Caring about virginity is a cope.

[LocalDanger]

Not saying it doesn't matter at all. Like ideally girl would be a virgin. But saying it's a major thing is a cope and missing what's really bothering you.

Unless a real whore that shows lack of some values.

Usually it's just about feeling like you are left behind and like she won't love you and be really loyal. Or cope like I wouldn't want this hot girl she isn't a virgin.

Like I'm talking to some beautiful girl. And I wanted to test if my obsession with virginity is cope.When I imagine her loving me and really truly caring about me I get that strong feeling and virginity feels almost irrelevant. But I can't get that since I'm not a Chad.

Point being I care about virginity because I feel like its a way for me to feel special to the girl. But it isn't exactly about virginity itself. But feeling she can't simply change me and feeling that we are connected in some way. If I was a true Chad and knew she could love me so much to forget all previous boyfriends and experiences since she expirenced love with me as ultimate moment in her life I wouldn't care all that much.

 

[LocalDanger]

Dnr

 

[Bitch]

The problem is you'll never be able to satisfy her the same way chads used to satisfy her in the past if she's a slut and has a massive bodycount and she'll always see you as an inferior male in her life, eventually wanting to cheat on you

 

[Gengar]

The problem is you'll never be able to satisfy her the same way chads used to satisfy her in the past if she's a slut and has a massive bodycount and she'll always see you as an inferior male in her life, eventually wanting to cheat on you

exactly. you will always be competing with another man even if she is only dating you at the moment. females never forget their first few boyfriends

 

[LocalDanger]

The problem is you'll never be able to satisfy her the same way chads used to satisfy her in the past if she's a slut and has a massive bodycount and she'll always see you as an inferior male in her life, eventually wanting to cheat on you

Yeah agree totally.

I'm just saying it isn't about virginity per say. But what it means. That she felt something raw for you that isn't changeable.

Let's say you ascend to true chad or didn't know you were one. And she had three boyfriends before you but they were normie tier and it was more so she feels normal. But then you come along and you know that compared to these nobodies she left without regret you .ake her feel something she never felt before like true love. Then virginity doesn't matter that much. Virginity is just to make sure you are distinct special to her imo

 

[LocalDanger]

exactly. you will always be competing with another man even if she is only dating you at the moment. females never forget their first few boyfriends

But that's the point it's about completion not virginity itself.

Like it matters somewhat ofc. But it pales in comparison to what it represents. You being special to her.

If she lost virginity to some subhuman but felt first true love for you it wouldn't matter all that much.

 

[Gengar]

But that's the point it's about completion not virginity itself.

Like it matters somewhat ofc. But it pales in comparison to what it represents. You being special to her.

If she lost virginity to some subhuman but felt first true love for you it wouldn't matter all that much.

did you mean competition instead of completion? actually if she lost her virginity to a subhuman then she will still have a special place for him since he was her first. remember females are emotional creatures so they attach themselves to the first few guys they had sex with. its gotta do with these chemical processes during sex and all.

 

[Prettyboy]

Not saying it doesn't matter at all. Like ideally girl would be a virgin. But saying it's a major thing is a cope and missing what's really bothering you.

Unless a real whore that shows lack of some values.

Usually it's just about feeling like you are left behind and like she won't love you and be really loyal. Or cope like I wouldn't want this hot girl she isn't a virgin.

Like I'm talking to some beautiful girl. And I wanted to test if my obsession with virginity is cope.When I imagine her loving me and really truly caring about me I get that strong feeling and virginity feels almost irrelevant. But I can't get that since I'm not a Chad.

Point being I care about virginity because I feel like its a way for me to feel special to the girl. But it isn't exactly about virginity itself. But feeling she can't simply change me and feeling that we are connected in some way. If I was a true Chad and knew she could love me so much to forget all previous boyfriends and experiences since she expirenced love with me as ultimate moment in her life I wouldn't care all that much.

OP

 

[LocalDanger]

did you mean competition instead of completion? actually if she lost her virginity to a subhuman then she will still have a special place for him since he was her first. remember females are emotional creatures so they attach themselves to the first few guys they had sex with. its gotta do with these chemical processes during sex and all.

You think so ?

But aren't females and males almost same according to blackpill. At least here I think we can assume it's similar.

For example let's say you lost your virginity to some norime kinda ugly girl. And later on another one just to not be left behind. But then Stacy comes along and for whatever reason gives you a chance. When she leaves I think you would be devastated and couldn't cope she isn't first. When you know feelings for her were strongest maybe to never be repeated again in life

 

[LocalDanger]

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Hmmm how so I don't get it did you read a thread?

 

[Gengar]

You think so ?

But aren't females and males almost same according to blackpill. At least here I think we can assume it's similar.

For example let's say you lost your virginity to some norime kinda ugly girl. And later on another one just to not be left behind. But then Stacy comes along and for whatever reason gives you a chance. When she leaves I think you would be devastated and couldn't cope she isn't first. When you know feelings for her were strongest maybe to never be repeated again in life

there are studies out there.. look up "pair bonding" its the process of a woman bonding with a man emotionally after sexual intercourse. the higher bodycount she has, the less she can pair bond with the newer men in her life. higher bodycounts also lead to a higher divorce rate. and you are right, women and men are different. a man does not really care about first few loves, they just want to pump and dump and so they can easily adapt to their new partners and stay loyal to their new partner. women cannot do the same.

 

[LocalDanger]

there are studies out there.. look up "pair bonding" its the process of a woman bonding with a man emotionally after sexual intercourse. the higher bodycount she has, the less she can pair bond with the newer men in her life. higher bodycounts also lead to a higher divorce rate. and you are right, women and men are different. a man does not really care about first few loves, they just want to pump and dump and so they can easily adapt to their new partners and stay loyal to their new partner. women cannot do the same.

Interesting tho I wonder two things.

Is it really different for men I found study that says same thing about promiscuous men. How they make bad relationship parents like for ltr.

Also about the study. I wonder if it's maybe not exactly sex that destroys her as ltr material itself. But rather the type of character that people have who can have countless casual partners like it's a sport. For example I'm simply not like that. So that might be a real culprit. Just a theory

 

[Gengar]

Interesting tho I wonder two things.

Is it really different for men I found study that says same thing about promiscuous men. How they make bad relationship parents like for ltr.

Also about the study. I wonder if it's maybe not exactly sex that destroys her as ltr material itself. But rather the type of character that people have who can have countless casual partners like it's a sport. For example I'm simply not like that. So that might be a real culprit. Just a theory

the more sexual partners you have the less you find sex special and it soon becomes normal as a handshake. its pretty much the exposure effect. and yes its different for men but that does not mean non-virgin men should get virgin women because thats unfair. it just means they are less attached to their first few loves.

 

[LocalDanger]

the more sexual partners you have the less you find sex special and it soon becomes normal as a handshake. its pretty much the exposure effect. and yes its different for men but that does not mean non-virgin men should get virgin women because thats unfair. it just means they are less attached to their first few loves.

Yeah could be it's different for men but if I was a female I would never ltr promiscuous men for same reason as I wouldn't ltr a whore as a male. There is some similarity.

True I agree. But is it like handshake if she only had few partners. I said no whores in op. Like if she was with 4 guys every single one is kind of a big deal if not promiscuous. And if you mog others you have a chance to become special and true love. But I could be wrong

 

[Gengar]

Yeah could be it's different for men but if I was a female I would never ltr promiscuous men for same reason as I wouldn't ltr a whore as a male. There is some similarity.

True I agree. But is it like handshake if she only had few partners. I said no whores in op. Like if she was with 4 guys every single one is kind of a big deal if not promiscuous. And if you mog others you have a chance to become special and true love. But I could be wrong

yeah a self-respecting woman would not date a promiscuous man and a self-respecting man would not date a promiscuous woman. there are general rules like that. but these days how many respectable women or men are there? practically zero. and the ones that are that are already taken. well you can obviously be with a non-virgin woman and you will be special to her BUT her first love will also be special to her. its probably the same for guys but women are more emotional than men are, men are logical so they would say "meh theyre not here anymore so who cares?" while women will always have fond memories of their first few sexual relationships.

 

[Gengar]

@AlexAP you german faggot why are you triggered

 

[AlexAP]

@AlexAP you german faggot why are you triggered

I just found funny what you wrote, like "women will always have fond memories of their first few sexual relationships."

It's definitely not always the case, it's another women-are-wonderful fairytale if you believe this, women can forget as easily as men.

 

[Gengar]

I just found funny what you wrote, like "women will always have fond memories of their first few sexual relationships."

It's definitely not always the case, it's another women-are-wonderful fairytale if you believe this, women can forget as easily as men.

ok ok makes sense, i thought you were the pro-degeneracy type of guy who promotes that kind of stuff to encourage others to be degenerates as well. my apologies. and tbh i think the women that forget men are not even virgins because they lost that ability to pair bond. it really fits into the narrative.

 

[LocalDanger]

yeah a self-respecting woman would not date a promiscuous man and a self-respecting man would not date a promiscuous woman. there are general rules like that. but these days how many respectable women or men are there? practically zero. and the ones that are that are already taken. well you can obviously be with a non-virgin woman and you will be special to her BUT her first love will also be special to her. its probably the same for guys but women are more emotional than men are, men are logical so they would say "meh theyre not here anymore so who cares?" while women will always have fond memories of their first few sexual relationships.

If true then really over for wanting anything more than casual sex.

Or maybe it's ok to let go and accept she will sometimes remember her previous one if she is worth it.

Idk myself what to think tbh

 

[Gengar]

If true then really over for wanting anything more than casual sex.

Or maybe it's ok to let go and accept she will sometimes remember her previous one if she is worth it.

Idk myself what to think tbh

yes it all depends on your mentality, if you dont care about the past then just go for it

 

[LocalDanger]

yes it all depends on your mentality, if you dont care about the past then just go for it

Actually it's a reason I don't care much for girls.

I think the more aspie the more obsessed you are with two things her being a Virgin and her being perfect like Stacy jb.

The more normal the less you are obsessed imo

 

[sytyl]

It's not cope, virginity is literally everything

former gf: not a virgin, resented her a bit
current gf: was a virgin, relationship feels way different

 

[Gengar]

Actually it's a reason I don't care much for girls.

I think the more aspie the more obsessed you are with two things her being a Virgin and her being perfect like Stacy jb.

The more normal the less you are obsessed imo

well the chances of getting a stacy jb is nihil unless you are chad tbh

It's not cope, virginity is literally everything

former gf: not a virgin, resented her a bit
current gf: was a virgin, relationship feels way different

can you elab on why it feels "way different"? does she find it a problem you were not a virgin btw?

 

[sytyl]

well the chances of getting a stacy jb is nihil unless you are chad tbh

can you elab on why it feels "way different"? does she find it a problem you were not a virgin btw?

I respect her more
she doesn't care

 

[Gengar]

I respect her more
she doesn't care

what race is she?

 

[sytyl]

what race is she?

white
was pretty surprised, then again she's 19

 

[Gengar]

white
was pretty surprised, then again she's 19

tbh its not as uncommon as people on here make it seem. when i studied nursing a white girl in my class was 18 and virgin. a little bit chubby but she wasnt ugly at all, plus with north atlantid coloring (blue eyes, brown hair)

 

[LocalDanger]

well the chances of getting a stacy jb is nihil unless you are chad tbh

can you elab on why it feels "way different"? does she find it a problem you were not a virgin btw?

Yeah I know I'm around idk low tier mid tier chadlite? You rated me in dms I can't remember exactly how you rated me . But yeah I don't hope to find any happiness in that way I have given up on girls

 

[Gengar]

Yeah I know I'm around idk low tier mid tier chadlite? You rated me in dms I can't remember exactly how you rated me . But yeah I don't hope to find any happiness in that way I have given up on girls

that reminds me, i still need to respond to your pm lol. and tbh im a volcel and im not going after girls so its like whatever.

 

[LocalDanger]

that reminds me, i still need to respond to your pm lol. and tbh im a volcel and im not going after girls so its like whatever.

Yeah I remembered now too lol

 

[Copeful]

It's not cope, virginity is literally everything

former gf: not a virgin, resented her a bit
current gf: was a virgin, relationship feels way different

ok chaddam
keep flexing on us incels tbh

 

[volcelfatcel]

ok chaddam
keep flexing on us incels tbh

ok chadpreet
keep flexing on my subhuman ass i will never ascend

 

[Gengar]

i will never ascend

 

[volcelfatcel]

@TRUE_CEL join me in subhumanity bhai
@Copeful mogs us both, even if I leanmax it will never be enough

 

[Gengar]

@TRUE_CEL join me in subhumanity bhai
@Copeful mogs us both, even if I leanmax it will never be enough

join u? u mean u join me! im older than u. im a 25 y/o kissless virgin

 

[volcelfatcel]

join u? u mean u join me! im older than u. im a 25 y/o kissless virgin

16.9y/o khv
@Copeful is slaying rn pretty hard

he looks like a lighter sendhil

 

[Gengar]

16.9y/o khv
@Copeful is slaying rn pretty hard

he looks like a lighter sendhil

well mfer if we are gonna add that 0.935925 shit lemme do the maths for me...

im 25.6 y/o kv

 

[mulattomaxxer]

I wouldn't say its cope. All the studies show that only having a single partner has the highest level of success in LTRs. But after 1 notch it levels off fairly well. I would say is extremely unrealistic to expect a virgin GF. It also matters alot less then people make it out to be. People bark about "muh virgin" but they never talk about the graph leveling off after 1 notch count.

The virign or death meme is mostly a revenge fantasy. It matters a little due to her having a point of reference, but if you fuck her good she isn't going to be disatisfied.

Its more important what a girl is like in the present, then her past. Your virgin GF may have her friends whispering in her ear to cheat on you. Maybe she wants to experiment, you never know. However girls with higher notch counts incurr a greater risk then girls with lower notch counts.

However saying this, a woman with a high notch count is utterly repulsive for most guys. I also think whores are repulsive. Promiscuous women spark an innate fear in men. Anyone with reasonable IQ will see that having a whore GF is bad. This is why nobody wants a whore girlfriend, unless they are desperate. But her notch count is whatever she tells you it is. This is why its not worth asking about.

 

[LocalDanger]

I wouldn't say its cope. All the studies show that only having a single partner has the highest level of success in LTRs. But after 1 notch it levels off fairly well. I would say is extremely unrealistic to expect a virgin GF. It also matters alot less then people make it out to be. People bark about "muh virgin" but they never talk about the graph leveling off after 1 notch count.

The virign or death meme is mostly a revenge fantasy. It matters a little due to her having a point of reference, but if you fuck her good she isn't going to be disatisfied.

Its more important what a girl is like in the present, then her past. Your virgin GF may have her friends whispering in her ear to cheat on you. Maybe she wants to experiment, you never know. However girls with higher notch counts incurr a greater risk then girls with lower notch counts.

However saying this, a woman with a high notch count is utterly repulsive for most guys. I also think whores are repulsive. Promiscuous women spark an innate fear in men. Anyone with reasonable IQ will see that having a whore GF is bad. This is why nobody wants a whore girlfriend, unless they are desperate. But her notch count is whatever she tells you it is. This is why its not worth asking about.

Yeah it's for some reason a pride thing.

And may be very important for guys who like to fantasize and dream. It's hard to do that if she had many guys before you

 

[Deleted member 14781]

The problem is you'll never be able to satisfy her the same way chads used to satisfy her in the past if she's a slut and has a massive bodycount and she'll always see you as an inferior male in her life, eventually wanting to cheat on you

I don't care I just wanna nut

 

[Deleted member 14262]

Dnr

mirin your tism

 

[oldcelloser]

I don't care I just wanna nut

me too; low t in these users caring bout LTRs and foids' opinion tbh