cold approach is the weirdest thing you can do

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i find it problematic, you have to be very mentally ill to think its a good idea
 
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Yeah, that's why no one actually does this in real life..

Either you have the club, or the only thing you can do is go to restaurants/cafes frequently alone/with friends, and wait for a girl/group of girls at another table to look at you, and only then go ask for their number..
 
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Yeah, that's why no one actually does this in real life..

Either you have the club, or the only thing you can do is go to restaurants/cafes frequently alone/with friends, and wait for a girl/group of girls at another table to look at you, and only then go ask for their number..
why the big font? i can read your reply dw
 
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Yeah, that's why no one actually does this in real life..

Either you have the club, or the only thing you can do is go to restaurants/cafes frequently alone/with friends, and wait for a girl/group of girls at another table to look at you, and only then go ask for their number..
I wish i was 18 so i could go to clubs, sounds so fun:Comfy:
 
I wish i was 18 so i could go to clubs, sounds so fun:Comfy:
its full of retarded normies and the music isnt good
 
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go up to girls and talk to them about facial ratios they love it
 
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No respectable girl should be that easy without knowing each other a little at least
 
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i find it problematic, you have to be very mentally ill to think its a good idea
Yeah, that's why no one actually does this in real life..

Either you have the club, or the only thing you can do is go to restaurants/cafes frequently alone/with friends, and wait for a girl/group of girls at another table to look at you, and only then go ask for their number..
Yeah i never got doing it it in a normal public setting (like on a street, in school, in shops etc).. Some girls and men will unironically hit people up in stores and on the street :ogre: Just leave people alone to do their business
 
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No respectable girl should be that easy without knowing each other a little at least
Alot of women aren't "respectable". (You are just a guy in her roster little bro).
Some foid I knew got a number from a guy at work but the only real issue was that he's ugly lol.
 
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no mentally sane man would cold approach either
Unless you're in a similar social setting(uni, gathering) and you act like you want to get to know her. Idk if that's cold approaching tho
 
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Alot of women aren't "respectable". (You are just a guy in her roster little bro).
Some foid I knew got a number from a guy at work but the only real issue was that he's ugly lol.
I know but such types aren't worth getting involved with/"cold approaching" or whatever
 
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or the only thing you can do is go to restaurants/cafes frequently alone/with friends, and wait for a girl/group of girls at another table to look at you, and only then go ask for their number..
That's exactly the same thing + They're a group so even weirder
 
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I think

Theres weirder things

But this is definitely weird
 
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Itโ€™s an interesting topic of debate

Realistically, most men nowadays only get their dating experiences (after age 21) from either online dating or cold/somewhat cold approach. We know how brutal online dating is and I do think that itโ€™s a different league of competition compared to approaching irl, which could somewhat justify it, but of course the environment matters, cold approaches mid day on busy people is retarded and embarrassing
 
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Cold approach works if you get IOIs first. Like if the girl is staring at you, or keeps looking at you.

Itโ€™s only bad when itโ€™s the PUA style where they spam approach every woman even without IOIs.
 
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Itโ€™s an interesting topic of debate

Realistically, most men nowadays only get their dating experiences (after age 21) from either online dating or cold/somewhat cold approach. We know how brutal online dating is and I do think that itโ€™s a different league of competition compared to approaching irl, which could somewhat justify it, but of course the environment matters, cold approaches mid day on busy people is retarded and embarrassing
i dont think anyone should approach at all im mgtow
 
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Chad doesnt cold approach

 
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Most people who slay do not even cold approach like that.

In reality, most people find girls through mutual friends, or through Instagram.

If they do meet a random girl face to face it is in a social setting ( a party or the club ). Where approaching is expected
 
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i dont think anyone should approach at all im mgtow
If youโ€™re happy with the inceldom, all power to you brother jfl, sadly I am still a hopecel dependent on meaningless intimacy
 
i dont think anyone should approach at all im mgtow
MGTOW in the big 2025. I recommend suicide. Not being mean btw. You are just too retarded to justify breathing and taking that oxygen from someone else.
 
If youโ€™re happy with the inceldom, all power to you brother jfl, sadly I am still a hopecel dependent on meaningless intimacy
everyone thinks theyre different lol it will ruin your life.
 
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MGTOW in the big 2025. I recommend suicide. Not being mean btw. You are just too retarded to justify breathing and taking that oxygen from someone else.
loool youre a stupid slave why would i kill myself i simply dont want to interact with foids at all because theyre all evil and retarded
 
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how do i speak to a girl at uni?

we havent talked for a month now but i wanna talk to her and ask her to go to the christmas market
 
foids sometimes approach me first lol

No guy who gets approached by women becomes an MGTOW.

MGTOW is just a coping ideology for divorced fat 40 year old men who can pretend they are rejecting women when no woman on earth is interested in him.

All the MGTOW channels on YouTube are old fat bald men coping. Like hammerhand for example.

 
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No guy who gets approached by women becomes an MGTOW.

MGTOW is just a coping ideology for divorced fat 40 year old men who can pretend they are rejecting women when no woman on earth is interested in him.
lol no i shoudlve specified its not the type of women i like and besides theyre all evil anyways. my current objective looks level isnt enough i just look unique and thats why im approached more often
 

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