Can you be charismatic in the wrong way

[Deleted member 11770]

Inb4 NT is cope if you have looks. It does matter a lot.

Say you are confident, extroverted, quick on your feet, always make people laugh and find a joke about things. But still you have that aspie vibe, your'e jokes are too eccentric, you sometimes have that childish enthusiasm that weirds people out and philosophize too much about things.

So in a sense being charismatic but also annoying in a way.

How do you fake charisma in a normie way?

 

[Deleted member 12303]

Just look NT dont be NT

 

[Gonthar]

Say you are confident, extroverted, quick on your feet, always make people laugh and find a joke about things. But still you have that aspie vibe, your'e jokes are too eccentric, you sometimes have that childish enthusiasm that weirds people out and philosophize too much about things.

Guess what - people are laughing at you, not with you.
You might think you're charismatic and popular, but behind your back people make fun of you.

 

[Deleted member 11770]

That's how things would go if I had a irl social circle and tried to act charismatic, ngl I do have charisma and I can make people laugh.
But the aspie vibe always shines through and weirds people out. I've seen it happen in school but I was more inhibited then.