Cheating is good for you and her

[playboy619]

Preface
based on my experience women can’t love you they only want sth in that moment. My parents who have been married for 40 years on the outside it might seem like a perfect couples. But behind the closed door my mom would shit testing him mercilessly because he’s the “one love” type.

What I think I should do and why:

I will cheats and have side chicks if given the chance despite having wife or kids.
I will pour the materials resources to my immediate family and only be presence with the kids when it comes to healthy upbringing. The reason for me cheating isn’t because I wanted to but it is what’s the best for the family. Now you maybe wondering why, so please let me explain. A man cheating by putting his dick inside other girls vagina is what makes him not getting the beta mindset thus he’s subconsciously don’t feel needy or domesticated thus having more emotional freedom to invest in himself and his works. His wife will be put in her place trying to please him just to tame him to be beta. I have seen countless of my mom’s friends whose husband has side chick being like this.

 

[LooksPSL]

No

 

[Deleted member 23218]

Preface
based on my experience women can’t love you they only want sth in that moment. My parents who have been married for 40 years on the outside it might seem like a perfect couples. But behind the closed door my mom would shit testing him mercilessly because he’s the “one love” type.

What I think I should do and why:

I will cheats and have side chicks if given the chance despite having wife or kids.
I will pour the materials resources to my immediate family and only be presence with the kids when it comes to healthy upbringing. The reason for me cheating isn’t because I wanted to but it is what’s the best for the family. Now you maybe wondering why, so please let me explain. A man cheating by putting his dick inside other girls vagina is what makes him not getting the beta mindset thus he’s subconsciously don’t feel needy or domesticated thus having more emotional freedom to invest in himself and his works. His wife will be put in her place trying to please him just to tame him to be beta. I have seen countless of my mom’s friends whose husband has side chick being like this.

I am rich so I will have sugar babies

 

[loksr]

This is what happens when incels get 100% of their advice from other incels tbh

 

[playboy619]

This is what happens when incels get 100% of their advice from other incels tbh

You will learn the harsh truth when you grow up.

 

[Allornothing]

I have seen countless of my mom’s friends whose husband has side chick being like this.

Doubt it.

You’re right though op women respect a man with options but it’s more about having the potential to cheat (and making sure she knows it by flirting with other girls) rather than doing it. It’s a bit of work in the modern era to convince a girl to be ok with cheating and if she has friends it likely won’t work as they will convince her to leave you.

 

[Bojack]

Women desire a man who has countless options.

 

[Deleted member 21735]

Women desire a man who has countless options.

Why can’t I have that?

 

[Patient A]

Why can’t I have that?

 

[loksr]

You will learn the harsh truth when you grow up.

you're literally basing your worldview on what your mommy and daddy are doing because you have actual 0 real world experience.
you're a teenager at the absolute oldest.
you even say "this is what I WILL do"
you've never even been in a serious ltr before lmfao

 

[playboy619]

you're literally basing your worldview on what your mommy and daddy are doing because you have actual 0 real world experience.
you're a teenager at the absolute oldest.
you even say "this is what I WILL do"
you've never even been in a serious ltr before lmfao

Because I was an idealist with the 1st one eventually she lost respect

 

[loksr]

I got dumped when I was 16 so now I suckle on andrew tate's balls cause I think it'll help in my next high school relationship not leave me even though it's going to make the next one leave RIDICULOUSLY quicker than the first one did

fixed

 

[geezcel]

Its never good
be faithful or kys

 

[loksr]

Because I was an idealist with the 1st one eventually she lost respect

you know what, let me not, you're obviously a little kid so I'm going to help you real quick

in your first relationship, you were in ultra giga simp mode, probably desperate to keep her so you went full doormat
now you're at the retard stage where you start consuming nonsense redpill content thinking you can strong arm your way into not getting done dirty again, you can't. You hopped over to the complete opposite end of the spectrum like every clueless kid does the first time something goes wrong.

when YOU grow up, you are going to realize that the answer, like literally everything else in life, is a happy medium. Where you're not a doormat, but you're not a gigadouche either. You don't let anybody walk all over you but you don't try to walk all over others either. This is going to ensure that if a break up happens, it's not going to be because your behavior is ultra-fucked. Now, what it's not going to do (because NOTHING can do this) is ensure that you will NEVER break up, in the real world, sometimes people just aren't going to work out together, it happens, stop basing your self worth on it cause I know for a fact you do.

 

[playboy619]

fixed

Just coming back from Andrew’s thread

 

[playboy619]

you know what, let me not, you're obviously a little kid so I'm going to help you real quick

in your first relationship, you were in ultra giga simp mode, probably desperate to keep her so you went full doormat
now you're at the retard stage where you start consuming nonsense redpill content thinking you can strong arm your way into not getting done dirty again, you can't. You hopped over to the complete opposite end of the spectrum like every clueless kid does the first time something goes wrong.

when YOU grow up, you are going to realize that the answer, like literally everything else in life, is a happy medium. Where you're not a doormat, but you're not a gigadouche either. You don't let anybody walk all over you but you don't try to walk all over others either. This is going to ensure that if a break up happens, it's not going to be because your behavior is ultra-fucked. Now, what it's not going to do (because NOTHING can do this) is ensure that you will NEVER break up, in the real world, sometimes people just aren't going to work out together, it happens, stop basing your self worth on it cause I know for a fact you do.

She was more into me at first but after I showered her she prob sensed I had lost my ambition or she thought I was not the person who she thought I was. Tbh I am glad that it happened because deep down I know she’s not a perfect match.

 

[loksr]

She was more into me at first but after I showered her she prob sensed I had lost my ambition or she thought I was not the person who she thought I was. Tbh I am glad that it happened because deep down I know she’s not a perfect match.

as a general rule they don't want to be put on a pedestal and simped over, and they also don't want to be autistically dominated by guys who think it's cool to smoke cigars and wear sunglasses inside

deep down I know she’s not a perfect match.

yeah, exactly. sometimes people just break up. no need for autistic cheating strats, just be fucking normal jesus fucking christ this is the easiest shit in the world but you guys always come to some INSANE conclusions in times of emotional turmoil
you're like one bad break up away from going mgtow

it's such a common theme with reformed simps that you guys ALWAYS have to go from one extreme to the other
I don't know what in your brain makes it not intuitive to go to a middle zone and be normal, but that's what you have to do, bouncing to the other extreme is going to be equally as detrimental to any relationship

 

[Deleted member 23778]

You will learn the harsh truth when you grow up.

Girl in your avi has ideal female everything. Who she is?

 

[Deleted member 23778]

as a general rule they don't want to be put on a pedestal and simped over, and they also don't want to be autistically dominated by guys who think it's cool to smoke cigars and wear sunglasses inside


yeah, exactly. sometimes people just break up. no need for autistic cheating strats, just be fucking normal jesus fucking christ this is the easiest shit in the world but you guys always come to some INSANE conclusions in times of emotional turmoil
you're like one bad break up away from going mgtow

it's such a common theme with reformed simps that you guys ALWAYS have to go from one extreme to the other
I don't know what in your brain makes it not intuitive to go to a middle zone and be normal, but that's what you have to do, bouncing to the other extreme is going to be equally as detrimental to any relationship

Basically this

 

[Deleted member 23778]

Girl in your avi has ideal female everything. Who she is?

Never mind she took one good pic

 

[Deleted member 23778]

If your girl respects you more for cheating then she is mentally ill and is not worth investing time in.

I would 100% rather a woman who wants me exclusively for herself and would not share me. To have a woman that jealous for you is the biggest validation you can ever get from her.

 

[playboy619]

If your girl respects you more for cheating then she is mentally ill and is not worth investing time in.

I would 100% rather a woman who wants me exclusively for herself and would not share me. To have a woman that jealous for you is the biggest validation you can ever get from her.

Infidelity is cheating to women

 

[Maleficent]

But behind the closed door my mom would shit testing him mercilessly because he’s the “one love” type.

Can you elaborate on this?

 

[playboy619]

Can you elaborate on this?

By pretending to be in contact with her ex just to get reaction. Usually when somebody don’t have respect would do that.