Children feel like such a cope

[New Poster]

Being a provider for kids seems like such a cope. I mean, having kids is fine. But getting all your value in life from your role as a provider just floors me. It also puts stupid amounts of pressure on the kid. I get that most people are losers and can’t do much with their life anyway so they cope by pretending they only care about their kids. It’s like married guys saying they would slay sorority girls if it wasn’t for the ol’ ball and chain. But who buys this? There’s nothing good about providing for some dipshit kids. It’s necessary, but lol at pretending it gives you some inherent value.

 

[MulletM1chas]

i dont know what to say like my brain lagged i wanted to say something but i am to dumb to connect words in my brain bruh

 

[New Poster]

i dont know what to say like my brain lagged i wanted to say something but i am to dumb to connect words in my brain bruh

tldr normies use kids to lower expectations on themselves

 

[MulletM1chas]

tldr normies use kids to lower expectations on themselves

oh that's fucking looser ah behavior

 

[widdi]

I mean isn’t everything a cope? People who have kids and actually spend time with them are probably happier than people who die alone

But most parenting is done at conception. Normies optimize parenting super hard while not really doing the same for partner selection which is probably the most important part

 

[Daddy's Home]

Children are an investment, especially if you have many, and many of them are girls, and if they are born from a hot mother, they can easily attract men with money and resources, and can greatly change your standard of living/lifestyle for you and your wife..

Today you're just some random dude from a small town who picked up a hot chick at a club, tomorrow your 20-year-old daughter calls you to move to Tenerife and stop working for the rest of your life, because the son of an Arab billionaire from Emirate DM'd her on Instagram asking if she wants to be his wife..

Or maybe your girl doesn't like that Arab guy, and chooses this option instead..

 

[New Poster]

I mean isn’t everything a cope? People who have kids and actually spend time with them are probably happier than people who die alone

But most parenting is done at conception. Normies optimize parenting super hard while not really doing the same for partner selection which is probably the most important part

Children are an investment, especially if you have many, and many of them are girls, and if they are born from a hot mother, they can easily attract men with money and resources, and can greatly change your standard of living/lifestyle for you and your wife..

Today you're just some random dude from a small town who picked up a hot chick at a club, tomorrow your 20-year-old daughter calls you to move to Tenerife and stop working for the rest of your life, because the son of an Arab billionaire from Emirate DM'd her on Instagram asking if she wants to be his wife..

Or maybe your girl doesn't like that Arab guy, and chooses this option instead..

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I get kids as a help down the line. Sure, it’s probably better than having no connection to the next generation. But using them as a get-out-of-being-a-loser card is never convincing.

 

[widdi]

I get kids as a help down the line. Sure, it’s probably better than having no connection to the next generation. But using them as a get-out-of-being-a-loser card is never convincing.

Why not? Realistically what can like 98% of people do that’ll have more of a long lasting impact on the world than having kids. Even a multi millionaire is way closer to a homeless person than he is to a billionaire. Like there just isn’t really an objective point to life for the vast majority of people that can’t be billionaires or run governments

 

[FutureSlayer]

Children are an investment, especially if you have many, and many of them are girls, and if they are born from a hot mother, they can easily attract men with money and resources, and can greatly change your standard of living/lifestyle for you and your wife..

Today you're just some random dude from a small town who picked up a hot chick at a club, tomorrow your 20-year-old daughter calls you to move to Tenerife and stop working for the rest of your life, because the son of an Arab billionaire from Emirate DM'd her on Instagram asking if she wants to be his wife..

Or maybe your girl doesn't like that Arab guy, and chooses this option instead..

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This is why it’s better to buy chads and stacies’ gametes and basically adopt your own child, I would not risk it with my own genes

 

[Daddy's Home]

but using them as a get-out-of-being-a-loser card is never convincing.

90% of the planet's population has nothing going for them (so they are essentially losers)

They are average, but most are below average in every respect, and they have to start from scratch..

They struggle their whole lives for a house and a car, and end up having children, which is like a side quest, but in the end, life is short, relative, you have a very short window of years to live until you are old to the point where life becomes a daily struggle, so there aren't many things to do in this life..

 

[FutureSlayer]

Why not? Realistically what can like 98% of people do that’ll have more of a long lasting impact on the world than having kids. Even a multi millionaire is way closer to a homeless person than he is to a billionaire. Like there just isn’t really an objective point to life for the vast majority of people that can’t be billionaires or run governments

Exactly, it’s probably the most socially accepted valuable asset but being a billionaire and such

 

[New Poster]

Why not? Realistically what can like 98% of people do that’ll have more of a long lasting impact on the world than having kids. Even a multi millionaire is way closer to a homeless person than he is to a billionaire. Like there just isn’t really an objective point to life for the vast majority of people that can’t be billionaires or run governments

I mean that kids don’t convey social value in the way looks, nt, status do. You can’t just be like “I have kids” and let yourself go like most normies.

 

[FutureSlayer]

I mean that kids don’t convey social value in the way looks, nt, status do. You can’t just be like “I have kids” and let yourself go like most normies.

Why not? It seems you get praised for being a good cuck hubby father by the general population, it seems to work

 

[sub5outsider]

I cannot imagine spending my hard earned money for someone else than me

 

[New Poster]

Why not? It seems you get praised for being a good cuck hubby father by the general population, it seems to work

No one actually believes that shit. You might as well quote girls saying they like dad bods.

 

[widdi]

I mean that kids don’t convey social value in the way looks, nt, status do. You can’t just be like “I have kids” and let yourself go like most normies.

all of those things are kinda ephemeral and not super impressive unless it gets to a level that most people can’t reach or can’t really luck into on a mass scale. If I see a HTN or a doctor or a microceleb I’m just like eh I guess that’s kinda cool and go back to thinking about my oneitis.

 

[FutureSlayer]

No one actually believes that shit. You might as well quote girls saying they like dad bods.

well they do actually like them if you’re referring to healthy bf digits with gigantic muscles

 

[foidletslayer]

I get that most people are losers and can’t do much with their life anyway so they cope by pretending they only care about their kids.

U sure about that this is purely built on 3xpierence of one’s self

 

[White_Bwoi]

I don't want kids (and I probably never will), because I fear they will be same as me = totally "ND".
I didn't like my childhood either, my adult life is 100x better

Most of people I know that are 40+, are in divorce process (ofcourse foids cheated on oofiedoofies).
So what's the point, really, to nonchalantly add INSANE amount of stress to your life, have to work all the time not only for yourself but to provide & secure FUTURE for your child wtf mang...

Can't really comprehend the amount of COPE, when my friends tell me that they're trying to make a baby...

They're usually brainwashed by their girlfriends, lets se how it's goin 5yrs after birth, guaranteed most of them will be single & fight to see their offspring jfl

 

[Water Bomb]

It is a bad idea if you can't financially support them without drastically affecting your own life.

 

[New Poster]

Why not? Realistically what can like 98% of people do that’ll have more of a long lasting impact on the world than having kids. Even a multi millionaire is way closer to a homeless person than he is to a billionaire. Like there just isn’t really an objective point to life for the vast majority of people that can’t be billionaires or run governments

you’re using something you could apply to anything (that nothing lasts) and selectively applying it to things you want to invalidate (status, wealth, sex, etc.) but not applying it to the things you want to elevate (kids). Literally everything is impermanent. The universe will burn itself out eventually and nothing will be left. It doesn’t matter how many kids you have.

 

[widdi]

you’re using something you could apply to anything (that nothing lasts) and selectively applying it to things you want to invalidate (status, wealth, sex, etc.) but not applying it to the things you want to elevate (kids). Literally everything is impermanent. The universe will burn itself out eventually and nothing will be left. It doesn’t matter how many kids you have.

Everything is impermanent but having a kid would be more impactful than seeking hedonistic pleasure. When you chose to have a kid as a normal non super rich or famous person, that is the immediate trade off that you are making.

 

[rapelover3]

Lower IQ = higher fertility rate

 

[New Poster]

Everything is impermanent but having a kid would be more impactful than seeking hedonistic pleasure. When you chose to have a kid as a normal non super rich or famous person, that is the immediate trade off that you are making.

There is no “impact” after youre dead. It’s all just hedonistic pleasure and then lights out.

 

[widdi]

There is no “impact” after youre dead. It’s all just hedonistic pleasure and then lights out.

Then why don’t you quit your job and do heroin all day?

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Water
It’s not necessary though
Humans need to die out

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Everything is impermanent but having a kid would be more impactful than seeking hedonistic pleasure. When you chose to have a kid as a normal non super rich or famous person, that is the immediate trade off that you are making.

Monkmaxx

 

[New Poster]

Then why don’t you quit your job and do heroin all day?

Because you crash on heroin. If drugs just kept you high, everyone would do them

 

[Lost_man]

If you have nephews/nieces you've already indirectly passed on your genes.
Don't listen to retards who know nothing about genes saying you're a "genetic dead end". Like it matters if your spawn lives on after your dead in the ground.

 

[jaaba]

Yh lemme cope real quick by fulfilling one of my life’s main purposes

 

[New Poster]

Yh lemme cope real quick by fulfilling one of my life’s main purposes

Lemme just posit my conclusion as the premise

 

[134applesauce456]

Children are an investment, especially if you have many, and many of them are girls, and if they are born from a hot mother, they can easily attract men with money and resources, and can greatly change your standard of living/lifestyle for you and your wife..

Today you're just some random dude from a small town who picked up a hot chick at a club, tomorrow your 20-year-old daughter calls you to move to Tenerife and stop working for the rest of your life, because the son of an Arab billionaire from Emirate DM'd her on Instagram asking if she wants to be his wife..

Or maybe your girl doesn't like that Arab guy, and chooses this option instead..

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this happens to like 0.01% of women jfl dont have kids for this reason

 

[jaaba]

Lemme just posit my conclusion as the premise

Dnr the thread

 

[New Poster]

Dnr the thread

It shows

 

[dawooddX]

Being a provider for kids seems like such a cope. I mean, having kids is fine. But getting all your value in life from your role as a provider just floors me. It also puts stupid amounts of pressure on the kid. I get that most people are losers and can’t do much with their life anyway so they cope by pretending they only care about their kids. It’s like married guys saying they would slay sorority girls if it wasn’t for the ol’ ball and chain. But who buys this? There’s nothing good about providing for some dipshit kids. It’s necessary, but lol at pretending it gives you some inherent value.

I see ur pov. Brutal if u say this to people, most of them would be like “ur js young once ur older u will understand” while mot considering any point at all