Aardvqrk
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I started nofap about a week ago, which wasnt my first time, since i had been on and off for months at a time for a couple years. I dont really buy into the nofap stuff usually, since most of the benefits seem kind of nebulous, it makes it easier for me to go to sleep, and i wasnt really noticing any mental/physical issues from beating it. 1-2 weeks ago, i hopped on and quit cold turkey, and have had a surprisingly easy time dealing with urges by keeping myself busy and meditating. The reason for my writing this post is that a couple months ago (when i was beating my meat 1+ times a day) I was also seeing this chick with which i had no problems orgasming with just from oral (who ill call girl a). fast forward to now, and I have a different girl who i am unable to cum with (who ill call girl b). I started nofap like a week into our relationship, but before we had done anything actually sexual. its worth noting that girl b is significantly more facially attractive than girl a, however girl a had a better body. also i think girl b's head is better than girl a's. Another notable event is that when i started nofap while i was seeing girl a (1-2 days in) I got the bluest balls for like a whole 5 hours just from making out with her, and now after getting head from her i dont feel anything after, even though i didnt cum. What the fuck is happening, id like to blame nofap for causing this issue because its the only thing i really changed, although that completely goes against why nofap even makes sense in the first place. Might also be worth mentioning that my sleep has gotten worse, although that might just be withdrawls, since i was primarily using masturbation to fall asleep easier. girl b is the first girl who i have had this problem with and the first girl i have been on nofap while with.
To anyone that says "your just not committed enough bro, try another month of nofap" what would you say if i began beating it again and then was able to cum? Im looking for more of a pro-nofap explanation rather than just a solution.
To anyone that says "your just not committed enough bro, try another month of nofap" what would you say if i began beating it again and then was able to cum? Im looking for more of a pro-nofap explanation rather than just a solution.
