Can I blame girls for beeing a virgin at 25 or is it my fault?

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When I was 14-16 I was PSL 4.5-5 with poor social skills. Girls were always mean to me. I was the a little below average dude, not a single girl had interest in me. I remember when some girls wanted me to introduce to a girl and she whispered to them "why? he is a looser"

Now I'm PSL 5.5-5.75 with a lot of tinder matches but I have no idea how to talk to girls because girls were always rude to me and I'm just scared to talk to girls because of my past experiences. I messaged 0 girls because I can't imagine myself talking to a girl.

Do you think I can blame girls for beeing a virgin at 25 with 0 social skills? Or is it my fault because I never really tried and I'm just a whiny baby?
 
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Just try. You said you get multiple matches so just keep talking shit and eventually it’ll click in your head.
 
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virgin at 25 with 0 social skills? Or is it my fault because I never really tried and I'm just a whiny baby?
Stanley the office
 
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Are you asian
 
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Or course it's your fault, not girls. Yes, if you are confident/have game and act very neurotypical, given you're PSL 5.5+, you should EASILY be able to get laid.
 
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What do you look like OP?
 
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Yes it is your fault unless you are short
No discussion

I knew similar looking guys that did really well,granted not a lot blondes where I live so it was kind of a halo but still you should be doing WAY better
 
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You look pretty good yeah- defo shouldn’t be a 25yo virgin
 
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Yes it is your fault unless you are short
No discussion
look at his side

i think his front is the only think that looks good

might be a subhuman irl with full face range
 
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you look good
its just side effect of being very non nt
 
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look at his side

i think his front is the only think that looks good

might be a subhuman irl with full face range
what subhuman? he gets tinder matches
just shut in autist probably
 
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His side isn’t subhuman - I mean he does look better from the front and his chin is a bit small and under projected but it’s not awful
 
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what subhuman? he gets tinder matches
just shut in autist probably
yeah all good

he's 5'9 he just answered

case closed

it's always below 6' incels here

haven't seen an incel above 6' here
 
yeah all good

he's 5'9 he just answered

case closed

it's always below 6' incels here

haven't seen an incel above 6' here
177-178 not death sentence height jfl
problem is with him being autist
not height or face jfl
 
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dude first, see an escort, this is actually important and good for you, it will demystify sex and make you realise what it really is; nothing really that great in the end, just like eating a nice meal or having a good drink, not insane crazy transcendental experience.

secondly, just start spam going out on dates and you will desensitise yourself to it .
 
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yeah all good

he's 5'9 he just answered

case closed

it's always below 6' incels here

haven't seen an incel above 6' here
look at 7th pic
his neurocranium dominates lower third, he has a physiognomy of autist shut in overthinker insecure loner
despite that he has good facial features and good coloring
 
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177-178 not death sentence height jfl
problem is with him being autist
not height or face jfl

its death sentence height

all good looking incels here are below 6', including me

nothing else needs to be said

think baout it:

you get 100s of tinder matches. girl wants to fuck you hard.

you meet. you're 5'10. girl hoped you're 6'3. she's automatically disintered.
 
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i think stubble would make you look better also. and some muscle.
 
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look at 7th pic
his neurocranium dominates lower third, he has a physiognomy of autist shut in overthinker insecure loner
despite that he has good facial features and good coloring
so you're saying he is ugly after all?
 
its death sentence height

all good looking incels here are below 6', including me

nothing else needs to be said

think baout it:

you get 100s of tinder matches. girl wants to fuck you hard.

you meet. you're 5'10. girl hoped you're 6'3. she's automatically disintered.
guy looks good and unironically should start doing something
its not over for him (y)
 
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so you're saying he is ugly after all?
no
his physiognomy is bad, i dont talk about aesthetics
he has physiognomy of a loner guy, shy guy from class it doesnt mean he looks bad
 
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guy looks good and unironically should start doing something
its not over for him (y)
yeah i agree with you (y)

he should get Leg Lengthening on the Femurs aiming for 3 inches with a weight-bearing nail.
 
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yeah i agree with you

he should get Leg Lengthening on the Femurs aiming for 3 inches with a weight-bearing nail.
he unironically should just go out
 
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yeah i agree with you (y)

he should get Leg Lengthening on the Femurs aiming for 3 inches with a weight-bearing nail.
4 inch lifts like amnesia:feelsgood:
 
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If you're a 5 or higher and can't get women you're the problem. Stop rotting and go outside :lul:

Only people I feel sorry for are sub 3's, they will never ascend and will forever be khhv unless they're extremely wealthy and can betabuxx for gigastacies.
 
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in my case it is my fault, have never spoken to a girl. As my uncle said, no girl will just walk into your living room like that. you have to do something, nothing comes from nothing.
 
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its ur fault nig..u look good i think u r just austic..u are htn which can ascend hard with gym,Ntness And game tbh
redpill is legit for htns
 
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When I was 14-16 I was PSL 4.5-5 with poor social skills. Girls were always mean to me. I was the a little below average dude, not a single girl had interest in me. I remember when some girls wanted me to introduce to a girl and she whispered to them "why? he is a looser"

Now I'm PSL 5.5-5.75 with a lot of tinder matches but I have no idea how to talk to girls because girls were always rude to me and I'm just scared to talk to girls because of my past experiences. I messaged 0 girls because I can't imagine myself talking to a girl.

Do you think I can blame girls for beeing a virgin at 25 with 0 social skills? Or is it my fault because I never really tried and I'm just a whiny baby?
WHiny baby confirmed.

You're 25, have zero social skills and can't talk to girls- be honest if you were a girl would you get with yourself?
Consider working a sales job or acting lessons (srs). It'll help your social skills drastically. remember we're all actors
 
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You don't really need to blame girls or yourself. It is all a product of genes and influences out of your control. Psychology is just as predetermined as looks are. You just got an unlucky hand neurlogically. But it seems really common these days to be non NT. Or at least, they are able to vocalise more now through the net.
 
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what subhuman? he gets tinder matches
just shut in autist probably
matches mean nothing he even admitted they dont message him
 
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low energy and 0 social skills is the worst combo
i wish i would be uglier and low inhib
 
In my country girls get pregnant at 11
 
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low energy and 0 social skills is the worst combo
i wish i would be uglier and low inhib
mashroom maxing is legit for becoming low inhib
 
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When I was 14-16 I was PSL 4.5-5 with poor social skills. Girls were always mean to me. I was the a little below average dude, not a single girl had interest in me. I remember when some girls wanted me to introduce to a girl and she whispered to them "why? he is a looser"

Now I'm PSL 5.5-5.75 with a lot of tinder matches but I have no idea how to talk to girls because girls were always rude to me and I'm just scared to talk to girls because of my past experiences. I messaged 0 girls because I can't imagine myself talking to a girl.

Do you think I can blame girls for beeing a virgin at 25 with 0 social skills? Or is it my fault because I never really tried and I'm just a whiny baby?
If you got a lot of matches just ask who's dtf. You will get some who are after one or 2 messages. Some you might have to take for a drink first. They won't be quality girls, but good for expeience.

Most girls I've got have been this way.

Tfw lack of social skills:feelswhy:
 
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dude first, see an escort, this is actually important and good for you, it will demystify sex and make you realise what it really is; nothing really that great in the end, just like eating a nice meal or having a good drink, not insane crazy transcendental experience.

secondly, just start spam going out on dates and you will desensitise yourself to it .
Deffo don't do this.
 
If you got a lot of matches just ask who's dtf. You will get some who are after one or 2 messages. Some you might have to take for a drink first. They won't be quality girls, but good for expeience.

Most girls I've got have been this way.

Tfw lack of social skills:feelswhy:
ok thank you, i will try that
 
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Blaming women is always the right idea.
 
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In my country girls fuck 100 guys/year
 
Its your fault for not trying now that you have looks. I was the opposite, I had decent looks in high school and had a few girls approach me but I was too shy to say anything to them. They probably thought I was retarded or deaf. After high school I developed severe cystic acne. I finally started asking girls out but its too late. They are all repulsed by me. I used to get approached by at least 1 female a month. Now with acne, girls avoid making eye contact with me.
 
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When I was 14-16 I was PSL 4.5-5 with poor social skills. Girls were always mean to me. I was the a little below average dude, not a single girl had interest in me. I remember when some girls wanted me to introduce to a girl and she whispered to them "why? he is a looser"

Now I'm PSL 5.5-5.75 with a lot of tinder matches but I have no idea how to talk to girls because girls were always rude to me and I'm just scared to talk to girls because of my past experiences. I messaged 0 girls because I can't imagine myself talking to a girl.

Do you think I can blame girls for beeing a virgin at 25 with 0 social skills? Or is it my fault because I never really tried and I'm just a whiny baby?
Stop blaming yourself. Whatever you did or not, you don’t have to justify shit to yourself. No one lived in your body with your circumstances. And you should always accept what you’ve done and will do. Even if it’s murder. There is no one you owe justification except maybe your mum and dad. Blaming will only harm. Do what brings you joy. And always try to get the best for yourself.

you can say you look ugly. Ppl will say many ugly people fuck, they have personality. You might have had a tough childhood and never developed normal Nt behavior and normal relationship. Maybe you got bullied and your family died.

These are just examples to picture what I’m trying to say. If you didn’t develop to a slayer don’t blame yourself for it. If you were out in a environment with good friends and so on you’d probably had a different outcome. But it’s not how it is.

not even the biggest slayer would be a slayer without friends pushing him and so on. The environment makes you.
 
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