alexthegoat
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I have finished 10th (High School) and will soon get into 11th-12th (College) in a few months
I, at the moment, have no clue what to do.
to put it organized:
What To Expect: I'm sure there will be dozens of better looking guys in college (HLTN-LMTN BASE currently) but i wont let that bring me down: im planning to work out during the duration, maximize my looks and other goals.
How I Act: I'm not sure how i should act in college. as in how i should talk to people, show or how i should put an impression. yes looks give a good start, but in the long-term, how am i supposed to make friends as the stereotypical ''introverted loser who can't socialize''.
Talking To Girls: one of, if not the biggest, problems ive had growing up has been talking to 'females'. it seems corny and fake but i genuinely have not had a single conversation with a girl outside my family. i rarely even talk to girls INSIDE my family; usually my mom, sisters or aunts, etc. im not sure how to talk properly due to this exposure.
it's pretty short honestly,
I know there will be some trolls or DNRcells in the replies but i hope a few actual people give me solid advice or anything related to helping with my situation.
anyone with similar college experiences, i would love advice on how you guys got out of this or if you've already been better it'll still help, thank you.
I, at the moment, have no clue what to do.
to put it organized:
What To Expect: I'm sure there will be dozens of better looking guys in college (HLTN-LMTN BASE currently) but i wont let that bring me down: im planning to work out during the duration, maximize my looks and other goals.
How I Act: I'm not sure how i should act in college. as in how i should talk to people, show or how i should put an impression. yes looks give a good start, but in the long-term, how am i supposed to make friends as the stereotypical ''introverted loser who can't socialize''.
Talking To Girls: one of, if not the biggest, problems ive had growing up has been talking to 'females'. it seems corny and fake but i genuinely have not had a single conversation with a girl outside my family. i rarely even talk to girls INSIDE my family; usually my mom, sisters or aunts, etc. im not sure how to talk properly due to this exposure.
it's pretty short honestly,
I know there will be some trolls or DNRcells in the replies but i hope a few actual people give me solid advice or anything related to helping with my situation.
anyone with similar college experiences, i would love advice on how you guys got out of this or if you've already been better it'll still help, thank you.
