can someone explain how woman smv works ???

[jacxb]

woman have higher smv due to the dms and attention they can get ---->
then when ever they have a bf or something does that mean that the guy has higher smv then them due to hypergamy ???
but it doesnt really make sense because according to most people the average girl can have a higher smv then oliver oconnor (or any high smv person just using him as an example)
and yet when they are with the average guy they have lower smv then them

am i missing something i havent thought it through super logically but can someone explain
is it womans smv is over inflated ?
mans smv underinflated ?
both or is it something else ?

 

[Sceptical]

sexual market value

 

[jacxb]

sexual market value

yes but im asking why its so high yet at the same time so low

 

[Sceptical]

yes but im asking why its so high yet at the same time so low

women have more value than average guy,
yet due to hypergamy she wants someone who's higher smv than her. what's there to not understand?

 

[jacxb]

women have more value than average guy,
yet due to hypergamy she wants someone who's higher smv than her. what's there to not understand?

That it’s not really possible for the guy to have the higher smv then the girl (other than exceptions ofc).
Because the average girl will have way more sexual market value then the guy (better opportunity etc)
So in a sense the girl technically is dating down which defeats hypergamy

Idk tho if I’m missing something because it’s starting to become a paradox