Chad = lonely?

[kikobiko]

I genuinely think being cl or above in high school makes it harder to make GENUINE friendships. Hear me out.
Now that looksmaxing and black pill ideologies have become extremely mainstream, the average high school boy is self conscious of his looks and therefore is much more likely to envy better looking men. This factor alone means that the best looking people will have a harder time building true friendships nowadays because of the constant underlying envy that the uglier one is feeling. This has been going on for decades in the female community because they have always known that better looking = better dating success. Thats why they’ve always cared about makeup and dressing like a slut. But now that this ideology made its way into the masses of modern men/highschool students, it is becoming a reality for men as well to be disliked by others, for simply being more attractive. Does any one agree or have any of their own ideas? Lmkkkkk

 

[kikobiko]

I genuinely think being cl or above in high school makes it harder to make GENUINE friendships. Hear me out.
Now that looksmaxing and black pill ideologies have become extremely mainstream, the average high school boy is self conscious of his looks and therefore is much more likely to envy better looking men. This factor alone means that the best looking people will have a harder time building true friendships nowadays because of the constant underlying envy that the uglier one is feeling. This has been going on for decades in the female community because they have always known that better looking = better dating success. Thats why they’ve always cared about makeup and dressing like a slut. But now that this ideology made its way into the masses of modern men/highschool students, it is becoming a reality for men as well to be disliked by others, for simply being more attractive. Does any one agree or have any of their own ideas? Lmkkkkk

This is what i mean, the jealousy makes them hated now.

 

[esoterik]

what would u even define as genuine friends? the whole premise of friendship is something that people have to offer to each other, for a random ltn, it might just be that hes a jester or a floater friend, for a chad it might be his looks or status

also if this were true, we wouldn't have structure or hierarchy in friendships

 

[kikobiko]

what would u even define as genuine friends? the whole premise of friendship is something that people have to offer to each other, for a random ltn, it might just be that hes a jester or a floater friend, for a chad it might be his looks or status

also if this were true, we wouldn't have structure or hierarchy in friendships

My definition for a genuine friendship would be having someone that you can talk to, laugh with, and just be bestfriends, without having that underlying feeling of animosity between each other
For example: if a chad was talking to his ltn “friend” about something in his life he is struggling with, do you think the ltn friend would take him serious or do you think he would disregard all his problems just because he looks good?

 

[Asianthebigmannn_]

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This is what i mean, the jealousy makes them hated now.

 

[esoterik]

My definition for a genuine friendship would be having someone that you can talk to, laugh with, and just be bestfriends, without having that underlying feeling of animosity between each other
For example: if a chad was talking to his ltn “friend” about something in his life he is struggling with, do you think the ltn friend would take him serious or do you think he would disregard all his problems just because he looks good?

that example assumes envy before proving it, a ltn could dismiss his problem, but so could a smart, rich or more attractive person, thats just how some people are

what happens when a ltn tells people hes struggling in life? do you think they are going to care either?

(also, anyway, alot of genuine friendships have animosity, thats just kinda nature)

 

[kikobiko]

Yeah i agree, but i just think its more common for the incel friend to disregard the chads problem, simply because they’ve been programmed to believe that looking good solves all problems. Again, this could change anecdotally, but i think now that incel ideology has become so common, this scenario is gonna become far more frequent.