Can a therapist help me?

[.*my*.]

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[Sociobiology]

You should go to therapy but don’t take any shit if they’re a bad therapist.

 

[Bashan]

Yes bro go pay someone to talk about your feelings.

 

[Deleted member 26448]

no

 

[ascension]

Yes a therapist will fix your failos and increase your height

 

[Deleted member 27702]

yeah, definetly. U just have to find the right one for you, it's good to have one. It's really bad for your mental health to keep in bad thoughts, u'll end up like these morons posting stuff like "I wanna kill my dad" in the offtopic section in the long run

 

[apocalypse]

idk
but me personally I'm desperate enough to try it
I'm not going to make it to 30 like this

 

[Suimaxxer]

yeah, definetly. U just have to find the right one for you, it's good to have one. It's really bad for your mental health to keep in bad thoughts, u'll end up like these morons posting stuff like "I wanna kill my dad" in the offtopic section in the long run

Shut the fuck up greycel

 

[Deleted member 27702]

Shut the fuck up greycel

suck on my tits and maybe u'll get some protein out of it incel

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

If they were less socially adherent therapists could be much more useful. Wouldn't do a looksmax user much of any good.

Therapists just tell you what you already know and act as a person to hold you accountable for things. They don't tell you your problems or solve them. For this reason a user here without advanced mental issues would just lose money

If you're really fucked then go ahead though

 

[Danish_Retard]

Probably the best ROI ever for me. (I got it for free for trying to kms)

But it has geniuinely helped my life so incredibly much, removed 99% of my anxiety, depression, made me stop hating myself.

And once you learn to ask yourself the questions your therapist would you won't ever need them again, you can just open a document and begin writing your thoughts down.

 

[.*my*.]

Probably the best ROI ever for me. (I got it for free for trying to kms)

But it has geniuinely helped my life so incredibly much, removed 99% of my anxiety, depression, made me stop hating myself.

And once you learn to ask yourself the questions your therapist would you won't ever need them again, you can just open a document and begin writing your thoughts down.

Yeah you whites are advanced you can talk through your problems.

Niggers like me need drugs and and fucks to fix my problems

 

[Danish_Retard]

Yeah you whites are advanced you can talk through your problems.

Niggers like me need drugs and and fucks to fix my problems

Well man, 100€ in drugs is a lot more fun anyway.

But shit man, I'd probably pay for therapy if I had to, but you need to be intillegent about who you choose if you're gonna do it. Go for an older male psychologist (not a therapist), preferably atheist, otherwise they'll just shove their religion down your throat.

I've told my psychologist about wanting to go ER, plastic surgery and the stuff and he's never said anything was wrong with it. He'll drop brutal blackpills on me out of nowhere. But ultimately it's better to accept reality than live in delusion.

 

[.*my*.]

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Well man, 100€ in drugs is a lot more fun anyway.

But shit man, I'd probably pay for therapy if I had to, but you need to be intillegent about who you choose if you're gonna do it. Go for an older male psychologist (not a therapist), preferably atheist, otherwise they'll just shove their religion down your throat.

I've told my psychologist about wanting to go ER, plastic surgery and the stuff and he's never said anything was wrong with it. He'll drop brutal blackpills on me out of nowhere. But ultimately it's better to accept reality than live in delusion.

I’m kinda religious but I agree about religious people, many of them can’t leave their feelings out of it.

My problem is that I’m depressed not because there is something wrong with my brain, I am depressed because of rejection. I have anxiety issues and no girl was ever patient enough with me to wait for some time for my anxiety to go down as I get more comfortable. They just turned me down because I’m not cool enough.

Right now I’m not very depressed but I seriously lack motivation to do anything because my current condition (being rejected by every girl) is equivalent to getting your nuts cut off.

What’s the point of doing anything after that?

 

[Danish_Retard]

I’m kinda religious but I agree about religious people, many of them can’t leave their feelings out of it.

My problem is that I’m depressed not because there is something wrong with my brain, I am depressed because of rejection. I have anxiety issues and no girl was ever patient enough with me to wait for some time for my anxiety to go down as I get more comfortable. They just turned me down because I’m not cool enough.

Right now I’m not very depressed but I seriously lack motivation to do anything because my current condition (being rejected by every girl) is equivalent to getting your nuts cut off.

What’s the point of doing anything after that?

Well I'm no therapist, but a they would probably start by getting you to notice that you have not actually given up.
I.E. sought them out and highlight inconsistencies in your thoughts, such as

no girl was ever patient enough with me to wait for some time for my anxiety to go down as I get more comfortable.

my current condition (being rejected by every girl)

You have had girls interested in you, only your anxiety is holding you back, so there is no reason to feel hopeless. Then, there are several different ways to treat anxiety, ISTDP is the best and most research backed, if you can find a psychologist doing this it will help you massively. When you undergo ISTDP you will probably stop being anxious, I at least used to be so anxious that I wouldn't go outside during day time, threw up before a date, dropped out of school etc. Now I barely feel anxiety anymore.

They just turned me down because I’m not cool enough.

This is an assumption and might not be reality.



As for ISTDP you will mostly focus on experiences, and then go through destructive mental reactions. Once you identify and work through the feelings behind the actions and anxiety it dissapears, don't ask me why, but it does.

 

[.*my*.]

This is an assumption and might not be reality.

What other reason then? I I’m 6’3 and not ugly. Voice is normal. Not balding. Not low IQ. I don’t stink.

 

[Deleted member 25059]

What other reason then? I I’m 6’3 and not ugly. Voice is normal. Not balding. Not low IQ. I don’t stink.

hahahaha

 

[Danish_Retard]

What other reason then? I I’m 6’3 and not ugly. Voice is normal. Not balding. Not low IQ. I don’t stink.

Shit man the possibilities are endless aren't they? You didn't connect, they had a bad day, you're dating retarded women with retarded definitions of cool, they did not feel comfortable etc. etc.

It's besides the point, that's cognetive behavioral therapy and it's not used that much. Try to find someone specialising in ISTDP.

 

[.*my*.]

Shit man the possibilities are endless aren't they? You didn't connect, they had a bad day, you're dating retarded women with retarded definitions of cool, they did not feel comfortable etc. etc.

It's besides the point, that's cognetive behavioral therapy and it's not used that much. Try to find someone specialising in ISTDP.

I didn’t connect with 15 girls?

But thank you for the help I will do therapy

 

[fauxfox]

Get a male therapist, preferably closer in age to you.

 

[Danish_Retard]

I didn’t connect with 15 girls?

You are missing my point, it is that you assume something is wrong with you when it could be literally anything.

But you won't get social skills from therapy, you probably didn't escalate enough because of anxiety if I there to take a guess, that was my problem at least.

But thank you for the help I will do therapy

I hope it will remove your anxiety like it did mine.