Can I change my personality over spring break and be more successful in dating?

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I'm known at school for being ND and a goofball kinda autistic (which im not, but have been told all my life)
And I've always been known as a nice person and a gentle guy but also annoying to some.
I can't really change my ADHD, but I'm thinking that if I change my personality/style to blend in with more NT and popular personality like aggresive loud bold I think I'll earn more respect.

I've been wearing all black and kinda gothy since 6th grade but I think this is a perfect chance for me to change and advance myself

I'm not saying that personality is like the most major aspect in dating, but I'm not attractive enough to be how I am and get a girlfriend that's just not how things go. i also have a friend group with girls but right now they see me more as a friend than a romantic interest

also getting hair bleached blonde so that might be a shocker to some

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I'm known at school for being ND and a goofball kinda autistic (which im not, but have been told all my life)
And I've always been known as a nice person and a gentle guy but also annoying to some.
I can't really change my ADHD, but I'm thinking that if I change my personality/style to blend in with more NT and popular personality like aggresive loud bold I think I'll earn more respect.

I've been wearing all black and kinda gothy since 6th grade but I think this is a perfect chance for me to change and advance myself

I'm not saying that personality is like the most major aspect in dating, but I'm not attractive enough to be how I am and get a girlfriend that's just not how things go. i also have a friend group with girls but right now they see me more as a friend than a romantic interest

also getting hair bleached blonde so that might be a shocker to some

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what color is ur hair rn
 

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