Cortisol Max

[subiva]

Any tips on how to mange cortisol while taking to people like your parents. Maybe it's because Im diagnosed as ND, but I have always been a very logical person. Speaking to my parents they seem so illogical, and it has become extremely difficult to communicate with them. Don't worry they didn't find my peptides or see me ordering steroids, but even the simplest things we get into arguments. For example I'm getting a pallet expander (FME), and we need CBCT scans. I asked them if we could go with someone who specializes in CBCT scans rather than just my dentist. They insisted we go to the dentist, as they said they could give me what I needed, I was extremely hesitant but wasn't going to argue it no more. Guess what they gave us, incomplete scans, then I asked if we could do another one with someone who specializes in scans for the second time . Again they said let's ask the same dentist again maybe they just had the wrong format or let's just ask my dentist if he could do it. I don't understand how they don't see that we are basically making the same mistake twice and if we do it once with someone who specializes in this, we could get it done cheaper, quicker, and less of a headache. Idk need the help, how to have less arguments and build a better relationship. Don't say stupid shit, need real advice.

 

[subiva]

also any time i say could you explain that decision to me I don't understand the logic. They just say the logic is that your obsessed and stubborn.

 

[hrdcappedltn]

Any tips on how to mange cortisol while taking to people like your parents. Maybe it's because Im diagnosed as ND, but I have always been a very logical person. Speaking to my parents they seem so illogical, and it has become extremely difficult to communicate with them. Don't worry they didn't find my peptides or see me ordering steroids, but even the simplest things we get into arguments. For example I'm getting a pallet expander (FME), and we need CBCT scans. I asked them if we could go with someone who specializes in CBCT scans rather than just my dentist. They insisted we go to the dentist, as they said they could give me what I needed, I was extremely hesitant but wasn't going to argue it no more. Guess what they gave us, incomplete scans, then I asked if we could do another one with someone who specializes in scans for the second time . Again they said let's ask the same dentist again maybe they just had the wrong format or let's just ask my dentist if he could do it. I don't understand how they don't see that we are basically making the same mistake twice and if we do it once with someone who specializes in this, we could get it done cheaper, quicker, and less of a headache. Idk need the help, how to have less arguments and build a better relationship. Don't say stupid shit, need real advice.

Don’t view your parents as transactions (eg you need to get something out of a conversation with them). Even if you think they are retarded, which is likely not true—you’re probably being hypocritical—you need to find ways to love them better and you will start realizing they love you, even if they don’t show it. Give them gratitude, thank them for meals for example. Update them on your life or ask them how their day was. Accept who they are as people, because this is not going to change, and recognize that not only maybe do they not fully understand you, as it is hard to understand ND people all the time (no hate, just NT truth pill) but you don’t fully understand them. The longer you think you are trapped in an iqcel hell the more that comes to reality .

 

[subiva]

Don’t view your parents as transactions (eg you need to get something out of a conversation with them). Even if you think they are retarded, which is likely not true—you’re probably being hypocritical—you need to find ways to love them better and you will start realizing they love you, even if they don’t show it. Give them gratitude, thank them for meals for example. Update them on your life or ask them how their day was. Accept who they are as people, because this is not going to change, and recognize that not only maybe do they not fully understand you, as it is hard to understand ND people all the time (no hate, just NT truth pill) but you don’t fully understand them. The longer you think you are trapped in an iqcel hell the more that comes to reality .

Thanks I been viewing it in the wrong way. I was thinking I should just leave the house more less interactions means less arguments, but I don't think that's the right method now. I really appreciate it and I will start to implement what you put.

 

[hrdcappedltn]

Thanks I been viewing it in the wrong way. I was thinking I should just leave the house more less interactions means less arguments, but I don't think that's the right method now. I really appreciate it and I will start to implement what you put.

Of course. Leave reaction for rep boost? (JFL, hope all things work out for you and your parents)