Common mistakes men make during dating phase

[Ältai.Anabolic]

When a girl have shown a man ioi and chasing him. When they are apart let's say after the date. Most men instinctively think if I don't text her she will loses interest or I must text her to maintain attraction.


Actually unfortunately, it is counter opposite. As especially during beginning stage you want to make her wondering, uncertain about your feelings towards her. Aka my terms u call it be mysterious.

But by doing daily texting to maintain, now you provide certainty, and she doesn't have to wondering or anticipating from you anymore. It's like seeing your texts become annoyance instead of dopamine spike waiting from your text.

 

[FunnyVALENTINE]

 

[Ältai.Anabolic]

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[Ältai.Anabolic]

 

[abr0812]

interesting, might try this out when i get to date and experience young love

 

[Seven]

1) being serious

 

[unfortunatehobbies]

actually very conflicted about this theory - some girls are big texters, some are not, but i use their texting intensity as a proxy for their interest.

1-2 dates in, it's still so hard to tell if they are into you and whether you should drop or remain invested (no matter how little investment, it's still some bandwidth being occupied). counterpoint: what if they are waiting for some ioi from you?

i did make a mistake a couple days ago of saying 'i like you and i want to make this work' to a girl i've been on one date with

 

[Ältai.Anabolic]

1) being serious

Opposite, you have to be unaffected by her game as much as possible if she intentionally pullback to test you. If you know, don't confront, act normal as always.

actually very conflicted about this theory - some girls are big texters, some are not, but i use their texting intensity as a proxy for their interest.

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1-2 dates in, it's still so hard to tell if they are into you and whether you should drop or remain invested (no matter how little investment, it's still some bandwidth being occupied). counterpoint: what if they are waiting for some ioi from you?

i did make a mistake a couple days ago of saying 'i like you and i want to make this work' to a girl i've been on one date with

Retard, dating and relationship is a power game. "I like you" = you are higher value than me, now I am the one chasing you.