Clubbing vs irl

[Deleted member 3556]

Specifically asking those who have experience with both and aren’t incel. Eliminate any status shit like knowing bouncers and bartenders or going with a group of friends. I’m traveling solo around the country. Eliminate status shit for OLD too bc I don’t have good nt pics(pretty antisocial and my old friends are scattered across the country for college). I also won’t be in any one place for long so I won’t be chatting girls up for long and going on dates. Asking about ability to pull girls to hook up first night within a day or two of talking.

Is a 6’1 white, reasonably fit, chadlite, with ok social skills gonna do better with online dating without nt pics or by going to bars/clubs alone?

Curious bc messaging girls is a lot more comfortable given my lack of experience with irl game. Plus my sleep is fucked up so those late nights drinking mess me up pretty badly. Going to clubs is more stressful, intimidating, and a bigger sacrifice to my health and medical recovery. Don’t want to start putting in the nights to get good at it unless it will pay off.

 

[Deleted member 6403]

Only if you have hair and a big skull (non Arabian one)

 

[Deleted member 7192]

Specifically asking those who have experience with both and aren’t incel. Eliminate any status shit like knowing bouncers and bartenders or going with a group of friends. I’m traveling solo around the country. Eliminate status shit for OLD too bc I don’t have good nt pics(pretty antisocial and my old friends are scattered across the country for college). I also won’t be in any one place for long so I won’t be chatting girls up for long and going on dates. Asking about ability to pull girls to hook up first night within a day or two of talking.

Is a 6’1 white, reasonably fit, chadlite, with ok social skills gonna do better with online dating without nt pics or by going to bars/clubs alone?

Curious bc messaging girls is a lot more comfortable given my lack of experience with irl game. Plus my sleep is fucked up so those late nights drinking mess me up pretty badly. Going to clubs is more stressful, intimidating, and a bigger sacrifice to my health and medical recovery. Don’t want to start putting in the nights to get good at it unless it will pay off.

I think it’s common sense that online dating is shit

I don’t see how anyone would get slays off tinder regularly unless you’re amnesia

 

[Deleted member 3556]

I think it’s common sense that online dating is shit

I don’t see how anyone would get slays off tinder regularly unless you’re amnesia

Is this from personal experience and success or what? If you couldn’t tell I really don’t want to get into night game til I’m healthy but I want to be able to pull quickly when I’m in a new town

 

[Deleted member 9003]

A bar near a college

 

[Deleted member 9003]

Sneak into a college party or some shit

 

[Deleted member 3556]

A bar near a college

Yeah I’ll be going to a lot of small college towns. Is it really that much easier? Seems like a crazy hassle plus all the competition. Is that your experience tho that you do better at bars and parties?

 

[Deleted member 7192]

Is this from personal experience and success or what? If you couldn’t tell I really don’t want to get into night game til I’m healthy but I want to be able to pull quickly when I’m in a new town

I’m literally 15, I haven’t tried online dating but hitting girls up in dms is harder for me than irl


You’re free to try it but I wouldn’t expect crazy results , I’d rather go to nightclubs and take some stimulant before instead of drinking beer

 

[Deleted member 9003]

Yeah I’ll be going to a lot of small college towns. Is it really that much easier? Seems like a crazy hassle plus all the competition. Is that your experience tho that you do better at bars and parties?

Yea it’s super easy tbh

 

[Deleted member 3556]

Yea it’s super easy tbh

Tall cunt

 

[Deleted member 3556]

Yea it’s super easy tbh

You share so little that I don’t know how to contextualize your opinions but fuck. Is college truly a degenfest where attractive people constantly get drunk and hook up?

 

[Deleted member 7192]

Yeah I’ll be going to a lot of small college towns. Is it really that much easier? Seems like a crazy hassle plus all the competition. Is that your experience tho that you do better at bars and parties?

The bitches are literally drunk and horny in a dark setting most of the time, compared to you texting her while she has 10+ niggas you’re competing with

 

[Deleted member 3556]

The bitches are literally drunk and horny in a dark setting most of the time, compared to you texting her while she has 10+ niggas you’re competing with

Yes but there’s still competition at the club and it’s more overt and thus intimidating but still good point ofc

 

[Deleted member 7192]

Yes but there’s still competition at the club and it’s more overt and thus intimidating but still good point ofc

You just have to force yourself, like anything in life that brings discomfort in the moment but benefit’s you in the end

It’ll come easier the more you do it

 

[Deleted member 9003]

You share so little that I don’t know how to contextualize your opinions but fuck. Is college truly a degenfest where attractive people constantly get drunk and hook up?

Girls approach you, make out with you and are easy to bring back to a place. I had a ONS with some Becky in her dorm after a bar. And yes college is gigadegenerate

Yes but there’s still competition at the club and it’s more overt and thus intimidating but still good point ofc

Competition is a meme. I know a like 4.5-5 psl max, 5’9 dude who gets approached.

 

[Deleted member 3556]

Girls approach you, make out with you and are easy to bring back to a place. I had a ONS with some Becky in her dorm after a bar. And yes college is gigadegenerate

Competition is a meme. I know a like 4.5-5 psl max, 5’9 dude who gets approached.

Alright fucker

 

[stewiegriffin]

Eh depends how social u are. I would feel awkward af personally going into a club where I know absolutely nobody. But I guess just get drunk and go for it

 

[Carnivore]

Just take MDMA tbh.

 

[Deleted member 3556]

Eh depends how social u are. I would feel awkward af personally going into a club where I know absolutely nobody. But I guess just get drunk and go for it

I’d be fine talking to dudes once I’ve got a few drinks in me but I’m legit someone who has never been friends with girls, never dated, no sisters, never approached or gone to clubs/bars. So when it comes to building something with a girl I just met when it’s loud af and there’s other dudes tryna get her or stop me… fuckin scary boys

 

[mulattomaxxer]

Still virgin but based on what my slayer friends say (+ what I have seen IRL) getting laid through IRL interactions is alot better then trying to get laid through dating apps.

One of my mates is 6ft 2, wide frame and reasonably gymmaxxed and he was struggling to get laid from tinder. I would rate him 5PSL facially but he has bad colouring (he is very light blonde, almost albino). He did get laid through tinder, but it was few and far between.

Problem with dating apps is that most women don't check their messages and you competely with every over guy in her DMs. Then a tinder chad like amensia or salludon comes along... You know what happens next.

 

[Enfant terrible]

irl always better

 

[Deleted member 275]

why not both?

Tinder takes 0 effort if you don't put energy into lost causes. put ur energy into clubbing instead and accept easy lays from tinder

 

[Deleted member 3556]

why not both?

Tinder takes 0 effort if you don't put energy into lost causes. put ur energy into clubbing instead and accept easy lays from tinder

True I’m tryna get one in every state so I’ll just go to a bar if I’m struggling to get one off old

 

[Deleted member 3556]

irl always better

Do you slay or what’s this based off of?

Still virgin but based on what my slayer friends say (+ what I have seen IRL) getting laid through IRL interactions is alot better then trying to get laid through dating apps.

One of my mates is 6ft 2, wide frame and reasonably gymmaxxed and he was struggling to get laid from tinder. I would rate him 5PSL facially but he has bad colouring (he is very light blonde, almost albino). He did get laid through tinder, but it was few and far between.

Problem with dating apps is that most women don't check their messages and you competely with every over guy in her DMs. Then a tinder chad like amensia or salludon comes along... You know what happens next.

His halos are best irl tho. I’m not quite 6’1 and although my body is nice my frame isn’t very wide and the biggest halo is my abs which come into play mainly with tinder. But hey if you’ve seen it being “a lot” better then fuckin ok

 

[Deleted member 3556]

Bump

 

[MikeMew'sBitch]

Ive never had any use from internet/online hooking up. Irl is much lower competition and alochol + atmosphere of the place play a big role.

 

[Deleted member 3556]

Ive never had any use from internet/online hooking up. Irl is much lower competition and alochol + atmosphere of the place play a big role.

So if you don’t get any girls online how well do you do at a bar/club?

 

[.👽.]

Specifically asking those who have experience with both and aren’t incel. Eliminate any status shit like knowing bouncers and bartenders or going with a group of friends. I’m traveling solo around the country. Eliminate status shit for OLD too bc I don’t have good nt pics(pretty antisocial and my old friends are scattered across the country for college). I also won’t be in any one place for long so I won’t be chatting girls up for long and going on dates. Asking about ability to pull girls to hook up first night within a day or two of talking.

Is a 6’1 white, reasonably fit, chadlite, with ok social skills gonna do better with online dating without nt pics or by going to bars/clubs alone?

Curious bc messaging girls is a lot more comfortable given my lack of experience with irl game. Plus my sleep is fucked up so those late nights drinking mess me up pretty badly. Going to clubs is more stressful, intimidating, and a bigger sacrifice to my health and medical recovery. Don’t want to start putting in the nights to get good at it unless it will pay off.

why do you travel alone through the country? just a tourist or smth else?

 

[Deleted member 3556]

why do you travel alone through the country? just a tourist or smth else?

Passing the time while my brain slowly learns how to sleep properly. This is better than rotting at home in a big city with crazy competition on dating apps

 

[.👽.]

Passing the time while my brain slowly learns how to sleep properly. This is better than rotting at home in a big city with crazy competition on dating apps

legit mirin, traveling and enjoying life.

btw i think it depends on you. if you go to a club and stand alone in the corner then u r better off using dating apps tbh. but if you have the balls to talk with unknown people, get tips and shit, try bars? idk never really went out to bars

 

[Deleted member 3556]

Girls approach you, make out with you and are easy to bring back to a place. I had a ONS with some Becky in her dorm after a bar. And yes college is gigadegenerate

Competition is a meme. I know a like 4.5-5 psl max, 5’9 dude who gets approached.

Muh I know a guy

 

[MikeMew'sBitch]

So if you don’t get any girls online how well do you do at a bar/club?

Im 6'1 gymcelled NW2.5 but thick hair (running decent coverup game) 30 yo white and dress mostly high class. Id say im doing pretty good compared to men my age or even slightly younger, most men my age are severely balding or bald, skinny fat or just with big beer belly and unkept appearance. I usually manage to pull 23+ yo fairly attractive but used up women that are not in a big group (group of 3 at most with no guys in the group). I often get IOIs (smiling, staring, compliments on my dressing style) but they usually never develop into anything and just serve as source of validation. Sometimes i get mistaken for a much younger than i really am since my collagen is great due to no long sun exposure for the last 10 years, no alcohol, no smoking and antioxidant maxxing for the last 6 years. You just need to take what you can tbh, if you get a wart infested 29 yo dyke so be it

 

[Niki9911]

I like clubbing more. Just last night I pulled an 18 year old girl from Berlin in a club in Madrid.

Her friend was like: Lol she never makes out with random guys. She finds them all ugly. You are the first. Felt good ngl lmao