Cold approaching/random slaying- tips and experience?

[Deleted member 12216]

Super horny rn, I think I got the looks for cold approaching. Any tips? I thought about getting a little drunk and approaching some random gl girls on street. I'm pretty high inhib naturally but I am desperate this time.

Thoughts, tips and experience welcomed

 

[Deleted member 13367]

Not going to work probably

 

[Deleted member 12216]

Not going to work probably

Then it will work another day.

 

[ugly-but-optimistic]

you need to have a thick skin. or willing to get one. its a brutal game

but heaps of fun and will improve your skills faster than any other avenue, hands down

focus on lone girls not groups, keep it low key and dont do that dumb shit they show in pua videos

 

[Deleted member 12216]

you need to have a thick skin. or willing to get one. its a brutal game

but heaps of fun and will improve your skills faster than any other avenue, hands down

focus on lone girls not groups, keep it low key and dont do that dumb shit they show in pua videos

Good answer, thanks a lot

 

[ugly-but-optimistic]

nps. i did a lot of daytime actually. killed fewer than 1%, but doesnt matter. many of the other 99%+ were fun to talk to and taught me heaps about psychology, socialising, etc.

 

[PURE ARYAN GENETICS]

sounds good in theory (you pick whoever you like and not cuck around for months like a normalfag) but very hard in practice. much higher success rate if you can pick foids that have at least seen you a couple dozen times and/or given iois. may work somewhat reliably with college sluts if you're low inhib enough and/or mog hard enough. I'd recommend low inhib social circle game over it any day of the week tbh (unless chad). that can ascend subhumans even as long as you have a few redeeming features

 

[Deleted member 12270]

Have fun playing Tinder in real life

 

[Random]

how did it go

 

[TheAnomaly]

If your GL just do Tinder.
Club/bars
Flirt with baristas, clerks at convenience stores and such.

 

[Deleted member 7725]

How'd it go? Any numbers?

 

[Deleted member 12216]

how did it go

How'd it go? Any numbers?

Didn't see any hot women on the street, will go out this weekend again and then answer you guys

 

[eduardkoopman]

you need to have a thick skin. or willing to get one. its a brutal game

true that

but heaps of fun and will improve your skills faster than any other avenue, hands down

Agree, except the "heaps of fun" part. because I found it more annoying and irritatating overal.

 

[ugly-but-optimistic]

yea its true, its not fun for a while

but it grows on you. or at least for me. i got addicted to it

 

[Deusmaximus]

If you dont do well on tinder/instagram, forget about real life. Every single girl that is down to meet guys, has a handy full of attractive fuckboys, and is also on instagram/tinder.

 

[Booker]

A good tip i can give is to not try to impress a girl when you first start. It puts pressure on you which in return will make you behave weird. You can literally just be honest about your intention and just be yourself. Talk calm, talk chill, not tryharding to be confident. A little bit of smalltalk, and then just a "hey i know this comes out of nowhere but i think you are cute and i would like to see you this weekend". Then you just smile and wait for her response. Its also called "shy guy" game. The good thing is it takes away all pressure from you which makes it easier for you. And because you are just honest and nice about the whole thing a girl will almost always reject you in a nice way. She'll probably appreciate you too.
Obviously dont do this if you are ugly

 

[Booker]

Its not the best way to day game but it allows you to just get into it without any effort. Unless you have serious issues talking to strangers you can start doing this at any time.
Example what i did was just ask a girl randomly "hey, know where i can buy wine glasses?" with a small smile and a chill voice. "Yeah i bhought wine for a birthday but i just cant find wine glasses xD". So she tries to give you tips (almost all women seem to like wine), you talk random shit about wine for a couple seconds, i just smile and then tell her my intentions and why i actually approached her. The rejection is almost always nice and friendly (dont try to approach a girl who looks like a annoying bitch), i just smile and say "thats fine, take it as a compliment" and just leave. I dont do day game at all but this was fucking easy for me.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Approach girls who make eye contact (not just a random glance) with you and/or smile

 

[Deleted member 14274]

If you dont do well on tinder/instagram, forget about real life. Every single girl that is down to meet guys, has a handy full of attractive fuckboys, and is also on instagram/tinder.

Go out more

 

[Deleted member 14274]

You can cold approach at bars and clubs. During the day only if you get IOIs.

 

[Deleted member 12216]

Approach girls who make eye contact (not just a random glance) with you and/or smile

Yeah that is the way. And if you don't get any eye contact you know you are just not quite there in terms of looks

 

[Deleted member 12216]

You can cold approach at bars and clubs. During the day only if you get IOIs.

Just need some friends to go at bars or clubs with.... most of my friends are high inhib and don't go out.

 

[Lawton88]

Never did it much and didn't have too much luck when I did years ago. I just wait for clear signals at bars they are interested now. If they are interested they will usually give signs that they are. I think cold approaching outside of bars and places like that is a waste of time for non-Chads for the most part.

 

[Deleted member 14274]

Just need some friends to go at bars or clubs with.... most of my friends are high inhib and don't go out.

Go out alone and talk to girls

 

[Deleted member 14274]

Yeah that is the way. And if you don't get any eye contact you know you are just not quite there in terms of looks

Wrong. They could have a boyfriend, have stuff do do that day, be stressed, or a million other things. Don’t take it personally you’re not gonna bang every girl regardless of how good you look.

 

[randomuser2407]

Didn't see any hot women on the street, will go out this weekend again and then answer you guys

Most of them hang out in groups.

Honestly, most of your success will come randomly from women who check you out.

If no women are checking you out, then you need to looksmax first.

Before I got my jaw surgery, I had very few opportunities with women, then it improved dramatically but even now it's not enough because without a muscular physique, I am forced to rely on IRL approaches and there aren't many places to go for that right now.

Looksmaxxing should be your main focus and try to detect if women like you based on social cues.