even feel like an actual relationship, it feels like we’re close friends, which destroys me day by day. At this point, I feel like giving up on it because I don’t know how much more I can give without receiving anything, all of this because I am a HTN. I never thought having a gf would be so platonic, I just don’t know what else to do atp, I already talked to her about it multiple times as I said and nothing has changed, and now that’s I’m going on a trip for 10 days it’s going to be even more distant when I come back. I’ve already met her family and she just gave me my Christmas gift which was a silver chain and a card before I left. The card said something like, “I know I can’t express my emotions to you that well but I truly love you”. But does she really? It doesn’t feel like it.

perhaps she’s shy or very religious so she waits for marriage
give her some time though if she keeps this up you should date your looksmatch instead

 

[grav]

Either youre m-hmtn or you're htn with high inhib

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

Bet bro I’m going to suck the fucking soul out her mouth

trust me, seeing hltns pull will make you doubt the blackpill overall and go full on elliot rodgers lmao im nust kidding id
never do that but just beint honest

 

[i cant lie cant lie]

I threatened to break up with her and she came back crying saying she’ll be better, so she does wanna be here she’s just emotionally stupid and shy as fuck

good move pal but thats a bit aggressive

 

[Purecel]

p

perhaps she’s shy or very religious so she waits for marriage
give her some time though if she keeps this up you should date your looksmatch instead

Bet

 

[Purecel]

Either youre m-hmtn or you're htn with high inhib

Can’t deny that

 

[Purecel]

I was just pissed off dude and I just wanted to see if she actually wanted to be with me

 

[iblamebones000101]

To start, i’m a factually a LHTN/MHTN also being 6 feet tall. I started talking to this girl back in mid June and have been going about 3 dates a month until around late August where I asked her to be my gf in which she said yes. She is factually a Stacylite, think of Gio Scottii without the coloring. Christmas Eve is tomorrow, and throughout all this time we haven’t even kissed. She’s a very value grounded/religious girl; she doesn’t drink, smoke, follow other guys on social media platforms, etc. I just finished hanging out with her for the last time since I’m going to be going on a trip on Christmas. I’ve talked to her about her not showing her emotions and being romantic two times now and they have both led to nothing. I’ve been objectively a very good boyfriend, I’ve held her in my hands during tough times, i’ve got her flowers numerous times, I’ve took her on expensive dates, yet I can’t even get a kiss? Realistically, this wouldn’t be happening if I was a Chad, she would be the one paying for dates, she would be the one getting me gifts, she would be the one wanting to kiss me. What I initially thought after thinking about my situation is that looks is a short term factor that helps you through first dates, meeting new people, etc, and that personality is the driving factor for the long-term, but I was wrong. Her personality would be totally different. If I was, Chad, she wouldn’t be as hesitant, as skeptical as leery as she is. She would be able to open up to me, be with me, and kiss me without thinking nor hesitating. It’s just so brutal because in these six months, I’ve done absolutely everything I could, yet to what avail? Don’t get me wrong, she’s a very caring person and being with a girl like her is rare, but it doesn’t even feel like an actual relationship, it feels like we’re close friends, which destroys me day by day. At this point, I feel like giving up on it because I don’t know how much more I can give without receiving anything, all of this because I am a HTN. I never thought having a gf would be so platonic, I just don’t know what else to do atp, I already talked to her about it multiple times as I said and nothing has changed, and now that’s I’m going on a trip for 10 days it’s going to be even more distant when I come back. I’ve already met her family and she just gave me my Christmas gift which was a silver chain and a card before I left. The card said something like, “I know I can’t express my emotions to you that well but I truly love you”. But does she really? It doesn’t feel like it.

dont lose her i undrestand her also a relationship never needs to be sexual imo but you do you

 

[iblamebones000101]

Keep waiting? Nah ima just kiss her atp and if she files for SA I’m killing myself

if she files for sa you were never htn

 

[Deleted member 302910]

To start, i’m a factually a LHTN/MHTN also being 6 feet tall. I started talking to this girl back in mid June and have been going about 3 dates a month until around late August where I asked her to be my gf in which she said yes. She is factually a Stacylite, think of Gio Scottii without the coloring. Christmas Eve is tomorrow, and throughout all this time we haven’t even kissed. She’s a very value grounded/religious girl; she doesn’t drink, smoke, follow other guys on social media platforms, etc. I just finished hanging out with her for the last time since I’m going to be going on a trip on Christmas. I’ve talked to her about her not showing her emotions and being romantic two times now and they have both led to nothing. I’ve been objectively a very good boyfriend, I’ve held her in my hands during tough times, i’ve got her flowers numerous times, I’ve took her on expensive dates, yet I can’t even get a kiss? Realistically, this wouldn’t be happening if I was a Chad, she would be the one paying for dates, she would be the one getting me gifts, she would be the one wanting to kiss me. What I initially thought after thinking about my situation is that looks is a short term factor that helps you through first dates, meeting new people, etc, and that personality is the driving factor for the long-term, but I was wrong. Her personality would be totally different. If I was, Chad, she wouldn’t be as hesitant, as skeptical as leery as she is. She would be able to open up to me, be with me, and kiss me without thinking nor hesitating. It’s just so brutal because in these six months, I’ve done absolutely everything I could, yet to what avail? Don’t get me wrong, she’s a very caring person and being with a girl like her is rare, but it doesn’t even feel like an actual relationship, it feels like we’re close friends, which destroys me day by day. At this point, I feel like giving up on it because I don’t know how much more I can give without receiving anything, all of this because I am a HTN. I never thought having a gf would be so platonic, I just don’t know what else to do atp, I already talked to her about it multiple times as I said and nothing has changed, and now that’s I’m going on a trip for 10 days it’s going to be even more distant when I come back. I’ve already met her family and she just gave me my Christmas gift which was a silver chain and a card before I left. The card said something like, “I know I can’t express my emotions to you that well but I truly love you”. But does she really? It doesn’t feel like it.

Nigga are you retarded shes a stacylite and religious and doesnt talk to other guys she is not gonna be easy for your ass just find another girl tf either commit to her or be a cuck for the rest of ur life by finding ur looksmatch that will eventually cheat on you

 

[wannabesuperhuman]

To start, i’m a factually a LHTN/MHTN also being 6 feet tall. I started talking to this girl back in mid June and have been going about 3 dates a month until around late August where I asked her to be my gf in which she said yes. She is factually a Stacylite, think of Gio Scottii without the coloring. Christmas Eve is tomorrow, and throughout all this time we haven’t even kissed. She’s a very value grounded/religious girl; she doesn’t drink, smoke, follow other guys on social media platforms, etc. I just finished hanging out with her for the last time since I’m going to be going on a trip on Christmas. I’ve talked to her about her not showing her emotions and being romantic two times now and they have both led to nothing. I’ve been objectively a very good boyfriend, I’ve held her in my hands during tough times, i’ve got her flowers numerous times, I’ve took her on expensive dates, yet I can’t even get a kiss? Realistically, this wouldn’t be happening if I was a Chad, she would be the one paying for dates, she would be the one getting me gifts, she would be the one wanting to kiss me. What I initially thought after thinking about my situation is that looks is a short term factor that helps you through first dates, meeting new people, etc, and that personality is the driving factor for the long-term, but I was wrong. Her personality would be totally different. If I was, Chad, she wouldn’t be as hesitant, as skeptical as leery as she is. She would be able to open up to me, be with me, and kiss me without thinking nor hesitating. It’s just so brutal because in these six months, I’ve done absolutely everything I could, yet to what avail? Don’t get me wrong, she’s a very caring person and being with a girl like her is rare, but it doesn’t even feel like an actual relationship, it feels like we’re close friends, which destroys me day by day. At this point, I feel like giving up on it because I don’t know how much more I can give without receiving anything, all of this because I am a HTN. I never thought having a gf would be so platonic, I just don’t know what else to do atp, I already talked to her about it multiple times as I said and nothing has changed, and now that’s I’m going on a trip for 10 days it’s going to be even more distant when I come back. I’ve already met her family and she just gave me my Christmas gift which was a silver chain and a card before I left. The card said something like, “I know I can’t express my emotions to you that well but I truly love you”. But does she really? It doesn’t feel like it.

Do did you plan to do a last try to get her back or you just gave up ?
Interesting story ngl.

 

[Purecel]

dont lose her i undrestand her also a relationship never needs to be sexual imo but you do you

I’m not looking for sex I just wanna kiss her after 7 months

 

[iblamebones000101]

I’m not looking for sex I just wanna kiss her after 7 months

nigga is despreat just go and be a man creat the romantic vibe in a date and kiss her

 

[Purecel]

Do did you plan to do a last try to get her back or you just gave up ?
Interesting story ngl.

I’ll give it another month or 3 weekish before I make any decisions but I’m at my breaking point, too much stress for such little reward

 

[idnap]

She probably is waiting for you to make the first move. It’s your fucking girl, nigga—kiss her already. She is probably telling her friends that you’re a bitch who can’t kiss his own girl.

Brutal

 

[Cocaethylene]

To start, i’m a factually a LHTN/MHTN also being 6 feet tall. I started talking to this girl back in mid June and have been going about 3 dates a month until around late August where I asked her to be my gf in which she said yes. She is factually a Stacylite, think of Gio Scottii without the coloring. Christmas Eve is tomorrow, and throughout all this time we haven’t even kissed. She’s a very value grounded/religious girl; she doesn’t drink, smoke, follow other guys on social media platforms, etc. I just finished hanging out with her for the last time since I’m going to be going on a trip on Christmas. I’ve talked to her about her not showing her emotions and being romantic two times now and they have both led to nothing. I’ve been objectively a very good boyfriend, I’ve held her in my hands during tough times, i’ve got her flowers numerous times, I’ve took her on expensive dates, yet I can’t even get a kiss? Realistically, this wouldn’t be happening if I was a Chad, she would be the one paying for dates, she would be the one getting me gifts, she would be the one wanting to kiss me. What I initially thought after thinking about my situation is that looks is a short term factor that helps you through first dates, meeting new people, etc, and that personality is the driving factor for the long-term, but I was wrong. Her personality would be totally different. If I was, Chad, she wouldn’t be as hesitant, as skeptical as leery as she is. She would be able to open up to me, be with me, and kiss me without thinking nor hesitating. It’s just so brutal because in these six months, I’ve done absolutely everything I could, yet to what avail? Don’t get me wrong, she’s a very caring person and being with a girl like her is rare, but it doesn’t even feel like an actual relationship, it feels like we’re close friends, which destroys me day by day. At this point, I feel like giving up on it because I don’t know how much more I can give without receiving anything, all of this because I am a HTN. I never thought having a gf would be so platonic, I just don’t know what else to do atp, I already talked to her about it multiple times as I said and nothing has changed, and now that’s I’m going on a trip for 10 days it’s going to be even more distant when I come back. I’ve already met her family and she just gave me my Christmas gift which was a silver chain and a card before I left. The card said something like, “I know I can’t express my emotions to you that well but I truly love you”. But does she really? It doesn’t feel like it.

Update?

 

[mtgvlg]

To start, i’m a factually a LHTN/MHTN also being 6 feet tall. I started talking to this girl back in mid June and have been going about 3 dates a month until around late August where I asked her to be my gf in which she said yes. She is factually a Stacylite, think of Gio Scottii without the coloring. Christmas Eve is tomorrow, and throughout all this time we haven’t even kissed. She’s a very value grounded/religious girl; she doesn’t drink, smoke, follow other guys on social media platforms, etc. I just finished hanging out with her for the last time since I’m going to be going on a trip on Christmas. I’ve talked to her about her not showing her emotions and being romantic two times now and they have both led to nothing. I’ve been objectively a very good boyfriend, I’ve held her in my hands during tough times, i’ve got her flowers numerous times, I’ve took her on expensive dates, yet I can’t even get a kiss? Realistically, this wouldn’t be happening if I was a Chad, she would be the one paying for dates, she would be the one getting me gifts, she would be the one wanting to kiss me. What I initially thought after thinking about my situation is that looks is a short term factor that helps you through first dates, meeting new people, etc, and that personality is the driving factor for the long-term, but I was wrong. Her personality would be totally different. If I was, Chad, she wouldn’t be as hesitant, as skeptical as leery as she is. She would be able to open up to me, be with me, and kiss me without thinking nor hesitating. It’s just so brutal because in these six months, I’ve done absolutely everything I could, yet to what avail? Don’t get me wrong, she’s a very caring person and being with a girl like her is rare, but it doesn’t even feel like an actual relationship, it feels like we’re close friends, which destroys me day by day. At this point, I feel like giving up on it because I don’t know how much more I can give without receiving anything, all of this because I am a HTN. I never thought having a gf would be so platonic, I just don’t know what else to do atp, I already talked to her about it multiple times as I said and nothing has changed, and now that’s I’m going on a trip for 10 days it’s going to be even more distant when I come back. I’ve already met her family and she just gave me my Christmas gift which was a silver chain and a card before I left. The card said something like, “I know I can’t express my emotions to you that well but I truly love you”. But does she really? It doesn’t feel like it.

are u a retard or something. Just speak to her directly idiot. and if she still doesn't want to do anything just leave her. "she's a stacylit" cool but what's the point if you don't even do anything with her other than go on dates lmao. what a joke

 

[Purecel]

Update?

Nothing yet I’m out of town I will see her again early January but we are talking about it rn over text and idk what’s gonna happen

 

[Purecel]

are u a retard or something. Just speak to her directly idiot. and if she still doesn't want to do anything just leave her. "she's a stacylit" cool but what's the point if you don't even do anything with her other than go on dates lmao. what a joke

Ik

 

[Purecel]

Just accidentally made her cry by trying to communicate ts to her, like dude I barely even said anything and I made sure to not be that harsh but she started crying, why tf is it always me that gets in these stupid ass situations

 

[Purecel]

Just accidentally made her cry by trying to communicate ts to her, like dude I barely even said anything and I made sure to not be that harsh but she started crying, why tf is it always me that gets in these stupid ass situations

@Cocaethylene @iblamebones000101 @IDontBlameAnybody

 

[Cocaethylene]

Nothing yet I’m out of town I will see her again early January but we are talking about it rn over text and idk what’s gonna happen

Bro you seriously need to learn some game, never tell a girl your gonna kiss her smh just do it, you should be able to read the room and tell if she is down

 

[Cocaethylene]

Just accidentally made her cry by trying to communicate ts to her, like dude I barely even said anything and I made sure to not be that harsh but she started crying, why tf is it always me that gets in these stupid ass situations

Its probably your tonality nigga she didnt start cryin for any reason

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

@Cocaethylene @iblamebones000101 @IDontBlameAnybody

ur a good dude man. shit happens.shes a bit different. ngl when ive pulled in the club latelyand talked to the girls as we are going to my place, they sometimes said thry havent never been on a date lol. And thry were above average looks wise. But anyways fuck my story, the other dude was right, If she still doesnt want to do any sexual activities after your effortd, leave her.

 

[kindaover]

To start, i’m a factually a LHTN/MHTN also being 6 feet tall. I started talking to this girl back in mid June and have been going about 3 dates a month until around late August where I asked her to be my gf in which she said yes. She is factually a Stacylite, think of Gio Scottii without the coloring. Christmas Eve is tomorrow, and throughout all this time we haven’t even kissed. She’s a very value grounded/religious girl; she doesn’t drink, smoke, follow other guys on social media platforms, etc. I just finished hanging out with her for the last time since I’m going to be going on a trip on Christmas. I’ve talked to her about her not showing her emotions and being romantic two times now and they have both led to nothing. I’ve been objectively a very good boyfriend, I’ve held her in my hands during tough times, i’ve got her flowers numerous times, I’ve took her on expensive dates, yet I can’t even get a kiss? Realistically, this wouldn’t be happening if I was a Chad, she would be the one paying for dates, she would be the one getting me gifts, she would be the one wanting to kiss me. What I initially thought after thinking about my situation is that looks is a short term factor that helps you through first dates, meeting new people, etc, and that personality is the driving factor for the long-term, but I was wrong. Her personality would be totally different. If I was, Chad, she wouldn’t be as hesitant, as skeptical as leery as she is. She would be able to open up to me, be with me, and kiss me without thinking nor hesitating. It’s just so brutal because in these six months, I’ve done absolutely everything I could, yet to what avail? Don’t get me wrong, she’s a very caring person and being with a girl like her is rare, but it doesn’t even feel like an actual relationship, it feels like we’re close friends, which destroys me day by day. At this point, I feel like giving up on it because I don’t know how much more I can give without receiving anything, all of this because I am a HTN. I never thought having a gf would be so platonic, I just don’t know what else to do atp, I already talked to her about it multiple times as I said and nothing has changed, and now that’s I’m going on a trip for 10 days it’s going to be even more distant when I come back. I’ve already met her family and she just gave me my Christmas gift which was a silver chain and a card before I left. The card said something like, “I know I can’t express my emotions to you that well but I truly love you”. But does she really? It doesn’t feel like it.

Nigga ur talking to her like ur friends u gotta learn how to be more toxic

 

[magnus3773]

dnr

 

[Purecel]

Its probably your tonality nigga she didnt start cryin for any reason

Bro I legit barely said any harsh shit I feel she’s subconsciously trying to tell herself that she’s a victim or smth

 

[Purecel]

ur a good dude man. shit happens.shes a bit different. ngl when ive pulled in the club latelyand talked to the girls as we are going to my place, they sometimes said thry havent never been on a date lol. And thry were above average looks wise. But anyways fuck my story, the other dude was right, If she still doesnt want to do any sexual activities after your effortd, leave her.

And like bro trust me I’m lowkey also a gentleman, I’ve paid for EVERY DATE, open every single car and store door for her, I have a fucking BMW, I’m a fucking MHTN, I’m 6 foot, I’ve gotten her flowers like 5 times, I’ve made a card for her, Ive spent 1k+ on her, LIKE WTF MORE DO I HAVE TO DO FOR HER TO ACTUALLY BE MY FUCKING GF, and yea your right this week either she’s gotta change or I’m dipping ts

 

[pavements]

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To start, i’m a factually a LHTN/MHTN also being 6 feet tall. I started talking to this girl back in mid June and have been going about 3 dates a month until around late August where I asked her to be my gf in which she said yes. She is factually a Stacylite, think of Gio Scottii without the coloring. Christmas Eve is tomorrow, and throughout all this time we haven’t even kissed. She’s a very value grounded/religious girl; she doesn’t drink, smoke, follow other guys on social media platforms, etc. I just finished hanging out with her for the last time since I’m going to be going on a trip on Christmas. I’ve talked to her about her not showing her emotions and being romantic two times now and they have both led to nothing. I’ve been objectively a very good boyfriend, I’ve held her in my hands during tough times, i’ve got her flowers numerous times, I’ve took her on expensive dates, yet I can’t even get a kiss? Realistically, this wouldn’t be happening if I was a Chad, she would be the one paying for dates, she would be the one getting me gifts, she would be the one wanting to kiss me. What I initially thought after thinking about my situation is that looks is a short term factor that helps you through first dates, meeting new people, etc, and that personality is the driving factor for the long-term, but I was wrong. Her personality would be totally different. If I was, Chad, she wouldn’t be as hesitant, as skeptical as leery as she is. She would be able to open up to me, be with me, and kiss me without thinking nor hesitating. It’s just so brutal because in these six months, I’ve done absolutely everything I could, yet to what avail? Don’t get me wrong, she’s a very caring person and being with a girl like her is rare, but it doesn’t even feel like an actual relationship, it feels like we’re close friends, which destroys me day by day. At this point, I feel like giving up on it because I don’t know how much more I can give without receiving anything, all of this because I am a HTN. I never thought having a gf would be so platonic, I just don’t know what else to do atp, I already talked to her about it multiple times as I said and nothing has changed, and now that’s I’m going on a trip for 10 days it’s going to be even more distant when I come back. I’ve already met her family and she just gave me my Christmas gift which was a silver chain and a card before I left. The card said something like, “I know I can’t express my emotions to you that well but I truly love you”. But does she really? It doesn’t feel like it.

no one gives a fuck about ur story, grey

 

[UMatter]

To start, i’m a factually a LHTN/MHTN also being 6 feet tall. I started talking to this girl back in mid June and have been going about 3 dates a month until around late August where I asked her to be my gf in which she said yes. She is factually a Stacylite, think of Gio Scottii without the coloring. Christmas Eve is tomorrow, and throughout all this time we haven’t even kissed. She’s a very value grounded/religious girl; she doesn’t drink, smoke, follow other guys on social media platforms, etc. I just finished hanging out with her for the last time since I’m going to be going on a trip on Christmas. I’ve talked to her about her not showing her emotions and being romantic two times now and they have both led to nothing. I’ve been objectively a very good boyfriend, I’ve held her in my hands during tough times, i’ve got her flowers numerous times, I’ve took her on expensive dates, yet I can’t even get a kiss? Realistically, this wouldn’t be happening if I was a Chad, she would be the one paying for dates, she would be the one getting me gifts, she would be the one wanting to kiss me. What I initially thought after thinking about my situation is that looks is a short term factor that helps you through first dates, meeting new people, etc, and that personality is the driving factor for the long-term, but I was wrong. Her personality would be totally different. If I was, Chad, she wouldn’t be as hesitant, as skeptical as leery as she is. She would be able to open up to me, be with me, and kiss me without thinking nor hesitating. It’s just so brutal because in these six months, I’ve done absolutely everything I could, yet to what avail? Don’t get me wrong, she’s a very caring person and being with a girl like her is rare, but it doesn’t even feel like an actual relationship, it feels like we’re close friends, which destroys me day by day. At this point, I feel like giving up on it because I don’t know how much more I can give without receiving anything, all of this because I am a HTN. I never thought having a gf would be so platonic, I just don’t know what else to do atp, I already talked to her about it multiple times as I said and nothing has changed, and now that’s I’m going on a trip for 10 days it’s going to be even more distant when I come back. I’ve already met her family and she just gave me my Christmas gift which was a silver chain and a card before I left. The card said something like, “I know I can’t express my emotions to you that well but I truly love you”. But does she really? It doesn’t feel like it.

dnr

 

[bigboi69]

To start, i’m a factually a LHTN/MHTN also being 6 feet tall. I started talking to this girl back in mid June and have been going about 3 dates a month until around late August where I asked her to be my gf in which she said yes. She is factually a Stacylite, think of Gio Scottii without the coloring. Christmas Eve is tomorrow, and throughout all this time we haven’t even kissed. She’s a very value grounded/religious girl; she doesn’t drink, smoke, follow other guys on social media platforms, etc. I just finished hanging out with her for the last time since I’m going to be going on a trip on Christmas. I’ve talked to her about her not showing her emotions and being romantic two times now and they have both led to nothing. I’ve been objectively a very good boyfriend, I’ve held her in my hands during tough times, i’ve got her flowers numerous times, I’ve took her on expensive dates, yet I can’t even get a kiss? Realistically, this wouldn’t be happening if I was a Chad, she would be the one paying for dates, she would be the one getting me gifts, she would be the one wanting to kiss me. What I initially thought after thinking about my situation is that looks is a short term factor that helps you through first dates, meeting new people, etc, and that personality is the driving factor for the long-term, but I was wrong. Her personality would be totally different. If I was, Chad, she wouldn’t be as hesitant, as skeptical as leery as she is. She would be able to open up to me, be with me, and kiss me without thinking nor hesitating. It’s just so brutal because in these six months, I’ve done absolutely everything I could, yet to what avail? Don’t get me wrong, she’s a very caring person and being with a girl like her is rare, but it doesn’t even feel like an actual relationship, it feels like we’re close friends, which destroys me day by day. At this point, I feel like giving up on it because I don’t know how much more I can give without receiving anything, all of this because I am a HTN. I never thought having a gf would be so platonic, I just don’t know what else to do atp, I already talked to her about it multiple times as I said and nothing has changed, and now that’s I’m going on a trip for 10 days it’s going to be even more distant when I come back. I’ve already met her family and she just gave me my Christmas gift which was a silver chain and a card before I left. The card said something like, “I know I can’t express my emotions to you that well but I truly love you”. But does she really? It doesn’t feel like it.

give it time if she’s hella religious and yall are still younger she’s prolly a virgin and girls new to relationships as a whole, that also feel the pressure of religious beliefs or parental expectations take time sometimes might not help that ur mtn she’s sl but ultimately if she a genuine girl n you quit overthinking all the pussy shit and just rizz the bitch and show her who the man and stick this trip n a lil more they she’ll likely eventually cave conform and you’ll be chillin asf went thru similar same situation tbh

 

[copester2]

To start, i’m a factually a LHTN/MHTN also being 6 feet tall. I started talking to this girl back in mid June and have been going about 3 dates a month until around late August where I asked her to be my gf in which she said yes. She is factually a Stacylite, think of Gio Scottii without the coloring. Christmas Eve is tomorrow, and throughout all this time we haven’t even kissed. She’s a very value grounded/religious girl; she doesn’t drink, smoke, follow other guys on social media platforms, etc. I just finished hanging out with her for the last time since I’m going to be going on a trip on Christmas. I’ve talked to her about her not showing her emotions and being romantic two times now and they have both led to nothing. I’ve been objectively a very good boyfriend, I’ve held her in my hands during tough times, i’ve got her flowers numerous times, I’ve took her on expensive dates, yet I can’t even get a kiss? Realistically, this wouldn’t be happening if I was a Chad, she would be the one paying for dates, she would be the one getting me gifts, she would be the one wanting to kiss me. What I initially thought after thinking about my situation is that looks is a short term factor that helps you through first dates, meeting new people, etc, and that personality is the driving factor for the long-term, but I was wrong. Her personality would be totally different. If I was, Chad, she wouldn’t be as hesitant, as skeptical as leery as she is. She would be able to open up to me, be with me, and kiss me without thinking nor hesitating. It’s just so brutal because in these six months, I’ve done absolutely everything I could, yet to what avail? Don’t get me wrong, she’s a very caring person and being with a girl like her is rare, but it doesn’t even feel like an actual relationship, it feels like we’re close friends, which destroys me day by day. At this point, I feel like giving up on it because I don’t know how much more I can give without receiving anything, all of this because I am a HTN. I never thought having a gf would be so platonic, I just don’t know what else to do atp, I already talked to her about it multiple times as I said and nothing has changed, and now that’s I’m going on a trip for 10 days it’s going to be even more distant when I come back. I’ve already met her family and she just gave me my Christmas gift which was a silver chain and a card before I left. The card said something like, “I know I can’t express my emotions to you that well but I truly love you”. But does she really? It doesn’t feel like it.

did.not.read.a.single.molecule.stop.posting.forever

 

[Yemuk]

bro just leave her and date a hmtb, she’s putting you in the cuck chair

 

[Cocaethylene]

And like bro trust me I’m lowkey also a gentleman, I’ve paid for EVERY DATE, open every single car and store door for her, I have a fucking BMW, I’m a fucking MHTN, I’m 6 foot, I’ve gotten her flowers like 5 times, I’ve made a card for her, Ive spent 1k+ on her, LIKE WTF MORE DO I HAVE TO DO FOR HER TO ACTUALLY BE MY FUCKING GF, and yea your right this week either she’s gotta change or I’m dipping ts

You cant expect a girl to like you unless you true adam, fucken incel

 

[Trollify]

I love you so much bro thank you and I wish you the absolute most pure and utopian glory in your life and I really hope you fulfill every single dream that you ever had, thanks again

Dont be to desperate

 

[Trollify]

I wouldn't wish this upon my worst enemy, to have such an amazing girl and to still be so unsure in your relationship is a horrible situation to be in. If you think about it though there are really only two cases you could be in:

1. She doesn't love you

It wouldn't make much sense for her to have gone on so many dates and said yes to being your gf if she didn't love you but people don't make sense. From what I have seen especially with first relationships girls (and guys) will say yes to nearly any decent person even if they don't really love them just because they want to love them and haven't learnt that being in a relationship isn't going to magically make people love each other. It might not be that she is being malicious but she just doesn't understand her own emotions.

2. She loves you

It wouldn't make much sense for her to love you and for her still be so distant and not have any intimacy but people don't make sense. There are a few reasons she might not feel comfortable with that stuff, her religion, self image issues, personal trauma etc. but at the end of the day she still really loves you.

Depending on what case you fall into you need to act differently so you need to figure out which it is. The fact there are only two is handy for this because if you can be sure one is false then the other must be true, when you have removed the impossible whatever remains, no matter how improbable, must be the truth. You know her better than any of us so when you look within yourself and think back on your time with her what do you think.

Personally I have felt what you feel now and I hated it more than anything but I'm rooting for you bro. If what she wrote in that card is true then she understands that her being so closed off is an issue and she has listened to you and wants you to know how she feels. I think you should stick around a bit longer, try to spend time with her and have honest conversations and try to see if there is a reason for her being this way, basically look for evidence that you are/aren't in one of the cases. I really feel for you man and I hope you can find a love with her that doesn't make you worry. Even if you don't make an update post it would be nice to hear how things play out in PMs. Good luck with everything man

Dont be desperate or she Will take you for granted and leave you

 

[PRAG]

Bro I legit barely said any harsh shit I feel she’s subconsciously trying to tell herself that she’s a victim or smth

She's manipulating you you cuck leave her or cheat

 

[BlackZygos]

To start, i’m a factually a LHTN/MHTN also being 6 feet tall. I started talking to this girl back in mid June and have been going about 3 dates a month until around late August where I asked her to be my gf in which she said yes. She is factually a Stacylite, think of Gio Scottii without the coloring. Christmas Eve is tomorrow, and throughout all this time we haven’t even kissed. She’s a very value grounded/religious girl; she doesn’t drink, smoke, follow other guys on social media platforms, etc. I just finished hanging out with her for the last time since I’m going to be going on a trip on Christmas. I’ve talked to her about her not showing her emotions and being romantic two times now and they have both led to nothing. I’ve been objectively a very good boyfriend, I’ve held her in my hands during tough times, i’ve got her flowers numerous times, I’ve took her on expensive dates, yet I can’t even get a kiss? Realistically, this wouldn’t be happening if I was a Chad, she would be the one paying for dates, she would be the one getting me gifts, she would be the one wanting to kiss me. What I initially thought after thinking about my situation is that looks is a short term factor that helps you through first dates, meeting new people, etc, and that personality is the driving factor for the long-term, but I was wrong. Her personality would be totally different. If I was, Chad, she wouldn’t be as hesitant, as skeptical as leery as she is. She would be able to open up to me, be with me, and kiss me without thinking nor hesitating. It’s just so brutal because in these six months, I’ve done absolutely everything I could, yet to what avail? Don’t get me wrong, she’s a very caring person and being with a girl like her is rare, but it doesn’t even feel like an actual relationship, it feels like we’re close friends, which destroys me day by day. At this point, I feel like giving up on it because I don’t know how much more I can give without receiving anything, all of this because I am a HTN. I never thought having a gf would be so platonic, I just don’t know what else to do atp, I already talked to her about it multiple times as I said and nothing has changed, and now that’s I’m going on a trip for 10 days it’s going to be even more distant when I come back. I’ve already met her family and she just gave me my Christmas gift which was a silver chain and a card before I left. The card said something like, “I know I can’t express my emotions to you that well but I truly love you”. But does she really? It doesn’t feel like it.

alright bro, imma just say it straight and keep it tight. a lot of what you wrote sounds less like thinking and more like you tying yourself in knots to avoid the obvious.
first off, stop with the charts and labels. LHTN, MHTN, Stacy-lite, Chad… none of that explains what’s happening. you’re six months in and treating this like a case study instead of a real human relationship. that alone is part of the problem.
here’s the simple reality: this isn’t about “not being Chad.” it’s about mismatched pacing and boundaries. she’s reserved, religious, slow to open up. that was true in june, it’s true now, and it would still be true even if you looked different. attraction doesn’t automatically mean physical affection for everyone.
also, stop keeping score. “i paid for dates, bought flowers, was there for her” cool, that’s baseline behavior, not a transaction that guarantees a kiss. thinking in terms of “i did X, so i deserve Y” just sets you up for frustration.
here’s the kicker: you’ve talked to her about this twice, she hasn’t changed, and you’re still expecting a different outcome. that’s not patience, that’s denial. she literally told you in the card she struggles to express emotions but loves you. that’s something, but also her saying “this is who i am.”
so the real question isn’t “does she love me?” it’s “can i accept a relationship that looks like this?” right now, the answer seems like no. that doesn’t make you shallow or doomed, it just means you want a real relationship, not a friendship with a title.
blaming your looks is the easy out. it lets you dodge the hard choice. the truth is simpler: either you accept her pace and personality, or you stop dragging this out and walk away respectfully. staying while resenting her is the worst move.
i get it hurts. you clearly care. but caring harder doesn’t change someone. stop overthinking, stop comparing yourself to imaginary Chads, and be honest about what you actually need. that’s not weakness, that’s maturity.

 

[Purecel]

alright bro, imma just say it straight and keep it tight. a lot of what you wrote sounds less like thinking and more like you tying yourself in knots to avoid the obvious.
first off, stop with the charts and labels. LHTN, MHTN, Stacy-lite, Chad… none of that explains what’s happening. you’re six months in and treating this like a case study instead of a real human relationship. that alone is part of the problem.
here’s the simple reality: this isn’t about “not being Chad.” it’s about mismatched pacing and boundaries. she’s reserved, religious, slow to open up. that was true in june, it’s true now, and it would still be true even if you looked different. attraction doesn’t automatically mean physical affection for everyone.
also, stop keeping score. “i paid for dates, bought flowers, was there for her” cool, that’s baseline behavior, not a transaction that guarantees a kiss. thinking in terms of “i did X, so i deserve Y” just sets you up for frustration.
here’s the kicker: you’ve talked to her about this twice, she hasn’t changed, and you’re still expecting a different outcome. that’s not patience, that’s denial. she literally told you in the card she struggles to express emotions but loves you. that’s something, but also her saying “this is who i am.”
so the real question isn’t “does she love me?” it’s “can i accept a relationship that looks like this?” right now, the answer seems like no. that doesn’t make you shallow or doomed, it just means you want a real relationship, not a friendship with a title.
blaming your looks is the easy out. it lets you dodge the hard choice. the truth is simpler: either you accept her pace and personality, or you stop dragging this out and walk away respectfully. staying while resenting her is the worst move.
i get it hurts. you clearly care. but caring harder doesn’t change someone. stop overthinking, stop comparing yourself to imaginary Chads, and be honest about what you actually need. that’s not weakness, that’s maturity.

Holy iqcel that was beautiful dude, read every word. And yes, you have some good points that I must implement. If I want to be happy, I will give it one more week max, if something changes, I will see what I can do in the relationship, if nothing changes then that’s my sign to leave even if it will be hard. In the end, I must do what’s best for me, even if I don’t want to, thank you for your response. I appreciate you writing me this message.