Can you even truely be friends with anyone after childhood?

[Dorogi]

even though i was even more of an aspie back than it was easier for me to make friends and hanging out was a lot more fun and all intention behind it was fun.
Nowadays after puberty it just feels like an endless struggle for social dominance and i hate it.

Even that one friend i had idk what age somewhere before i was 8, he was my best friend and we were together every single day but he moved away and one time he came back a couple years later and i remember him acting like he never knew me probably because the other kids told me about how ND i was (that was around the time i had to go to special ed for being uncontrollable so that figures) idk everything just feels so much about status now i hate it

 

[FlotPSL]

even though i was even more of an aspie back than it was easier for me to make friends and hanging out was a lot more fun and all intention behind it was fun.
Nowadays after puberty it just feels like an endless struggle for social dominance and i hate it.

Even that one friend i had idk what age somewhere before i was 8, he was my best friend and we were together every single day but he moved away and one time he came back a couple years later and i remember him acting like he never knew me probably because the other kids told me about how ND i was (that was around the time i had to go to special ed for being uncontrollable so that figures) idk everything just feels so much about status now i hate it

Maybe if you stopped acting gay on discord you could get a friend

 

[Dorogi]

Maybe if you stopped acting gay on discord you could get a friend

Havent thought of that before

 

[hauntohalic]

Maybe if you stopped acting gay on discord you could get a friend

nah bro i had a nightmare where my irls found out about the jestering i did on discord and genuinely thought i was a femboy because of it (scariest dream of my life)

 

[Dhoriscol]

It is 100%

 

[NinjaRG9]

Destined to be lonely if you have no friends at this age tbh

 

[Gengar]

I have two best friends. One is from childhood, the other is from high school. We graduated high school over ten years ago.

 

[poindextahh]

nah bro i had a nightmare where my irls found out about the jestering i did on discord and genuinely thought i was a femboy because of it (scariest dream of my life)

maybe that nightmare means you are repressing your thoughts of becoming a femboy

 

[FlotPSL]

Even that one friend i had idk what age somewhere before i was 8, he was my best friend and we were together every single day but he moved away and one time he came back a couple years later and i remember him acting like he never knew me probably because the other kids told me about how ND i was (that was around the time i had to go to special ed for being uncontrollable so that figures) idk everything just feels so much about status now i hate it

I agree it's very depressing, for normies this is normal but for us autists it's not

I'm sorry your friend left you

 

[Dhoriscol]

maybe that nightmare means you are repressing your thoughts of becoming a femboy

Joined Wednesday and still knows about the femboy shit

 

[hauntohalic]

maybe that nightmare means you are repressing your thoughts of becoming a femboy

no its because this already happens to me online (people take my past jestering a bit too seriously)

 

[Dorogi]

I agree it's very depressing, for normies this is normal but for us autists it's not

I'm sorry your friend left you

Doesnt really bother me now its just the idea ill never be able to experience anything like that again.
Idk how i am so much of an unc im 16 and already miss my childhood

 

[Sektor]

Yea i have 2 childhood friends were a trio but they dont like me alot

 

[Dorogi]

I have two best friends. One is from childhood, the other is from high school. We graduated high school over ten years ago.

Brutal early connections pill i should have locked in

 

[browncurrycel]

you need to have a group of people that you can hang out with and have fun without regretting time spent iwht them

but i wouldnt share my deepest insecurities and trauma with anybody IRL regardless of how close we are

 

[Gengar]

Brutal early connections pill i should have locked in

You can still make friends but it will take time before you become true friends with someone.

 

[OmgBPbrootal]

even though i was even more of an aspie back than it was easier for me to make friends and hanging out was a lot more fun and all intention behind it was fun.
Nowadays after puberty it just feels like an endless struggle for social dominance and i hate it.

Even that one friend i had idk what age somewhere before i was 8, he was my best friend and we were together every single day but he moved away and one time he came back a couple years later and i remember him acting like he never knew me probably because the other kids told me about how ND i was (that was around the time i had to go to special ed for being uncontrollable so that figures) idk everything just feels so much about status now i hate it

Tbh you can make 'friends' but to have a friend like you did at 8 it is difficult past childhood. Sorry to hear about what ur friend did, hope you find someone like him again

 

[hauntohalic]

i never actually make any "real" friends i just hang around groups im somewhat friends with (i pretty much never hang out after school)

 

[karmacita901]

yes through common interests or some light trauma bonding

 

[Dorogi]

yes through common interests or some light trauma bonding

Guess i should warzonemaxx than

 

[Dorogi]

i never actually make any "real" friends i just hang around groups im somewhat friends with (i pretty much never hang out after school)

Same bro i just talk to a couple guys at school when i have to and occasionaly at the gym

 

[theRetard]

loneliness mogs you just need to realize it

 

[hauntohalic]

loneliness mogs you just need to realize it

id rather be with you instead

 

[theRetard]

id rather be with you instead

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