can you really heal from your lost years?

[Pento]

Give Thoughts

@Jason Voorhees

 

[Jason Voorhees]

If my post count doesn't tell you enough i don't know what will.

 

[nitesik]

Give Thoughts

@Jason Voorhees

Unless you are like 30

 

[silently_said]

Early 20's is the last chance you get

 

[Pento]

If my post count doesn't tell you enough i don't know what will.

All we can do is try to make the future how we desire it for ourselves ngl

 

[Jason Voorhees]

All we can do is try to make the future how we desire it for ourselves ngl

I have everything I always wanted to have but I still rot here and still feel insecure and have my doubts. An abused dog can't be saved. It doesn't matter how good of a home you give him. He will always be an abused dog

 

[SkiSquadJPG]

*I stride dominantly through the school hallway bu i am interrupted by a subhuman gook*
*muh chad didnt you know you cant softmax after puberty muh*
*I roar "pipe down rice-nigger, I never give up" and spinkick him into the locker*
*all the school stacies see this and instantly orgasm*

 

[Scars]

Early 20's is the last chance you get
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pretty much what the video said

there will always be a sort of void in you depending on how bad those lost years were

 

[Rothschild]

Yes

And what do u mean by lost years

 

[stonecold trucel]

we can never recover from lost years bro

 

[Pento]

Yes

And what do u mean by lost years

Ngl it rlly depends on mindset, I still tried during those years but failed, however that failure made me into who I am today so I can’t complain.

 

[TulsaGod]

Stop cocksucking Jason you fag
@shedontluv-U: "facts"

 

[shedontluv-U]

pento you are proving their argument

And are you a femboy tho ?

 

[Prøphet]

I want to believe that it ultimately doesn’t matter, but it still stings my heart whenever I hear about the lost time we never get back. I want to tell myself “wasted time” is the wrong way of looking at things, but then a deeper part of me believes I’m just coping with my own life, and time truly can be wasted.

 

[Pento]

I want to believe that it ultimately doesn’t matter, but it still stings my heart whenever I hear about the lost time we never get back. I want to tell myself “wasted time” is the wrong way of looking at things, but then a deeper part of me believes I’m just coping with my own life, and time truly can be wasted.

Yea time wasted is doing things you weren’t supposed to be doing or instead of growing yourself. Modern society is somewhat to blame aswell because of the tech age and people becoming less extroverted + migrants

I have everything I always wanted to have but I still rot here and still feel insecure and have my doubts. An abused dog can't be saved. It doesn't matter how good of a home you give him. He will always be an abused dog

Atleast the future is better right? Or will we still regret our choices now in the future? That worries me

 

[Prøphet]

Yea time wasted is doing things you weren’t supposed to be doing or instead of growing yourself. Modern society is somewhat to blame aswell because of the tech age and people becoming less extroverted + migrants


Atleast the future is better right? Or will we still regret our choices now in the future? That worries me

One way I cope is to realize that even if we could reverse time, then all those lost days, missed opportunities, mistakes, all of them still would’ve happened, because ultimately the causes that govern our actions stem from a chain beyond our control but rather in the control of the universe.

Let’s say I lost my teenage years because I chose to lay down and rot. That choice was simply a direct effect of many things. The neurochemistry I was genetically predisposed to played a part. The negative experiences I had previously out of pure dumb luck played a role. Maybe my brain structure was formed in a way that is susceptible to weakness. So really it was bound to happen. Everything can be traced back to the beginning of existence. When you take a step back, you realize choice is an illusion, and ultimately you were fated to what happened by the law of causality, the same law that makes up the fabric of reality. But I am still debating if this is just a coping mechanism to soothe myself, or if it’s really how things work.

Do you think if you woke up 5 years ago with no present knowledge, you could really do anything differently?

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Yea time wasted is doing things you weren’t supposed to be doing or instead of growing yourself. Modern society is somewhat to blame aswell because of the tech age and people becoming less extroverted + migrants


Atleast the future is better right? Or will we still regret our choices now in the future? That worries me

Like how an abused dog'e brain learned early that the world isn't safe, that love can turn into pain real quick, so it stays on high alert in hypervigilance waiting for the next hit even when no one is raising the hand. I'm the same, it changes in how you function works, trauma and prolonged loneliness literally rewires thr brain

So even when you have everything you ever wished for you'll still flinch when someone moves too fast, or feel empty even when you should be happy. All the good stuff is real. I know that in my head I've got it better than I ever dreamed but down in the body im the same broken teenager that I once was posting on the forum. That old fear doesn't just vanish because the circumstances changed.

 

[Jgns]

One way I cope is to realize that even if we could reverse time, then all those lost days, missed opportunities, mistakes, all of them still would’ve happened, because ultimately the causes that govern our actions stem from a chain beyond our control but rather in the control of the universe.

Let’s say I lost my teenage years because I chose to lay down and rot. That choice was simply a direct effect of many things. The neurochemistry I was genetically predisposed to played a part. The negative experiences I had previously out of pure dumb luck played a role. Maybe my brain structure was formed in a way that is susceptible to weakness. Everything can be traced back to the beginning of existence. When you take a step back, you realize choice is an illusion, and ultimately you were fated to what happened by the law of causality, the same law that makes up the fabric of reality. But I am still debating if this is just a coping mechanism to soothe myself, or if it’s really how things work.

Do you think if you woke up 5 years ago with no present knowledge, you could really do anything differently?

I mean ultimately everything is cope, but those lost years still would've been lost had you went through them again. Issues like that are symptoms that stem from problems we just werent able to solve when we were younger, realistically no matter how much we tried given the nonexistant leverage we had. The best we can do is create leverage for ourselves now and utilize it to finally live a much better life bro. Realistically I would've still gone through the events my genes destined me to, and would've probably ended up in the exact same place, but with probably a lil better leverage and less depressive mind fog.

 

[Prøphet]

I mean ultimately everything is cope, but those lost years still would've been lost had you went through them again. Issues like that are symptoms that stem from problems we just werent able to solve when we were younger, realistically no matter how much we tried given the nonexistant leverage we had. The best we can do is create leverage for ourselves now and utilize it to finally live a much better life bro. Realistically I would've still gone through the events my genes destined me to, and would've probably ended up in the exact same place, but with probably a lil better leverage and less depressive mind fog.

Even the nature of life itself is a cope against the ever-marching entropy and decay of time, an 80-year-long losing battle against the clock. It makes no logical sense yet now you have it and you must make a choice of what to do with it even if the choice isn’t yours. I guess regret is inevitable because the illusion of choice exists.

 

[Jgns]

Even the nature of life itself is a cope against the ever-marching entropy and decay of time, an 80-year-long losing battle against the clock. It makes no logical sense yet now you have it and you must make a choice of what to do with it even if the choice isn’t yours. I guess regret is inevitable because the illusion of choice exists.

agreed, and another way to look at it is that we changed our destiny in a way right. Had we continued like 99% of other people that just cope and day dream our lives would've been completely depressing. Its a blessing that we changed the course of our life atleast so take comfort in that bro + @Jason Voorhees . Almost noones life goes according to plan, atleast we've been able to grab it by its bitchass and take control and bend it into our vision, something most people arent able to say. Plus we've got decades of pure life to live unmarred by a huge percentage of those issues anymore, which is so incredibly freeing. Our minds might be fucked and beaten down now, but atleast they arent actively undergoing that torture that we went through day after day anymore.