Can you be Friends with a Woman?

[Deleted member 12217]

I say YES but only after you both had interest in each other, fucked, and then decided you don’t like each other that way. Opinions fellow chads and those who soon will be?

 

[Kroker]

If you're not sexually attracted to her yeah

 

[Deprived]

I think you can only be acquaintances with women
Can only be close friends with girlfriend

 

[Deleted member 12217]

If you're not sexually attracted to her yeah

Yeah but then you don’t wanna hang with her. You gotta be sexual attracted first and then lose that interest


Also she will always think you’re simping her either way and just waiting for your shot. You gotta get that out of the way

 

[AlexAP]

It's possible if she is your ex-gf, like you said, or if both are not sexually attracted to each other.

 

[.👽.]

yes if shes not attractive. but i never had a female friend ngl

 

[Deleted member 12217]

yes if shes not attractive. but i never had a female friend ngl

Thats cope tho. Why would you wanna be friends with a woman that’s not attractive? Dead serious. So far I haven’t met a Woman That was so entertaining that I wanted to befriend her. Their personality just grew on me when I liked how they looked and thus spend time with them.

But if they didnt have looks I couldn’t even be arsed to get to know them.

 

[.👽.]

Thats cope tho. Why would you wanna be friends with a woman that’s not attractive? Dead serious. So far I haven’t met a Woman That was so entertaining that I wanted to befriend her. Their personality just grew on me when I liked how they looked and thus spend time with them.

But if they didnt have looks I couldn’t even be arsed to get to know them.

idk sometimes u just hang out with them without wanting it (f.e. in your boxing club) and you befriend each other without realising it? idk. if shes attractive i would try to fuck her ngl and not put me in the friendzone.

 

[Amexmaxx]

What you think about this? I think its cope. And i will not be exercising this.




3. Friend zone exercise

Now that you’ve gotten used to speaking with attractive women, you need to see them as people, not just conquests. You need to break free of that “must win every hot girl” mentality.

Do you have any attractive female friends? I’m not talking about the girls you hang out with that you secretly desire. I mean true, platonic friends.

There’s a good chance you answered no.

Again, physical beauty does not mean you have to be with that person. There’s this tiny little thing called compatibility.

You need to be okay with women not being attracted to you in that way. Being considered “just a friend” is not a personal attack on you. It doesn’t mean you “lost”. And it doesn’t make you less of a person.

Objective: Remove your results-based mentality. Stop needing to prove yourself to every beautiful woman. Be happy with some connections not being romantic.

Exercise: You must intentionally friend zone every attractive woman you speak to for a night. You don’t have to worry about success because you’re not pursuing anyone romantically. I want you to use the word “friend” explicitly in conversation.

Make statements like, “I knew we were going to be best friends.” Or “Look at us, we’re already friends.”

When you ask for her number, express it under friendly intentions, “You seem like a great friend to have, we should hang out some time.”

If a woman responds to a number request like, “I’m sorry but I have a boyfriend.” you reply with, “That’s okay, I’m just looking to make friends. Nothing more, promise.”

The key to this is that you have to mean it. You have to legitimately be her friend and nothing more. No ulterior motives allowed.

This exercise will not only reinforce gorgeous women as people but it will also provide new, meaningful friendships. And as everyone knows, having attractive female friends comes with some great benefits:

1. Walking into any social setting with beautiful women improves your social proof. Other women will see you as more desirable. Also, girls make amazing wingmen.

2. They will introduce you to their other attractive friends.

Having female friends is always a win.

 

[Idontknowlol]

Yeah, just get a fat as fuck female friend. It's a great way to meet new chicks

 

[juste]

never again
too lame for friendship and pathetic

 

[Deleted member 12217]

What you think about this? I think its cope. And i will not be exercising this.




3. Friend zone exercise

Now that you’ve gotten used to speaking with attractive women, you need to see them as people, not just conquests. You need to break free of that “must win every hot girl” mentality.

Do you have any attractive female friends? I’m not talking about the girls you hang out with that you secretly desire. I mean true, platonic friends.

There’s a good chance you answered no.

Again, physical beauty does not mean you have to be with that person. There’s this tiny little thing called compatibility.

You need to be okay with women not being attracted to you in that way. Being considered “just a friend” is not a personal attack on you. It doesn’t mean you “lost”. And it doesn’t make you less of a person.

Objective: Remove your results-based mentality. Stop needing to prove yourself to every beautiful woman. Be happy with some connections not being romantic.

Exercise: You must intentionally friend zone every attractive woman you speak to for a night. You don’t have to worry about success because you’re not pursuing anyone romantically. I want you to use the word “friend” explicitly in conversation.

Make statements like, “I knew we were going to be best friends.” Or “Look at us, we’re already friends.”

When you ask for her number, express it under friendly intentions, “You seem like a great friend to have, we should hang out some time.”

If a woman responds to a number request like, “I’m sorry but I have a boyfriend.” you reply with, “That’s okay, I’m just looking to make friends. Nothing more, promise.”

The key to this is that you have to mean it. You have to legitimately be her friend and nothing more. No ulterior motives allowed.

This exercise will not only reinforce gorgeous women as people but it will also provide new, meaningful friendships. And as everyone knows, having attractive female friends comes with some great benefits:

1. Walking into any social setting with beautiful women improves your social proof. Other women will see you as more desirable. Also, girls make amazing wingmen.

2. They will introduce you to their other attractive friends.

Having female friends is always a win.

Yeah I used to surround myself with female friends when it was beneficial to me. But I wouldn’t deem them friends.