Can you be too attractive?

[volcelfatcel]

Yes not every girl has the self esteem to deal with an attractive guy who has options. So they’ll self reject themselves instead & lower their standards a lil

If you're o'pry tiers in attractiveness most women will take it as a joke that you are proposing them, or they are extremely intimidated and their low self esteem gets the best of them. Generally you don't want to mog the woman too hard in an LTR because she'll get extremely insecure and self conscious

 

[volcelfatcel]

forgot op existed until this thread got bumped

prostatemaxxing

 

[tyronelite]

Generally you don't want to mog the woman too hard in an LTR because she'll get extremely insecure and self conscious

Exactly or find a chick who’s confident in herself to deal with an attractive guy like you. But that’s a needle in a hay stack

 

[volcelfatcel]

Exactly or find a chick who’s confident in herself to deal with an attractive guy like you. But that’s a needle in a hay stack

Yup, most chicks are extremely unconfident which is funny honestly. They will never get all the shit men have to do, jump through hoops and have the confidence to approach her also risk humiliation if she doesn't like you which may fuck you mentally if it's your first time.

They just give the shit advice of just have confidence like it's made out of nothing if ur male

 

[riceronicel]

My logic is:

1. Women have to pay a very high cost in a long term relationship (they have to carry around a parasite in there stomach for 9 months)
2. Because of this high cost women are going to be careful when choosing a long term partner. They need to be certain that you won't leave them.
3. An attractive male could leave a girl at any time so she will never be able to develop that certainty

Real life Scenario:
>Chico goes on a date with a 5/10 girl
>The girl wants to LTR Chico but feels like he is "too" attractive and could leave her at any time so she feels uncertain about being in an LTR

Whereas if this was just a 6/10 or 7/10 guy (rather than chico) the girl would feel much more comfortable about being in a long term relationship

if you're an elite gigachad then yeah stacy will feel insecure bc she thinks you're too good for her. She will wonder wtf you be doing every night and who you're with.