Contradictory requirements - ie mind games to make you doubt yourself

[Deleted member 10413]

We all know women really care about looks. But they try to pretend to be deeper, to really care about personality. Maybe for a long term relationship personality is important, but without the spark of initial attraction there will never be a relationship to begin with.

Since women need to find false excuses to find a man attractive or not, we find contradictions and double-standards all over the place. The difference between the qualities listed below are vague, and yet women say these are the qualities they do and do not find attractive.

Good (handsome)	Bad (ugly)
Confident	Arrogant
Sensitive	Wimpy, moody
Chivalrous	Chauvinistic
Puts effort into appearance	Vain
Honest	TMI
Helpful	Tries to "fix" women
Masculine	(Toxic) Masculinity
Forthright about sexuality	Treats women like sex-objects

Gentle lover	Boring lover
Takes it slow	Doesn't make the first move
Feminist	Not masculine
Takes charge	Sexist
Safe	Boring
Caring	Tries too hard to please
Agreeable	Push-over
Engages emotionally	Overly dramatic
Attentive	Clingy
Protective	Jealous & Sexist

Communicative	Prying & overly emotional
Makes the first move	Doesn't respect boundaries
Live in the moment	Irresponsible
Wealthy	Materialistic
Bad boy	Bad man

Muscular	Insecure body dysphoria
Open to serious relationship	Moves too fast, pushy
Smart	Nerdy
Content	Unambitious
Unique	Weird
Treats mom well	Momma's boy
Doesn't cheat	Not attractive to other women
Humble	Insecure

I found this somewhere but I can't give credit because the website is blocked so rip

 

[Deleted member 4019]

Dnrd

 

[Deleted member 10413]

Dnrd

Didn't ask

 

[Deleted member 10413]

@goat2x @defaya
You two seem to understand this place much better than me.
What did I do wrong? I literally copy and pasted an unknown botb thread from another blackpill forum and it just died after getting 1 response saying: dnrd

Idk I can accept that a lot of my high effort threads get largely ignored but this is going a bit far.

 

[goat2x]

@goat2x @defaya
You two seem to understand this place much better than me.
What did I do wrong? I literally copy and pasted an unknown botb thread from another blackpill forum and it just died after getting 1 response saying: dnrd

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Idk I can accept that a lot of my high effort threads get largely ignored but this is going a bit far.

what do you want to know

 

[Deleted member 10413]

what do you want to know

What could I have done differently because I plan on doing alot more high effort threads in the future and it would be unfortunate if they were ignored to this extent.

 

[goat2x]

What could I have done differently because I plan on doing alot more high effort threads in the future and it would be unfortunate if they were ignored to this extent.

post it in looksmax

 

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@goat2x @defaya
You two seem to understand this place much better than me.
What did I do wrong? I literally copy and pasted an unknown botb thread from another blackpill forum and it just died after getting 1 response saying: dnrd

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Idk I can accept that a lot of my high effort threads get largely ignored but this is going a bit far.

because this thread doesnt help anyone. We know you are treated differently based on your looks. Thats why we looksmax.

 

[goat2x]

What could I have done differently because I plan on doing alot more high effort threads in the future and it would be unfortunate if they were ignored to this extent.

also this is water therad