Xangsane
squishy squishy!
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"because the love was there but everything else started to fall apart and it was causing us a lot of stress. We have very different interests that created conflict in our schedules due to needing to prioritize different things and we started to drift a part. It started to feel like work. We wanted to feel more free again. Essentially the external kept reflecting the internal dissonance. So we saw that friendship was the best energy to have between us and while it was hard we both started to feel and now feeeel so much lighter"
"we were totally transparent with our process with everyone we know personally. This online space isn’t real life. The way we moved through the process was not cut and dry. We took our time. Any love perceived through this space was and is real. It has only transformed. We don’t owe anyone anything and we respect eachothers process and privacy. When the time felt right for us both we shared what we learned/are learning. This space can be anything anyone wants. We share what we feel and what we know. In the in between space we shared the in between space in a way that did not feel invasive and honored our love and connection to one another that is eternal. Now that we are in a new phase of our relationship as just friends that is what we’ve shared. Love expanding into new life. Just changing and growing"
