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After 28 years on this Earth, I finally decided to approach a girl.

On my way to work, in the train I see this girl constantly glancing at me. MTB, Indian girl but she had green eyes. Looked insane.

I must've caught her like 10 times looking at me - I have been leanmaxxing pretty hard recently and I'm looking the best I have in a while.

Somehow I just made the decision I was gonna talk to her. I even stayed on the train way past my stop, just waiting for her to get off jfl.

I just said "excuse me" - she takes out her airpods. "Just wanted to say you have beautiful eyes" She said thank you and smiled. We spoke a little bit more, but eventually she said that she's currently talking to someone else. I just said no worries and started walking away, but she did ask me to have a nice day at the end and smiled. She didn't seem disgusted, so fuck it, some progress was made.

I'm at like 15% bf atm, gunning for 10. The last time I hit 10%, I had the hottest girl in my workplace simping for me, hopefully the same happens again.
 
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After 28 years on this Earth, I finally decided to approach a girl.

On my way to work, in the train I see this girl constantly glancing at me. MTB, Indian girl but she had green eyes. Looked insane.

I must've caught her like 10 times looking at me - I have been leanmaxxing pretty hard recently and I'm looking the best I have in a while.

Somehow I just made the decision I was gonna talk to her. I even stayed on the train way past my stop, just waiting for her to get off jfl.

I just said "excuse me" - she takes out her airpods. "Just wanted to say you have beautiful eyes" She said thank you and smiled. We spoke a little bit more, but eventually she said that she's currently talking to someone else. I just said no worries and started walking away, but she did ask me to have a nice day at the end and smiled. She didn't seem disgusted, so fuck it, some progress was made.

I'm at like 15% bf atm, gunning for 10. The last time I hit 10%, I had the hottest girl in my workplace simping for me, hopefully the same happens again.
Good.
 
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Mirin, brown/ lightskin girls with green eyes are my kryptonite:feelswhy:
 
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Not bad at all. :sneaky:

You'll get one next time. :D
 
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Appreciate that m'dawg

Mirin, brown/ lightskin girls with green eyes are my kryptonite:feelswhy:

Yeah lol I couldn't believe it. Ultra rare combination, especially in my area. I think my age might've put her off, cause she was 21. I was hoping she'd be older. Girls are cautious about age gaps nowadays
 
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Good for you G
 
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Mirin, brown/ lightskin girls with green eyes are my kryptonite:feelswhy:
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Mirin
 
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@Jatt thoughts penchod. She was Sikh too wearing Kadha
 
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I wouldn't be able to hold a conversation with her since I would just be stuttering constantly.
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yeah shes probably the only one not deserving of being raped mutilated dismembered and buried in various different dig spots in the forest. I'd prolly just creepshot her on some calm shit :Comfy:
 
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After 28 years on this Earth, I finally decided to approach a girl.

On my way to work, in the train I see this girl constantly glancing at me. MTB, Indian girl but she had green eyes. Looked insane.

I must've caught her like 10 times looking at me - I have been leanmaxxing pretty hard recently and I'm looking the best I have in a while.

Somehow I just made the decision I was gonna talk to her. I even stayed on the train way past my stop, just waiting for her to get off jfl.

I just said "excuse me" - she takes out her airpods. "Just wanted to say you have beautiful eyes" She said thank you and smiled. We spoke a little bit more, but eventually she said that she's currently talking to someone else. I just said no worries and started walking away, but she did ask me to have a nice day at the end and smiled. She didn't seem disgusted, so fuck it, some progress was made.

I'm at like 15% bf atm, gunning for 10. The last time I hit 10%, I had the hottest girl in my workplace simping for me, hopefully the same happens again.
Mogs me I just can’t get the courage to even talk to a random women
@Jatt thoughts penchod. She was Sikh too wearing Kadha
Don Ramon Agree GIF by Grupo Chespirito
 
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Dm your pics to assess
 
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Mogs me I just can’t get the courage to even talk to a random women

Don Ramon Agree GIF by Grupo Chespirito

It was scary icl. My heart was pounding like crazy. I've never felt that pressured in my life
 
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Happy for U bhai :feelsokman:
 
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It was scary icl. My heart was pounding like crazy. I've never felt that pressured in my life
I’m only gonna start to cold approach once I get rhino
 
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I’m only gonna start to cold approach once I get rhino

I need rhino too. And otoplasty. But parents won't let me, jfl.
 
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After 28 years on this Earth, I finally decided to approach a girl.

On my way to work, in the train I see this girl constantly glancing at me. MTB, Indian girl but she had green eyes. Looked insane.

I must've caught her like 10 times looking at me - I have been leanmaxxing pretty hard recently and I'm looking the best I have in a while.

Somehow I just made the decision I was gonna talk to her. I even stayed on the train way past my stop, just waiting for her to get off jfl.

I just said "excuse me" - she takes out her airpods. "Just wanted to say you have beautiful eyes" She said thank you and smiled. We spoke a little bit more, but eventually she said that she's currently talking to someone else. I just said no worries and started walking away, but she did ask me to have a nice day at the end and smiled. She didn't seem disgusted, so fuck it, some progress was made.

I'm at like 15% bf atm, gunning for 10. The last time I hit 10%, I had the hottest girl in my workplace simping for me, hopefully the same happens again.
nice man, insane progress.

dudes genuinely don't realise that they could pull until their first ever cold approach, best method i've figured out is meeting them through mutual friends and just conversing with them before going for her, usually softens them up
 
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nice man, insane progress.

dudes genuinely don't realise that they could pull until their first ever cold approach, best method i've figured out is meeting them through mutual friends and just conversing with them before going for her, usually softens them up

Thanks man. And yeah, ideally I'd find girls through social circles, but unfortunately I have no friends.
 
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Thanks man. And yeah, ideally I'd find girls through social circles, but unfortunately I have no friends.
what social circles are you involved in currently? like college, communities etc.
 
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if she doesnt want u at 15% bf then she isnt gonna want u at 10% hell get to 1% bf if u want , this is all cope at the end of the day . if u were gl u coulda pulled even at 20%
 
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After 28 years on this Earth, I finally decided to approach a girl.

On my way to work, in the train I see this girl constantly glancing at me. MTB, Indian girl but she had green eyes. Looked insane.

I must've caught her like 10 times looking at me - I have been leanmaxxing pretty hard recently and I'm looking the best I have in a while.

Somehow I just made the decision I was gonna talk to her. I even stayed on the train way past my stop, just waiting for her to get off jfl.

I just said "excuse me" - she takes out her airpods. "Just wanted to say you have beautiful eyes" She said thank you and smiled. We spoke a little bit more, but eventually she said that she's currently talking to someone else. I just said no worries and started walking away, but she did ask me to have a nice day at the end and smiled. She didn't seem disgusted, so fuck it, some progress was made.

I'm at like 15% bf atm, gunning for 10. The last time I hit 10%, I had the hottest girl in my workplace simping for me, hopefully the same happens again.
Good for you bro
 
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experience and progress is everything if you keep at it you’ll be able to strike a conversation with anyone and make them like you
 
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what social circles are you involved in currently? like college, communities etc.

None really, I just go to work or gym and come back home. I need to join some sports clubs or something. There's a website called Meetup, they do social events for singles and shit, I might have to go to one of those

if she doesnt want u at 15% bf then she isnt gonna want u at 10% hell get to 1% bf if u want , this is all cope at the end of the day . if u were gl u coulda pulled even at 20%

I'm one of those people who stores a lot of fat in their face unfortunately. Between 20 and 10% bf I look like a totally different person.
 
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None really, I just go to work or gym and come back home. I need to join some sports clubs or something. There's a website called Meetup, they do social events for singles and shit, I might have to go to one of those



I'm one of those people who stores a lot of fat in their face unfortunately. Between 20 and 10% bf I look like a totally different person.
maybe try find a co worker that a dude and just go for drinks, or even talk to people in the gym. Or even give one of those meetups a try.

don't listen to that other nigger hes too nd
 
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Cucky approach, but good job actually approaching and forcing the issue
 
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. There's a website called Meetup, they do social events for singles and shit, I might have to go to one of those
1st person organ harvester simulator
 
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ngl I didn't expect to find a thread about basic bitch approaches on this website. Stay out of my sight if you don't want to waste your time here like most of the newfags. Go back to tinder or whatever and leave us vets alone jfl. anyway, just stay leanmaxx and build up your confidence so you can confidently say "hey" next time instead of being a scared little virgin lol.
 
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After 28 years on this Earth, I finally decided to approach a girl.

On my way to work, in the train I see this girl constantly glancing at me. MTB, Indian girl but she had green eyes. Looked insane.

I must've caught her like 10 times looking at me - I have been leanmaxxing pretty hard recently and I'm looking the best I have in a while.

Somehow I just made the decision I was gonna talk to her. I even stayed on the train way past my stop, just waiting for her to get off jfl.

I just said "excuse me" - she takes out her airpods. "Just wanted to say you have beautiful eyes" She said thank you and smiled. We spoke a little bit more, but eventually she said that she's currently talking to someone else. I just said no worries and started walking away, but she did ask me to have a nice day at the end and smiled. She didn't seem disgusted, so fuck it, some progress was made.

I'm at like 15% bf atm, gunning for 10. The last time I hit 10%, I had the hottest girl in my workplace simping for me, hopefully the same happens again.
If u looked better she would of given u that number
 
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mirin cant even approach a girl myself
 
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Mirin nigga :feelsgood:
 
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Chad in and outside the forum.. that's crazy..

She probably looked like this..




Meanwhile, my approaches be like.. :feelswhat:

 
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OP is prepared for 2026 incelcon in new delhi.
 
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maybe try find a co worker that a dude and just go for drinks, or even talk to people in the gym. Or even give one of those meetups a try.

don't listen to that other nigger hes too nd

Yeah gonna try and be more outgoing. Time's running out for me anyway. Thanks for the advice bro.
 
Chad in and outside the forum.. that's crazy..

She probably looked like this..


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Meanwhile, my approaches be like.. :feelswhat:

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Yeah she looked like that girl, really similar. Maybe the best eyes I've ever seen on an Indian girl.

JFL I'm glad she didn't act disgusted at me. She seemed pretty receptive. Good base to build on. Will report on the next approach
 
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Mirin. You broke the cold approach hymen.
 
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if she doesnt want u at 15% bf then she isnt gonna want u at 10% hell get to 1% bf if u want , this is all cope at the end of the day . if u were gl u coulda pulled even at 20%
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After 28 years on this Earth, I finally decided to approach a girl.

On my way to work, in the train I see this girl constantly glancing at me. MTB, Indian girl but she had green eyes. Looked insane.

I must've caught her like 10 times looking at me - I have been leanmaxxing pretty hard recently and I'm looking the best I have in a while.

Somehow I just made the decision I was gonna talk to her. I even stayed on the train way past my stop, just waiting for her to get off jfl.

I just said "excuse me" - she takes out her airpods. "Just wanted to say you have beautiful eyes" She said thank you and smiled. We spoke a little bit more, but eventually she said that she's currently talking to someone else. I just said no worries and started walking away, but she did ask me to have a nice day at the end and smiled. She didn't seem disgusted, so fuck it, some progress was made.

I'm at like 15% bf atm, gunning for 10. The last time I hit 10%, I had the hottest girl in my workplace simping for me, hopefully the same happens again.
good for you
 
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Lean is lawww
But i hate seeing naso folds when i get super lean like under 10%
Damn bro that sucks

I don’t have exact naso folds, they are more like smile lines I think. It’s just a puffy area above the nostrils that doesn’t extend under the nose.

But it only gets bad if I get bloated of start getting fat, when I’m lean it’s smooth as fuck.

So even more incentive to be shredded, it descends me when I get them.

@chadisbeingmade you have a similar thing as me I think, didn’t you?
 
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But it only gets bad if I get bloated of start getting fat, when I’m lean it’s smooth as fuck.

So even more incentive to be shredded, it descends me when I get them.

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chadisbeingmade
@chadisbeingmade you have a similar thing as me I think, didn’t you?
Mine get worse the higher bf I am and less the leaner I get. Pretty sure it’s due to deeper canine fossa. The “types of hollows” you get from deep vs shallow canine fossa posts are a meme, it’s purely lighting.
 
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Mine get worse the higher bf I am and less the leaner I get. Pretty sure it’s due to deeper canine fossa. The “types of hollows” you get from deep vs shallow canine fossa posts are a meme, it’s purely lighting.
Yeah its visible in shitty downcasted light also mine looks purley due to elastin loss , not recession etc . Hopefully i can fix that with microneedling @powerliftercoco
 
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