Can someone make a comforting guide

[Αlchemy]

I really suck at comforting people because of my autism it makes me feel horrible im so useless at helping people going through stuff

 

[mangotimer]

sure

 

[iblamejordan1]

I really suck at comforting people because of my autism it makes me feel horrible im so useless at helping people going through stuff

Falling asleep

 

[Fledermaus]

sure

tag me when u do matey

 

[Big Boss]

You are a good man. I love autistic people because they are real. Normies will be “good” at comforting people but feel nothing, no empathy while doing it

 

[lostbrew]

lowkey need this cus im good at listening to peoples like problems but suck at replying

 

[Αlchemy]

You are a good man. I love autistic people because they are real. Normies will be “good” at comforting people but feel nothing, no empathy while doing it

Thank you i feel so horrible my also autistic girlfriend has been like super suicidal and stuff and sad for hours and i feel like im not helping her even tho im trying to so hard i feel so useless ive been sobbing for hours over it im like this with my mom too my mom just found out she has a tennis ball sized tumor on her uterus that may be cancerous and she cried infront of me and i just looked at her and offered her a hug i didnt know what else to do this is miserable being like this everyone else can comfort me but i cant comfort them

 

[Big Boss]

Thank you i feel so horrible my also autistic girlfriend has been like super suicidal and stuff and sad for hours and i feel like im not helping her even tho im trying to so hard i feel so useless ive been sobbing for hours over it im like this with my mom too my mom just found out she has a tennis ball sized tumor on her uterus that may be cancerous and she cried infront of me and i just looked at her and offered her a hug i didnt know what else to do this is miserable being like this everyone else can comfort me but i cant comfort them

Comfort often comes in the little actions. You cannot change her tumor, nor can you change your girlfriend directly. All you can do is offer presence and showing u care. Little things like making food, making them laugh, asking them questions, distracting them with convo. Things like this can add up, and people dont forget how you make them feel.

 

[averagetotaluser]

tag me when u do matey

go back to volk nga
i hate this acc

 

[Αlchemy]

Comfort often comes in the little actions. You cannot change her tumor, nor can you change your girlfriend directly. All you can do is offer presence and showing u care. Little things like making food, making them laugh, asking them questions, distracting them with convo. Things like this can add up, and people dont forget how you make them feel.

Yeah normally and most often im able to change my girlfriends mood by making her forget all about what she was sad over by just telling her how i feel about her and how j love her and stuff and making her laugh ill try to do things with my mom ive been hugging her alot and kissed her on the cheek at my big grown age 16 and just being more affectionate thanks for the advice man really ima try to do these things god bless if hes real