Confidence in people who are not attractive

[dionbsant]

Does confidence really matter ? the truth​

My friend wrote this whole thing today and gave it to me while at school.
Tell me what you guys think.

Confidence doesn't naturally come as it is learned, developed or shaped. It's not instinctual it's developmental and there can be contributing factors to shape the way we do or don't have confidence. My friend mentions the fact that how he thinks that 50% of less attractive people tend to be under the impression that only confidence matters, and that the other 50% is just insecure with how they look. He drew a chart with how he thinks confidence levels work. Usually people who are less attractive tend to see flaws within themselves, finding ways to cope such as blaming: genetics, environmental factors and habits you grow up with. They usually like to post themselves with filters on, hiding their insecurities and trying to cope by making them seem prettier or more handsome than they usually are. Less attractive people who have "confidence" will usually post themselves more due to the fact that they WANT to feel handsome or attractive. END

Notes: I think my friend is completely right in the sense that confidence works. But I believe it only works until someone judges you too brutally and snaps you back into reality that you ARE ugly.

Let me know what you guys think

 

[Bryce]

Confidence isn't something you learn or play the part of, it's something you have because you're tall and good looking and have had years of confirmation to back it up

 

[Zeekie]

I completely believe the best method for confidence, attractive or not, is just to be completely delusional and self-absorbed, believe it or not, you can kinda train yourself for that.

 

[browncurrycel]

Confidence is the result of the positive feedback loop that white Chad gets from the time he is born

 

[dionbsant]

I completely believe the best method for confidence, attractive or not, is just to be completely delusional and self-absorbed, believe it or not, you can kinda train yourself for that.

i think that is completely true
no wonder why ugly bitches at my school have such a high ego

 

[dionbsant]

Confidence is the result of the positive feedback loop that white Chad gets from the time he is born

great way to think about it

 

[Bryce]

I completely believe the best method for confidence, attractive or not, is just to be completely delusional and self-absorbed, believe it or not, you can kinda train yourself for that.

You can train YOURSELF to be confident, but nobody will reciprocate the same behavior as they would say, a tall and attractive person who is nonchalant and doesn't give a fuck about anything

 

[slaters]

Well confidence is certainly better than being insecure whether your sub5 or chad so

 

[disillusioned]

Confidence isn't something you learn or play the part of, it's something you have because you're tall and good looking and have had years of confirmation to back it up

This.

'Charisma' is largely a myth. Tall height + good looks + lucky voice halo = 'charisma'

 

[dionbsant]

You can train YOURSELF to be confident, but nobody will reciprocate the same behavior as they would say, a tall and attractive person who is nonchalant and doesn't give a fuck about anything

attractive ppl have it easier

 

[dionbsant]

Well confidence is certainly better than being insecure whether your sub5 or chad so

hhaha true

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Does confidence really matter ? the truth​

My friend wrote this whole thing today and gave it to me while at school.
Tell me what you guys think.

Confidence doesn't naturally come as it is learned, developed or shaped. It's not instinctual it's developmental and there can be contributing factors to shape the way we do or don't have confidence. My friend mentions the fact that how he thinks that 50% of less attractive people tend to be under the impression that only confidence matters, and that the other 50% is just insecure with how they look. He drew a chart with how he thinks confidence levels work. Usually people who are less attractive tend to see flaws within themselves, finding ways to cope such as blaming: genetics, environmental factors and habits you grow up with. They usually like to post themselves with filters on, hiding their insecurities and trying to cope by making them seem prettier or more handsome than they usually are. Less attractive people who have "confidence" will usually post themselves more due to the fact that they WANT to feel handsome or attractive. END

Notes: I think my friend is completely right in the sense that confidence works. But I believe it only works until someone judges you too brutally and snaps you back into reality that you ARE ugly.

Let me know what you guys think

Fuck that shit. Your friend don't know what he's talking about. Confidence is genetic, and I got it baby...

Let me tell ya all something. I'm confident! If anyone on here has a low self esteem you can rent my ego. Nobody on here has a bigger sense of entitlement than me. Negative feedback? Nigga please. I'm 37 years old. I'm gonna have what I wanna have in this life. Doesn't matter what anyone says about me. I get what I want out of any relationship and impose on people that don't like me. Judge me brutally face to face if you want to bitches. I'll still have you eating out of the palm of my hand after everything's said and done.

 

[dionbsant]

Fuck that shit. Your friend don't know what he's talking about. Confidence is genetic, and I got it baby...

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Let me tell ya all something. I'm confident! If anyone on here has a low self esteem you can rent my ego. Nobody on here has a bigger sense of entitlement than me. Negative feedback? Nigga please. I'm 37 years old. I'm gonna have what I wanna have in this life. Doesn't matter what anyone says about me. I get what I want out of any relationship and impose on people that don't like me. Judge me brutally face to face if you want to bitches. I'll still have you eating out of my hand after everything's said and done.

take your ego and go to the gym

 

[dionbsant]

Fuck that shit. Your friend don't know what he's talking about. Confidence is genetic, and I got it baby...

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Let me tell ya all something. I'm confident! If anyone on here has a low self esteem you can rent my ego. Nobody on here has a bigger sense of entitlement than me. Negative feedback? Nigga please. I'm 37 years old. I'm gonna have what I wanna have in this life. Doesn't matter what anyone says about me. I get what I want out of any relationship and impose on people that don't like me. Judge me brutally face to face if you want to bitches. I'll still have you eating out of the palm of my hand after everything's said and done.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

take your ego and go to the gym

I'm too gangsta to be doing that type of shit. And besides, why would I want to join a bunch of people who got low confidence in activities that people with low confidence do?

 

[dionbsant]

I'm too gangsta to be doing that type of shit. And besides, why would I want to join a bunch of people who got low confidence in activities that people with low confidence do?

at least they have the courage to improve themselves and not send pictures of their fat ass body to a 16 year old

 

[Lefty Rankin]

at least they have the courage to improve themselves and not send pictures of their fat ass body to a 16 year old

They seem desperate to me, not at all courageous. The thing about me is I got the confidence to try and do the sort of things they only would once they're improved. I don't need to go to the gym to have enough confidence to walk up to your oneitis naked and ask her to borrow a lighter for my cigarette.

 

[dionbsant]

They seem desperate to me, not at all courageous. The thing about me is I got the confidence to try and do the sort of things they only would once they're improve. I don't need to go to the gym to have enough confidence to walk up to your oneitis naked and ask her to borrow a lighter for my cigarette.

i have the confidence to know that i make more money then your whole bloodline has ever seen

 

[Lefty Rankin]

i have the confidence to know that i make more money then your whole bloodline has ever seen

Maybe true and maybe not. I highly doubt it. Whatever the case, triple whatever money you got and it still wouldn't stop me from having my way with your girl if I fancied her.

 

[dionbsant]

They seem desperate to me, not at all courageous. The thing about me is I got the confidence to try and do the sort of things they only would once they're improved. I don't need to go to the gym to have enough confidence to walk up to your oneitis naked and ask her to borrow a lighter for my cigarette.

Maybe true and maybe not. I highly doubt it. Whatever the case, triple whatever money you got and it still wouldn't stop me from having my way with your girl if I fancied her.

niga she would kill herself to the sight of you

 

[dionbsant]

Maybe true and maybe not. I highly doubt it. Whatever the case, triple whatever money you got and it still wouldn't stop me from having my way with your girl if I fancied her.

doubt it now?

 

[Lefty Rankin]

niga she would kill herself to the sight of you

Nah, I think you would be the one that went home and killed himself after seeing how she responds to me interacting with her.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

doubt it now?

I can't read that stuff. How much money does it say you've got?

 

[dionbsant]

I can't read that stuff. How much money does it say you've got?

450k

 

[dionbsant]

Nah, I think you would be the one that went home and killed himself after seeing how she responds to me interacting with her.

the only response you would get is
get away from yoy fat pig

 

[Lefty Rankin]

450k

Well you could have all the money in the world.

It's still not gonna mog this haircut mother fucker. This haircut or these teeth.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

the only response you would get is
get away from yoy fat pig

My experience with women tells me different. A bitch three times hotter than her would be sprung on me after just one afternoon in my presence if that's what I wanted.

 

[dionbsant]

Well you could have all the money in the world.

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It's still not gonna mog this haircut mother fucker. This haircut or these teeth.

u need some money to get ur teeth fixed bro? lmk ill send u some

 

[Lefty Rankin]

u need some money to get ur teeth fixed bro? lmk ill send u some

Don't worry about it. I could just be having your girlfriend send me all the money you waste on her. I love my teeth the way they are.

These are a man's teeth.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

u need some money to get ur teeth fixed bro? lmk ill send u some

Anyways I already have all the money I need working at Panda Bear Express.

 

[Latinus]

This.

'Charisma' is largely a myth. Tall height + good looks + lucky voice halo = 'charisma'

Nope, charisma does exist. There are many people that try, try, but they will never be charismatic, regardless of being good looking or not. And I've seen many people saying that person X, celebrity Y is good looking, but (s)he has no charisma, and as we say here: "sem sal".

And the idea that only good looking people are seeing as charismatic is stupid as fuck, tons of normies comment on how certain mtn people irradiate charisma. You guys need to take chad's cock out of your mind.