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Everyone always talks about the importance of personality. I'm not debating that. But for some reason autists read about personality and decide to study "dark psychology to control women" and just learn basic conversational skills while their only interest is fortnite and they never leave their house. What are they even supposed to talk about?
This is my PSA to tell you that your hobbies are a HUGE part of your personality. Who is gonna win her heart? Some Cl who has no depth; generally uncool, watches tiktok for fun etc. Or the htn who's an athlete, a boxer, drives his cool project car, and plays an instrument. This should be obvious unless you're giga-brainwashed. Obviously nothing will save you if you're truly ugly but why not take up a FREE appeal boost no matter your looks level and pick up some cool hobbies that interest you.
You should be posting pictures of yourself doing cool stuff on social media and on dating apps. This WILL boost your success. I should not need to cite any evidence, watch any video on building a dating app profile or how to get girls on social media. Obviously it applies to real life too.
Here are just a few ideas to get your gears turning. Maybe pick up something along these lines or simply larp that you do.
Everyone that I know with a girlfriend does one or more of these things.
Skateboarding - A tier
A classic performative hobby. My personal favorite. Great for appealing to emo girls and just fits this aesthetic in general.
Essentials to learn before it becomes cool: Ollie, Kickflip, Pop Shuv it.
Moderately cheap to get into (<$200), Widely regarded as cool, Moderate learning curve, Requires some basic coordination. Moderate injury risk.
Adrenaline Sports - S tier
Associated with high testosterone, low inhibition, and high IQ.
Extremely high ROI, It's very easy to get into most of these. Cost ranges but there are great options for FREE (urbex, parkour, etc), Literally requires no skill except low inhibition. OVER FOR YOU if you're not doing these already. A basic side hobby that you can add on no matter what else you're into. Injury risk varies.
Competition Sports - C to SS tier
These can range all the way from C to SS tier depending on a few factors. What is the sport? How good are you? What is your age?
Requires athleticism and has a high learning curve so low ROI in the beginning, but this is one of the highest ceiling activities you can do. Think of the appeal boost that one guy got from being a star quarterback in high school.
DO NOT TRY THIS IF YOU'RE UNATLETIC
Motorcycle Riding - A tier
Highly respected and very niche which adds to the appeal boost for girls who're into this scene. A tier because it's very expensive to get into and very high risk of injury. Could work great if you have the money and this is your thing.
Fighting - SS tier
Literally the most masculine activity you can do.
Every girl absolutely soaks her panties thinking about having some masculine protective fighter with a soft spot for her. You don't even need to be good at it because 99.9% of girls wouldn't be able to tell the difference anyway, and that's IF she see's you in action. JUST TELL HER YOU FIGHT. Also genuinely useful in real life scenarios. High risk of injury if you get very into it.
Cars - S tier
Another absolute banger. This is the one I WISH I was into.
Widespread appeal while being niche enough to be interesting. The only bad part is that it's expensive and requires a lot of knowledge to get into. This one only works if you're truly interested in cars.
Music - A tier
Oddly similar to skateboarding in attributes and difficulty
Success here depends mainly on what instrument you play and how good you are. Moderate learning curve. Please do not let her find out about your shitty rap music on soundcloud.
Art - A tier
I don't know a lot about art because I absolutely suck at it.
It shows her you have an emotional side. Adds to your depth and mystique. Learning curve to be decent is quite high although you can larp with abstract. No risk of injury. No cost to get into. Moderate ROI.
I know there's plenty more than what I listed but the purpose of this thread is not to provide a comprehensive list of cool hobbies, it's to get you thinking about the importance of being a cool person.
thanks for reading.
This is my PSA to tell you that your hobbies are a HUGE part of your personality. Who is gonna win her heart? Some Cl who has no depth; generally uncool, watches tiktok for fun etc. Or the htn who's an athlete, a boxer, drives his cool project car, and plays an instrument. This should be obvious unless you're giga-brainwashed. Obviously nothing will save you if you're truly ugly but why not take up a FREE appeal boost no matter your looks level and pick up some cool hobbies that interest you.
You should be posting pictures of yourself doing cool stuff on social media and on dating apps. This WILL boost your success. I should not need to cite any evidence, watch any video on building a dating app profile or how to get girls on social media. Obviously it applies to real life too.
Here are just a few ideas to get your gears turning. Maybe pick up something along these lines or simply larp that you do.
Everyone that I know with a girlfriend does one or more of these things.
Skateboarding - A tier
A classic performative hobby. My personal favorite. Great for appealing to emo girls and just fits this aesthetic in general.
Essentials to learn before it becomes cool: Ollie, Kickflip, Pop Shuv it.
Moderately cheap to get into (<$200), Widely regarded as cool, Moderate learning curve, Requires some basic coordination. Moderate injury risk.
Adrenaline Sports - S tier
Associated with high testosterone, low inhibition, and high IQ.
Extremely high ROI, It's very easy to get into most of these. Cost ranges but there are great options for FREE (urbex, parkour, etc), Literally requires no skill except low inhibition. OVER FOR YOU if you're not doing these already. A basic side hobby that you can add on no matter what else you're into. Injury risk varies.
Competition Sports - C to SS tier
These can range all the way from C to SS tier depending on a few factors. What is the sport? How good are you? What is your age?
Requires athleticism and has a high learning curve so low ROI in the beginning, but this is one of the highest ceiling activities you can do. Think of the appeal boost that one guy got from being a star quarterback in high school.
DO NOT TRY THIS IF YOU'RE UNATLETIC
Motorcycle Riding - A tier
Highly respected and very niche which adds to the appeal boost for girls who're into this scene. A tier because it's very expensive to get into and very high risk of injury. Could work great if you have the money and this is your thing.
Fighting - SS tier
Literally the most masculine activity you can do.
Every girl absolutely soaks her panties thinking about having some masculine protective fighter with a soft spot for her. You don't even need to be good at it because 99.9% of girls wouldn't be able to tell the difference anyway, and that's IF she see's you in action. JUST TELL HER YOU FIGHT. Also genuinely useful in real life scenarios. High risk of injury if you get very into it.
Cars - S tier
Another absolute banger. This is the one I WISH I was into.
Widespread appeal while being niche enough to be interesting. The only bad part is that it's expensive and requires a lot of knowledge to get into. This one only works if you're truly interested in cars.
Music - A tier
Oddly similar to skateboarding in attributes and difficulty
Success here depends mainly on what instrument you play and how good you are. Moderate learning curve. Please do not let her find out about your shitty rap music on soundcloud.
Art - A tier
I don't know a lot about art because I absolutely suck at it.
It shows her you have an emotional side. Adds to your depth and mystique. Learning curve to be decent is quite high although you can larp with abstract. No risk of injury. No cost to get into. Moderate ROI.
I know there's plenty more than what I listed but the purpose of this thread is not to provide a comprehensive list of cool hobbies, it's to get you thinking about the importance of being a cool person.
thanks for reading.
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