Cindy, 38, Korean-American, from Illinois

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Cindy, 38, Korean-American, from Illinois​

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“Basically, all I wanted to do when I was younger was get old enough to get eyelid surgery, marry a white guy and change my last name immediately.”

“Because we’re Korean, my mother said when I was young, ‘You’ll get your eyelid surgery and your eyes will look bigger.’ So I really got these comments from the person who would normally champion your beauty. It goes to show Westernized beauty is something Asians are very mindful of.

I don’t think this idea of Western beauty is necessarily in the forefront of people’s minds. It’s very institutionalized. Lighter skin and big eyes are coveted because that’s gone through generations of being the default — even if we don’t know the roots of why we want to look like that.
Basically, all I wanted to do when I was younger was get old enough to get eyelid surgery, marry a white guy and change my last name immediately. I would sleep with eye tape on every night, hopeful it would make my eyes get bigger. I’d wake up and be disappointed.
The way I look is now part of who I am. I wouldn’t change it. But I know I’m still affected by this, because when I look at my daughter, I do love that she’s half white and has fair skin and has creases in her eyelids. And I think, ‘Why do I feel this way?’ If she didn’t have them, it’s not something I would have ever talked to her about. I want to be a mother who celebrates their child. It’s more that my own insecurities are relieved in that she has fair skin and Western features.”
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Cindy, 38, Korean-American, from Illinois​

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Damon Dahlen/HuffPost

“Because we’re Korean, my mother said when I was young, ‘You’ll get your eyelid surgery and your eyes will look bigger.’ So I really got these comments from the person who would normally champion your beauty. It goes to show Westernized beauty is something Asians are very mindful of.

I don’t think this idea of Western beauty is necessarily in the forefront of people’s minds. It’s very institutionalized. Lighter skin and big eyes are coveted because that’s gone through generations of being the default — even if we don’t know the roots of why we want to look like that.
Basically, all I wanted to do when I was younger was get old enough to get eyelid surgery, marry a white guy and change my last name immediately. I would sleep with eye tape on every night, hopeful it would make my eyes get bigger. I’d wake up and be disappointed.
The way I look is now part of who I am. I wouldn’t change it. But I know I’m still affected by this, because when I look at my daughter, I do love that she’s half white and has fair skin and has creases in her eyelids. And I think, ‘Why do I feel this way?’ If she didn’t have them, it’s not something I would have ever talked to her about. I want to be a mother who celebrates their child. It’s more that my own insecurities are relieved in that she has fair skin and Western features.”
@PEENO08 @Maxillular

Holy fuck that gook is subhuman.... wow.

 

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Holy fuck that gook is subhuman.... wow.

Also she is completely normal for wanting to purify her genes, but in the end she is still a panfaced gookwhore genetic dead end who destroyed a white man's bloodline by tainting it with her chink genes. Should be burned alive for crimes against humanity.

 

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Also she is completely normal for wanting to purify her genes, but in the end she is still a panfaced gookwhore genetic dead end who destroyed a white man's bloodline by tainting it with her chink genes. Should be burned alive for crimes against humanity.

They can't think that far, they just want to improve their genetic pool with hopefully someone white

Just imagine if the child turns out as the type that looks asian? Her insecurities and self-hate will manifest sooner or later in her parenting

Of course they haven't thought that far jfl. Nor have they thought about how the child would feel, or have they considered not having a kid at all and not spreading shit genes.

 

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They can't think that far, they just want to improve their genetic pool with hopefully someone white

Just imagine if the child turns out as the type that looks asian? Her insecurities and self-hate will manifest sooner or later in her parenting

Of course they haven't thought that far jfl. Nor have they thought about how the child would feel, or have they considered not having a kid at all and not spreading shit genes.

Exactly. As a gook I will never have children.

 

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holy subhuman

I thought it has down syndrome or sum