casual sex is so useless I just want to be loved

[GrowthReaper]

at least you fucking get laid consistently nigga

I barely get more fulfilment from it compared to just jerking off

 

[Artbreeder Is Law]

I had a similar experience but it was even worse because I literally obsessed over a girl for like 8 months (this was in 2021) thinking I was in love with her, talking to her on the phone till 3am and shit, but when we actually got together at her house she started rambling about not wanting a boyfriend and how she just wanted to fuck around. I felt like shit for that entire night and could barely keep my dick at half mast despite literally having fantasized about that moment for months

Well, women have no emotions and shame when it comes to sex but they can afford it because they have many options in the other hand you just gonna rot for some times but hey water.

 

[Deleted member 22354]

Well said, especially the part where you said the niggas with the highest body counts are the RTT low-class HTNs. They had the most bodies and bragged about them when I was a student back at uni, and still are in my hometown.

Yes most of the time they are bums in shitty jobs and a very short slaying prime. They also age like shit bc of bad tanning and drinking habits. Most of them look like crap in their mid 20s. Slaying is also a numbers game if you are HTN+. Any HTN especially gymmaxxed would easily be able to have an ONS on the weekend if he simply is low inhib enough and approches a lot and has low standards ofc.

 

[GrowthReaper]

OP i feel you. To answer your question, most women want a stable LTR and they want to find out if you are just a fuckboy or someone they can ltr. You are probably failing to give/show them that security. Or you are failing to make an emotional connection with her. Or you are bad at sex, this is also a turnoff. In general you must give them security and also radiate it, but also have a clear roadmap for your future and ambitions if you want a ltr

That's what I don't understand though. I am generally really nice to them, smile a lot, and am attentive. To be honest I don't usually feel a big connection with them either but the problem might be my personality at this point

 

[Deleted member 25245]

It's always the same fucking cycle of hooking up and then never seeing each other again. Even more "romantic" intimacy like cuddling is garbage without feelings involved, even if the girl is hot. I fucking hate how I'll never experience the "teen love" thing because all the relationships I've had only happened because my fucking dick was controlling my head. Fucking hell I even dropped the only girl I've ever truly been interested in just because I found a hotter one (it was in 2019 and I still regret it)

How do other people even enjoy this shit? Why is "slaying" desired if it's just constant loveless almost transactional sex?

I unironically cried my eyes out today for the first time in like 6 years because I listened to "You Never Know" by Immortal Technique, it's about a love story, it just woke up something in me, I've been missing out on true love and wasn't even aware.

Why don't girls ever like me as a person, man

Your living my dream life stop crying

 

[Xangsane]

Yes most of the time they are bums in shitty jobs and a very short slaying prime. They also age like shit bc of bad tanning and drinking habits. Most of them look like crap in their mid 20s. Slaying is also a numbers game if you are HTN+. Any HTN especially gymmaxxed would easily be able to have an ONS on the weekend if he simply is low inhib enough and approches a lot and has low standards ofc.

Some of these gymmaxxed low-class RTT HTNs work in white-collar jobs and are university grads.

 

[GrowthReaper]

Your living my dream life stop crying

Your dream life is just an idealised version of this, without the "feeling unlovable" part

 

[Deleted member 22354]

That's what I don't understand though. I am generally really nice to them, smile a lot, and am attentive. To be honest I don't usually feel a big connection with them either but the problem might be my personality at this point

As you said, it's very likely that they don't feel a strong emotional connection with you. It's not just about being nice or smiling a lot - it's about creating a genuine emotional connection with someone.

One thing you could try is to focus on really getting to know the women you're interested in. Show a genuine interest in their lives and their thoughts, and try to connect with them on a deeper level. This can help build the emotional connection that women are often looking for in a ltr partner.

Also, keep in mind that women are often attracted to confidence and ambition. Make sure that you have a clear sense of where you're going in life and what you want to achieve, and communicate this to the women you're interested in. This can help give them a sense of security and stability, which is important for many women when considering a ltr

Some of these gymmaxxed low-class RTT HTNs work in white-collar jobs and are university grads.

I dont know anyone tbh, maybe a british and irish thing with the lad culture

 

[Acne Victim]

I just want to have a girl that loves me too bro

 

[cytoplasm]

I have a low chad at work (below hernan drago, above chico and maher)

 

[lonelycurry]

nigger really thought incels would sympathize with him.

 

[AspiringMogger]

It's always the same fucking cycle of hooking up and then never seeing each other again. Even more "romantic" intimacy like cuddling is garbage without feelings involved, even if the girl is hot. I fucking hate how I'll never experience the "teen love" thing because all the relationships I've had only happened because my fucking dick was controlling my head. Fucking hell I even dropped the only girl I've ever truly been interested in just because I found a hotter one (it was in 2019 and I still regret it)

How do other people even enjoy this shit? Why is "slaying" desired if it's just constant loveless almost transactional sex?

I unironically cried my eyes out today for the first time in like 6 years because I listened to "You Never Know" by Immortal Technique, it's about a love story, it just woke up something in me, I've been missing out on true love and wasn't even aware.

Why don't girls ever like me as a person, man

Are You black? I’ve had the same exact experience. Now that I’m out of school I can’t find a relationship. I slayed two girls in February and both ghosted me. I’ve deleted all dating apps and I don’t know what to do going forward.

 

[jerking off in Lidl]

I can love you

 

[GrowthReaper]

As you said, it's very likely that they don't feel a strong emotional connection with you. It's not just about being nice or smiling a lot - it's about creating a genuine emotional connection with someone.

One thing you could try is to focus on really getting to know the women you're interested in. Show a genuine interest in their lives and their thoughts, and try to connect with them on a deeper level. This can help build the emotional connection that women are often looking for in a ltr partner.

The problem is that most of the times they don't even want to form a deeper connection to begin with. They just want the physical aspect.

But even then, that's genuinely great advice, thank you.

Also, keep in mind that women are often attracted to confidence and ambition. Make sure that you have a clear sense of where you're going in life and what you want to achieve, and communicate this to the women you're interested in. This can help give them a sense of security and stability, which is important for many women when considering a ltr

I don't believe that's the issue since I'm pretty confident and I have solid plans for uni and my future career

 

[GrowthReaper]

Are You black? I’ve had the same exact experience. Now that I’m out of school I can’t find a relationship. I slayed two girls in February and both ghosted me. I’ve deleted all dating apps and I don’t know what to do going forward.

I'm white

 

[GrowthReaper]

Because pretty boys are seen as toys/playthings, not something to actually be intimate with, you're just a doll.

idk if you're being serious but to a certain extent that is pretty true

 

[Deleted member 24278]

Women are whores, it's over, it's slay or nothing

 

[Deleted member 24278]

Your dream life is just an idealised version of this, without the "feeling unlovable" part

Sex without love>>>>>>>>>>>>>trueceldom

 

[Deleted member 24278]

I only slay whores and forget about them, the red and black pills have broken me, I can't feel love for women anymore, I'm at peace tho

 

[GrowthReaper]

I can love you

thank you my dear

 

[Gengar]

It's always the same fucking cycle of hooking up and then never seeing each other again. Even more "romantic" intimacy like cuddling is garbage without feelings involved, even if the girl is hot. I fucking hate how I'll never experience the "teen love" thing because all the relationships I've had only happened because my fucking dick was controlling my head. Fucking hell I even dropped the only girl I've ever truly been interested in just because I found a hotter one (it was in 2019 and I still regret it)

How do other people even enjoy this shit? Why is "slaying" desired if it's just constant loveless almost transactional sex?

I unironically cried my eyes out today for the first time in like 6 years because I listened to "You Never Know" by Immortal Technique, it's about a love story, it just woke up something in me, I've been missing out on true love and wasn't even aware.

Why don't girls ever like me as a person, man

All Islamic people should read this. Indeed. Slaying is not desirable. Only the fools in the community think this is something good.

 

[Deleted member 9003]

Why don't girls ever like me as a person, man

girls only see prettyboys as hookups. Only medium guys ltr @Biggdink

 

[ascension]

 

[Deleted member 24940]

Love isn't real, women can only love their children.

Also the only true unconditional love you will ever feel IN YOUR LIFE is from your mother and father. Once they die it's over.

 

[Gengar]

Love isn't real, women can only love their children.

Also the only true unconditional love you will ever feel IN YOUR LIFE is from your mother and father. Once they die it's over.

Incel trait; thinking love isn’t real just because you don’t get it.

I agree you won’t get unconditional love from anyone but your parents.

 

[Corleone]

It's always the same fucking cycle of hooking up and then never seeing each other again. Even more "romantic" intimacy like cuddling is garbage without feelings involved, even if the girl is hot. I fucking hate how I'll never experience the "teen love" thing because all the relationships I've had only happened because my fucking dick was controlling my head. Fucking hell I even dropped the only girl I've ever truly been interested in just because I found a hotter one (it was in 2019 and I still regret it)

How do other people even enjoy this shit? Why is "slaying" desired if it's just constant loveless almost transactional sex?

I unironically cried my eyes out today for the first time in like 6 years because I listened to "You Never Know" by Immortal Technique, it's about a love story, it just woke up something in me, I've been missing out on true love and wasn't even aware.

Why don't girls ever like me as a person, man

are you dumb? just LTR a girl you like and low-key slay on the side. only focusing on slaying is just as stupid as only seeking a LTR.

got to mix it, otherwise you're missing out.

 

[Deleted member 27605]

literal biggest chad i ever knew was like 6'4'' blonde blue eyed, dolph type face. had a decent career. he got married young and had like 3 kids, very nice guy.
chad lite i knew was a stoner who made little money, slayed, and was going nowhere in life, constantly talked about his past drug usage and himself around others.
everyone, unless you're actually autistic desires what you do op

 

[enchanted_elixir]

How do other people even enjoy this shit? Why is "slaying" desired if it's just constant loveless almost transactional sex?

They're also thinking with their dicks.

 

[Tusseleif]

I love sucking on titties

 

[enchanted_elixir]

Sex without love>>>>>>>>>>>>>trueceldom

sex w/o love = masturbating on xvideos (fullfillment wise)

 

[Deleted member 20399]

It's always the same fucking cycle of hooking up and then never seeing each other again. Even more "romantic" intimacy like cuddling is garbage without feelings involved, even if the girl is hot. I fucking hate how I'll never experience the "teen love" thing because all the relationships I've had only happened because my fucking dick was controlling my head. Fucking hell I even dropped the only girl I've ever truly been interested in just because I found a hotter one (it was in 2019 and I still regret it)

How do other people even enjoy this shit? Why is "slaying" desired if it's just constant loveless almost transactional sex?

I unironically cried my eyes out today for the first time in like 6 years because I listened to "You Never Know" by Immortal Technique, it's about a love story, it just woke up something in me, I've been missing out on true love and wasn't even aware.

Why don't girls ever like me as a person, man

Shut the fuck up sex haver

 

[enchanted_elixir]

I only slay whores and forget about them, the red and black pills have broken me, I can't feel love for women anymore, I'm at peace tho

how did redpill break you? Did you feel bitter towards women?

 

[Deleted member 24278]

how did redpill break you? Did you feel bitter towards women?

Yes, also real life broke me, I saw women who were in 4 year relationships cheat on their boyfriends which were genuinely nice guys, my aunt is a whore too

 

[fogdart]

because ppl associate physical traits with personality traits. if you have high pfl vertically narrow eyes wide jaw visible zygoline good hair ripped girls will assume that you're a fuckboy and there's no other way around.

I have all these features and my ex broke up with me because she didn't think that I was into her lol

 

[zipzam]

idk if you're being serious but to a certain extent that is pretty true

I'm being serious.

If a quick shag is all you offer then that's all you'll get

Don't be afraid to break social harmony for the sake of your values

 

[Deleted member 24278]

sex w/o love = masturbating on xvideos

Sex without love>>>>>being sexless
Right @Wannabe Chad ?

 

[enchanted_elixir]

Sex without love>>>>>being sexless
Right @Wannabe Chad ?

btw when i say this,

sex w/o love = masturbating on xvideos (fullfillment wise)

I mean fullfillment wise

 

[enchanted_elixir]

I have all these features and my ex broke up with me because she didn't think that I was into her lol

Damn, your pheno is worse than mine and you're still not a KHHV like me holy shit.

 

[AngryShane]

Love isn't real, women can only love their children.

Also the only true unconditional love you will ever feel IN YOUR LIFE is from your mother and father. Once they die it's over.

This is actually one of the harsh realities of the world.Women don't love you unconditionally they just love what you can provide for them...

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Idgaf about slaying, I just want to mog

I want to know these cute girls want me, that I could take them from their boyfriends if I wanted

If I wanted sex I could probably get some now (yes with less attractive women but that's not the point)

But I just want to get as good looking as possible for status reasons really

 

[Acne Victim]

sex w/o love = masturbating on xvideos (fullfillment wise)

Have you ever had sex?

 

[Deleted member 20631]

Casual sex is so disgusting to me, niggas on here overrate slaying

 

[fogdart]

Damn, your pheno is worse than mine and you're still not a KHHV like me holy shit.

but I'm also jacked and at least htn in the face lol

 

[Deleted member 24940]

because ppl associate physical traits with personality traits. if you have high pfl vertically narrow eyes wide jaw visible zygoline good hair ripped girls will assume that you're a fuckboy and there's no other way around.

Absolutely over for chadcels. doomed to walk this earth relationshipless just going from one hookup to the next having meaningless sex like zombies and never feeling true love.

 

[king_bandon]

It's always the same fucking cycle of hooking up and then never seeing each other again. Even more "romantic" intimacy like cuddling is garbage without feelings involved, even if the girl is hot. I fucking hate how I'll never experience the "teen love" thing because all the relationships I've had only happened because my fucking dick was controlling my head. Fucking hell I even dropped the only girl I've ever truly been interested in just because I found a hotter one (it was in 2019 and I still regret it)

How do other people even enjoy this shit? Why is "slaying" desired if it's just constant loveless almost transactional sex?

I unironically cried my eyes out today for the first time in like 6 years because I listened to "You Never Know" by Immortal Technique, it's about a love story, it just woke up something in me, I've been missing out on true love and wasn't even aware.

Why don't girls ever like me as a person, man

I cried listening to 'glimpse of us' today so we are in a similar boat. Shits rough

 

[Deleted member 26675]

It's always the same fucking cycle of hooking up and then never seeing each other again. Even more "romantic" intimacy like cuddling is garbage without feelings involved, even if the girl is hot. I fucking hate how I'll never experience the "teen love" thing because all the relationships I've had only happened because my fucking dick was controlling my head. Fucking hell I even dropped the only girl I've ever truly been interested in just because I found a hotter one (it was in 2019 and I still regret it)

How do other people even enjoy this shit? Why is "slaying" desired if it's just constant loveless almost transactional sex?

I unironically cried my eyes out today for the first time in like 6 years because I listened to "You Never Know" by Immortal Technique, it's about a love story, it just woke up something in me, I've been missing out on true love and wasn't even aware.

Why don't girls ever like me as a person, man

You said in a comment you're 18. If that's true then shut the fuck up, you're literally so young you've barely experienced life yet. If you really desire a serious relationship you have the rest of your teens + 20s to find it. But tbh this whole post comes off as a poorly veiled bragging attempt.

 

[Xangsane]

It's always the same fucking cycle of hooking up and then never seeing each other again. Even more "romantic" intimacy like cuddling is garbage without feelings involved, even if the girl is hot. I fucking hate how I'll never experience the "teen love" thing because all the relationships I've had only happened because my fucking dick was controlling my head. Fucking hell I even dropped the only girl I've ever truly been interested in just because I found a hotter one (it was in 2019 and I still regret it)

How do other people even enjoy this shit? Why is "slaying" desired if it's just constant loveless almost transactional sex?

I unironically cried my eyes out today for the first time in like 6 years because I listened to "You Never Know" by Immortal Technique, it's about a love story, it just woke up something in me, I've been missing out on true love and wasn't even aware.

Why don't girls ever like me as a person, man

I want to ask you something.... are you religious?

 

[Deleted member 22829]

HopelessRomantics.org

 

[Deleted member 27561]

It's always the same fucking cycle of hooking up and then never seeing each other again. Even more "romantic" intimacy like cuddling is garbage without feelings involved, even if the girl is hot. I fucking hate how I'll never experience the "teen love" thing because all the relationships I've had only happened because my fucking dick was controlling my head. Fucking hell I even dropped the only girl I've ever truly been interested in just because I found a hotter one (it was in 2019 and I still regret it)

How do other people even enjoy this shit? Why is "slaying" desired if it's just constant loveless almost transactional sex?

I unironically cried my eyes out today for the first time in like 6 years because I listened to "You Never Know" by Immortal Technique, it's about a love story, it just woke up something in me, I've been missing out on true love and wasn't even aware.

Why don't girls ever like me as a person, man

It's cuz your browridge is missing a couple mm's

 

[rawdogprince]

love gets boring too after 2 times. I have a 10/10 asian girl friend with a perfect brown asshole. Get's boring.