charisma is bs

[Deleted member 47263]

a lot of people including myself tend to fall into a rabbit hole where i end up believing that personality really does matter, and this is extremely unhealthy

if you're one of these people here i just want to say

looks are everything, maxilla is everything

money and personality are cope

 

[Deleted member 48352]

do you know what softmaxxing means?

 

[OptimusMaxxer]

This is not softmaxing what are you talking about

But still, money and personality does matter and it goes hand in hand with looks in mate selection for humans - look at studies

 

[Deleted member 47263]

do you know what softmaxxing means?

bro listen im off some bennys right now just leave m e alone

 

[Sushifart]

Half right imo. Your personality matters, but so do looks (it matters more than personality). Ever hear a girl tell someone they want a boyfriend with their personality? You need all three things you mentioned to do super well in life.

Also, softmaxxing is just a really tame version of fully looksmaxxing, like new hairstyle, fixing skin, etc. Some kind of softmaxxing is always the best route for most people though, unless you really are hideous, since you can do it while making money/status and improving personality ig.

 

[IAMNOTANINCEL]

Oh ok, thanks for the enlightenment

 

[Cheat_Win]

Both matter, I’d say equally important. If your personality doesn’t match your looks then it’s over

 

[baerr]

the point where personality does not matter, like to a degree of 0 is not achieveable by most people. Youd have to literally be a top model for your personality to do not have any impact on mating and especially long term relationships. To say personality is an irrelevant factor is a cope for extremely non-nt or seriously mentally ill people which can not accept the fact that their looks which are changeable to a certain degree are not the main cause for their shitty life. Non-nts and mentalcels of all kind are doomed most of the time (if they are not top percentile in looks ((most arent)) )and not to be saved since no one wants to be around those people, its unhealthy, draining and a sign of bad genetics, prepositioning the offspring for similiar illnesses.

 

[Deleted member 48710]

a lot of people including myself tend to fall into a rabbit hole where i end up believing that personality really does matter, and this is extremely unhealthy

if you're one of these people here i just want to say

looks are everything, maxilla is everything

money and personality are cope

both matter. if you have no social skills then your not gonna get far in the relationship lol