Cold approaching in 2026

[IDontBlameAnybody]

Has any of you genuinely tried it outside clubs like in everyday setting on the streets?

Like genuine experiences. I'm so lonely and depressed rn, I'm just thinking about getting high on pregab and baclofen and going out there to just cold approach. If I get rejected so fucking be it, I'll come back and whine here, but at least I'll know I fucking tried lol.

So any experiences?

 

[Klasik616]

I got rejected every time, sooner or later. It's a waste of time, women don't want strangers. The only thing I not regret is that I've talked a bit with my crushes (some rejected me and others ghosted me).

 

[AlbanianSlayer]

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

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Fuck haha I need to become a pickup artist ig

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

I got rejected every time, sooner or later. It's a waste of time, women don't want strangers.

How many times did you try approximately?

 

[Neurotypical ghost]

I just got completely ghosted by a older woman I cold approached in the bus a week ago and we had a lot of chemistry

Eveyrtome I had cold approached I've got straight up rejected or worse they hand me their ig just to never text back

 

[Sizl]

go for it the only thing that guarantees failure is not trying

 

[Hypergam0us]

easy in groups, just make friends, be young and attractive and there will be a time and place.

 

[Dolorous]

 

[DarkAscender]

Worst places to meet women. Cold approaches in public is almost guaranteed to fail. You gotta go somewhere cafe, club, bar, something.

Went clubbing solo and met this one dj girl she wants to go this festival together tmrw.

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

easy in groups, just make friends, be young and attractive and there will be a time and place.

yes yes just 1 more surgery and I'm ready (I said that 3 surgeries ago)

No haha but actually yeah I'll fucking try it I don't have nothing to lose anyways ig.

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

Worst places to meet women. U gotta go somewhere cafe, club, bar, something.

Went clubbing solo and met this one girl she wants to go this festival together tmrw.

How drunk were you?

 

[Johnmogs2145]

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average org gc

 

[Hypergam0us]

yes yes just 1 more surgery and I'm ready (I said that 3 surgeries ago)

No haha but actually yeah I'll fucking try it I don't have nothing to lose anyways ig.

getting surgery and still not htn is brutal

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

average org gc

All fun and games till you catch your girl cheating with one of them

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

getting surgery and still not htn is brutal

Ig having no understanding at all how surgery works is even more brutal

 

[DarkAscender]

How drunk were you?

Had like 3 shot of some liquor at home 30% alc. Then a glass of regular beer, so decently sober. Just had a nice ~1 hr convo and asked deep questions

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

getting surgery and still not htn is brutal

One day I'll be a jacked HTN just like you bhai

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

getting surgery and still not htn is brutal

Why did the dog just DNR you
Nice dog btw

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

go for it the only thing that guarantees failure is not trying

If she rejects me I'll keep hysterically following her and asking why while squinting and doing the sigma face

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

Had like 3 shot of some liquor at home 30% alc. Then a glass of regular beer, so decently sober. Just had a nice ~1 hr convo and asked deep questions

Cold Approaching when sober sounds like surgery without anesthesia lol

Anyways I have to go for it, I've done approaching at clubs and festivals and I've been decently successful, but it never lead to dating or anything like that.

 

[Klasik616]

How many times did you try approximately?

10, only girls who were in places where I used to go like college or gym.

 

[DarkAscender]

Cold Approaching when sober sounds like surgery without anesthesia lol

Anyways I have to go for it, I've done approaching at clubs and festivals and I've been decently successful, but it never lead to dating or anything like that.

Everything moves rlly fast there u gotta do something right after or prepare to not see them again.

I’d say I was decently sober, not drunk or anything. Ive never heard of any friend approaching a random girl on the street and getting together from that. Most likely party, class or through friends

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

Everything moves rlly fast there u gotta do something right after or prepare to not see them again.

I’d say I was decently sober, not drunk or anything. Ive never heard of any friend approaching a random girl on the street and getting together from that. Most likely party, class or through friends

Well when stuff that works for normal people doesn't work for you, then you need to try shit that they don't I feel like...

Or maybe I'm just too ugly