Coed friend groups should be avoided

[tenmacel]

Every co ed friend group I've been in/seen is always a massive power struggle for pussy. Say you have a group of 3(min2) normie tier guys and 2+(2-4 in the case of 3) women (the numbers can be however many these are just the categories).

We are assuming everyone here is straight/bisexual (however the beta can be the typical gay best friend)

Guy 1 is the "forced alpha" - he is in the group mainly to get play with the women. He does not have to be desirable, often times he is not exceptionally desirable as he relies on his coed friend group as his leverage. He will be a massive dickhead to the other guys, both subtlely and overtly. Gets play off exploiting social dynamics in the group. Low inhib

Guy 2 is the "beta" - this guy has accepted his place in the hierarchy, he does not have to be desirable or undesirable. He took shit initially from guy 1 and wanted to continue hanging out with the group without having to hassle, so he makes it clear that he is the beta cuck and will go along with whatever happens. Can get play but usually outside of group. Usually high inhib

Guy 3 is the "limbo" - this guy does not want to put up with the shit that guy 1 gives him, however he cannot truly stand up for himself due to a lack of social skills and/or low inhib. This places him in a position between the forced alpha and the beta, where his spot in the group is very stressful. Can get play but exclusively outside of group because he has no real establishment in the middle. High inhib

These groups are so fucking worthless outside of sex imo; if you have female friends you should hang out with them individually or with their/your other female friends, maybe mingle a male and female friend group on a giant hangout but only rarely (you will see a power struggle start in your male group there as well)

If you're a beta ditch the group, if you're in the limbo either find a way to humiliate the forced alpha (he tries to humiliate as a means to be on the hierarchy) and nuke your inhib or ditch the group, none of it is worth it as the foids in it will see you as incapable and thus undesirable

The forced alpha is an interesting position to be in, but exploiting coed social dynamics for pussy is not sustainable outside of school and you need to be a generally horrible person to the other guys

Yes this is sorta redpill content but it's also an important understanding of social dynamics

 

[tenmacel]

I usually leave these groups after 1-2 hangouts because I exist in the limbo as a high inhib autist so I get subject to constant shittesting from other guys and get made fun of. I don't want to put up with shit so I never interact again

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

I have no female friends, all of my friends are male. I wouldn’t have minded if I had a co-ed friend group, though. I can get along fine with anyone in real life, regardless of gender or race.

 

[tenmacel]

I have no female friends, all of my friends are male. I wouldn’t have minded if I had a co-ed friend group, though. I can get along fine with anyone in real life, regardless of gender or race.

You just have to deal with a lot of bullshit in coed friend groups as the guys who are there just to fuck will strive as much as possible to put everyone else down

Also thank u bhai for the rep this means my posts are starting to mean something

 

[IronMike]

Co-Ed friend groups worked out for me. every girl I talked to came from a friend of a friend.


At 31, most of the women I talk to nowadays are coworkers and friends of my friends wife

 

[tenmacel]

Co-Ed friend groups worked out for me. every girl I talked to came from a friend of a friend.


At 31, most of the women I talk to nowadays are coworkers and friends of my friends wife

Coworkers =/= coed friend group
When you're married it's different

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

You just have to deal with a lot of bullshit in coed friend groups as the guys who are there just to fuck will strive as much as possible to put everyone else down

Also thank u bhai for the rep this means my posts are starting to mean something

I do think you are probably right, since men are competitive by nature. You notice the same in any co-ed community; the men are competitive with each other for some puss puss, even e-puss puss.

I would prefer not to deal with that kind of bullshit, so I don’t mind being in a male-only friend group.

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

You just have to deal with a lot of bullshit in coed friend groups as the guys who are there just to fuck will strive as much as possible to put everyone else down

Also thank u bhai for the rep this means my posts are starting to mean something

And no problem, bhaijan.

 

[IronMike]

Coworkers =/= coed friend group
When you're married it's different

how convenient

 

[tenmacel]

And no problem, bhaijan.

Im not indian idk what that means I just know it's endearing

I do think you are probably right, since men are competitive by nature. You notice the same in any co-ed community; the men are competitive with each other for some puss puss, even e-puss puss.

I would prefer not to deal with that kind of bullshit, so I don’t mind being in a male-only friend group.

Yes if u really want platonic relationships with women do so individually

 

[tenmacel]

how convenient

You're providing an exceptional case where a man has a woman "locked down" (maybe) and another case where you guys work together and have to build cohesion not something you voluntarily partake in

 

[logicalpill850]

I don't have any coed friend groups, I do have friends that are girls, idk wtf I'm doing rn but for sm reason I'm in a freshman girl friend group consisting of like 4 girls and they talking bout some "they miss me" 2 of them r kinda of bad, I tried getting with one and I'm pretty sure she liked me at one point but she lwk is boring and her friend pays more attention to me so I may js go for her

 

[tenmacel]

I don't have any coed friend groups, I do have friends that are girls, idk wtf I'm doing rn but for sm reason I'm in a freshman girl friend group consisting of like 4 girls and they talking bout some "they miss me" 2 of them r kinda of bad, I tried getting with one and I'm pretty sure she liked me at one point but she lwk is boring and her friend pays more attention to me so I may js go for her

Gengar and I want to see Gengar circumcised is really funny

U see what I mean tho in that in general with girls even as friends it's better to not involve other guys because that will always lead to intrasexual competition

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

Im not indian idk what that means I just know it's endearing

Yes if u really want platonic relationships with women do so individually

Yes, it’s a term of endearment. Many people use it, it’s South Asian in origin, but not everyone who says it is actually Indian.

Well, I don’t care for relationships with women, regardless of it being platonic or romantic. At this point, I like being by myself.

 

[logicalpill850]

Gengar and I want to see Gengar circumcised is really funny

U see what I mean tho in that in general with girls even as friends it's better to not involve other guys because that will always lead to intrasexual competition

yea no I agree my friend occasionally tags along but doesn't rlly like them

 

[Daniel Larpson JR]

Every co ed friend group I've been in/seen is always a massive power struggle for pussy. Say you have a group of 3(min2) normie tier guys and 2+(2-4 in the case of 3) women (the numbers can be however many these are just the categories).

We are assuming everyone here is straight/bisexual (however the beta can be the typical gay best friend)

Guy 1 is the "forced alpha" - he is in the group mainly to get play with the women. He does not have to be desirable, often times he is not exceptionally desirable as he relies on his coed friend group as his leverage. He will be a massive dickhead to the other guys, both subtlely and overtly. Gets play off exploiting social dynamics in the group. Low inhib

Guy 2 is the "beta" - this guy has accepted his place in the hierarchy, he does not have to be desirable or undesirable. He took shit initially from guy 1 and wanted to continue hanging out with the group without having to hassle, so he makes it clear that he is the beta cuck and will go along with whatever happens. Can get play but usually outside of group. Usually high inhib

Guy 3 is the "limbo" - this guy does not want to put up with the shit that guy 1 gives him, however he cannot truly stand up for himself due to a lack of social skills and/or low inhib. This places him in a position between the forced alpha and the beta, where his spot in the group is very stressful. Can get play but exclusively outside of group because he has no real establishment in the middle. High inhib

These groups are so fucking worthless outside of sex imo; if you have female friends you should hang out with them individually or with their/your other female friends, maybe mingle a male and female friend group on a giant hangout but only rarely (you will see a power struggle start in your male group there as well)

If you're a beta ditch the group, if you're in the limbo either find a way to humiliate the forced alpha (he tries to humiliate as a means to be on the hierarchy) and nuke your inhib or ditch the group, none of it is worth it as the foids in it will see you as incapable and thus undesirable

The forced alpha is an interesting position to be in, but exploiting coed social dynamics for pussy is not sustainable outside of school and you need to be a generally horrible person to the other guys

Yes this is sorta redpill content but it's also an important understanding of social dynamics

Dnr

Long story short dont be friends with foids lmao

 

[tenmacel]

Dnr

Long story short dont be friends with foids lmao

Not what I said but for me yes they're such a pain to interact with